I do supply a wet bag, and flushable liners so I don't think I can do any more really. If she insists on disposables then she will have to pay for them herself. I think I am more concerned about what it says about her . In the meantime I m looking out for someone else, I think. thanks everyone, sometimes I think I am the nutty one for trying to do something that just mighthelp save our children's planet!!!