to think these men beahved disgustingly and to leave because I was appalled. I mean ffs my ds who is 16 knows better.

[2shoes]

went to a prty at a pub/hotel place last night. was a grown up party and bar about 4 guests all others wer over 20.
Wnt out to have a fag with dh. I was the only female but it was at the entrace.
turned round and saw a prick........yest a penis in a mans hand as he pissed against the wall.right at the entrance
I was shocled. even more so to see the party ladyies dh satanding talking to him(my BIL)
dh was also shocked and even more so when some one else did it.
now are we prudes to think this is well out of order. (there were working toilets and a massive carpark)
So come on AIBU?????????

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2shoes - only read your OP, but it sounds disgusting. There is a lovely cut-through to the baker's where I live and only people who don't live here use it on a Saturday morning as it stinks of piss and the council have to come out with toilet bleach and swill it out on a regular basis. Is foul. On a similar level to dog-fouling.

I agree with you 2shoes, if you are going to do something like that then at leat shave the discretion to do it where you cannot be seen, but why do it when there is a toilet nearby? I think the guy was taking the piss (iykwim)
I once saw a guy pissing on someones drive on a main road at 9am one morning, can of lager in one hand his knob in the other.

Or a telephone box - although of course there aren't many of those left now.

I think pissing in the street when there are no loos available is not nice but sometimes unavoidable. But this bloke sounds like a dick. I would have said something like 'Bit young for prostate trouble aren't you? Or did your mum not like you enough to toilet train you?'

And I have every now and again had to let DS piss in the bushes when the park loos are locked, but then he is not quite 4 and little kids really can't hold on for very long when they need to go.

Well if someone was at my Party and pissed in the entrance I would be very pissed off (excuse the pun). However general pissing in public is apparently OK with Mnetters so I am obvously a bit of a prude.

I posted recently about a man peeing in the playpark and was told in no uncertain terms that I was being unreasonable to object.

I still think YANBU if you can honestly say you have never done this or anything similar. Pissing in public is disgusting but doing it in the doorway of a pub/club/party whatever is even worse. For goodness sake - tie a knot in it and go to a dark corner!