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AIBU?

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To be peed off with people who start a new thread, asking people to look at a link.....

28 replies

Word · 12/09/2008 18:09

.... which then turns out to be a previous thread they started?

Just BUMP YOUR ORIGINAL ONE, FFS.

Or take the hint that people weren't interested enough to post in the first place.

OP posts:
Sycamoretree · 12/09/2008 18:11

examples please!

FlippingFlip · 12/09/2008 18:12

Get a grip.

FlippingFlip · 12/09/2008 18:13

please tell me how this affects you, personally.

Word · 12/09/2008 18:14

Example as follows:

sorry, now it looks like I'm picking on Cheesesarnie but in actual fact, I've seen this a few times.

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Word · 12/09/2008 18:16

Flippingflip - I'll tell you how this affects me.

I don't like to be ignored in RL or on here, so I make it my mission to check out the unanswered threads.

However, when it turns out that it's a link to a previous thread, I feel my time has been wasted.

Go on, come out with your, "oooh, 3 precious seconds, gone"....

OP posts:
thesockmonsterofdoom · 12/09/2008 18:16

YABvU, i people need help with somethig quickly then i think it is fine.

lulumama · 12/09/2008 18:16

i can;t get about it

meh

yabu

Word · 12/09/2008 18:18

sockmonster - what's wrong with bumping the original thread, then?

That way, people know what they're looking at - and those in a position to help, can go straight to the thread!!!!!

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thesockmonsterofdoom · 12/09/2008 18:19

I have done it before, started a thread and noone has answered and I have really needed quick opinions on something so started another in chat with a link.

HarryAndRon · 12/09/2008 18:24

is the full moon getting fuller now???

people are getting more ranty over very simple things

YABU IMO. tis not a problem for me. and sometimes people ask it in a jokey way, like asking if they have the plague (kerrymum last night for EG), or if they smell.

BoysAreLikeDogs · 12/09/2008 18:27

[shrug]

If you get this upset then it may be time to Step Back and Switch Off, no?

zippitippitoes · 12/09/2008 18:29

i just think yippee i wanted to ignore that thread twice

Word · 12/09/2008 18:50

I happen to think it's against the spirit of MN to ask, "blimey, have you seen this?" - which I find is nothing but a very deliberate attempt to tempt people to look at a totally irrelevant (to them (-because they have no experience in the matter)) thread.

OP posts:
RonAndHarry · 12/09/2008 18:51

Nah, sometimes the original title is dull, and you only realise when you get no reply. If you then post one with a decent title, people look and help with the op

Word · 12/09/2008 18:52

In the case of this example, the OP could have surely got more replies from people who could help, by posting "HELP WANTED WITH COMPUTER" or such like.

Neither thread title gave any indication that it was to do with computer problems at all.

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Word · 12/09/2008 19:17

Lulumama - actually, it wasn't a big glass of wine, it was a rum

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ScottishMummy · 12/09/2008 19:25

you're contradicting yourself,as you were interested to look & you prowl the unanswered threads

anyhoo no biggie imo, but if it has distracted you from your wine then YANBU

Yanda · 12/09/2008 20:10

Meh.

twinsetandpearls · 12/09/2008 20:12

Sometimes I link to an original thread when the situation is linked and it saves typing everything out again.

Not something that bothers me when others do it.

twinsetandpearls · 12/09/2008 20:14

Bang out of order to single out a poster.

WigWamBam · 12/09/2008 20:16

Life's too damned short to get so wound up about something so trivial.

IMO.

Word · 12/09/2008 20:19

twinset - maybe, but I was asked for specific examples... and I did and still do apologise for the singling out. Feel free to have it deleted if you think it that wrong.

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twinsetandpearls · 12/09/2008 20:28

I don;t do the delete posts thing, think we should all have the common sense to self censor.

masalachameleon · 12/09/2008 20:32

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

MuggleBorn · 12/09/2008 20:34

HarryAndRon
RonAndHarry, what do you think of my new guise?

As you were.