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AIBU?

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Original poster

to think these men beahved disgustingly and to leave because I was appalled. I mean ffs my ds who is 16 knows better.

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2shoes · 07/09/2008 12:56

went to a prty at a pub/hotel place last night. was a grown up party and bar about 4 guests all others wer over 20.
Wnt out to have a fag with dh. I was the only female but it was at the entrace.
turned round and saw a prick........yest a penis in a mans hand as he pissed against the wall.right at the entrance
I was shocled. even more so to see the party ladyies dh satanding talking to him(my BIL)
dh was also shocked and even more so when some one else did it.
now are we prudes to think this is well out of order. (there were working toilets and a massive carpark)
So come on AIBU?????????

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FabioBadAssCat · 07/09/2008 13:12

very much hope cod's squaddies caught on cctv and played forevermore on YouTube

FluffyMummy123 · 07/09/2008 13:13

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onepieceoflollipop · 07/09/2008 13:13

It's not so much the decency aspect imo.

It is the arrogance and the "showing off" kind of behaviour. Even if there are genuinely no toilets nearby, most adults would be able to wait, or in a real emergency go somewhere more private.

I once saw 2 men wandering down a residential street, in the daytime, clearly intoxicated. They were literally peeing as the staggered along - penises out spraying everywhere. Completely unacceptable. They could at the very least found an entry/tree or whatever.

A bus driver here was sacked recently for abandoning the bus and going off to "relieve himself" in a fairly public place. Passengers claimed that he opened his bowels but he denied that part. Btw he did not cite illness as a reason.

FluffyMummy123 · 07/09/2008 13:14

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FabioBadAssCat · 07/09/2008 13:14

heh hehe heheh

I am free to pee liberally about the neighbourhood.

lol at begging to be streaked across.

onepieceoflollipop · 07/09/2008 13:14

lol at "cat's bum face" Hope you really scared them Cod.

FluffyMummy123 · 07/09/2008 13:15

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morningpaper · 07/09/2008 13:15

No I am referring to the party I was at last night when I did my public order offence

onepieceoflollipop · 07/09/2008 13:16

I was trying to be polite! Poo/poop some people think is childish, and I don't like the more "sweary" type words. (and I am a nurse after all)

FabioBadAssCat · 07/09/2008 13:16

It'd better not be my bum.

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expatinscotland · 07/09/2008 13:17

My mother's sister is now a retired flight attendant for an international airline.

One of her more memorable flights took place shortly before her retirement.

It was to Brazil from Miami.

A first class passenger got drunk and disorderly and when he was refused service of more booze, he took down his trousers and pooped all over a drinks trolley.

Now he thought this was really funny.

Until the captain came out and cuffed him to the seat.

Then turned the plane round and landed back in Florida, where federal agents escorted him off in cuffs and he faced federal charges, not to mention some of his more angry countrymen threatening to kill him if and when he ever got back to Brazil.

onepieceoflollipop · 07/09/2008 13:18

expat that is What a disgusting man.

Now I would have typed that he "opened his bowels" all over the trolley to make Cod laugh a bit more.

expatinscotland · 07/09/2008 13:19

it was a loose bowel movement, too, onepiece .

she saw some gross stuff in her career, but that was one of the worst.

onepieceoflollipop · 07/09/2008 13:23

A loose poop? eeeek

(and I have seen many loose poops in my time; but only as part of my job or with my young children so that is ok. In her job it's not exactly part of the job description is it?)

onager · 07/09/2008 13:28

Quite an overreaction. The guy should have found somewhere more secluded (or found the toilets) but I remember that back on the days I used to drink that alcohol can make it suddenly very urgent. He was probably grateful that he made it outside.

I can see that you don't want pools of urine where you have to walk, but if three dog owners had been standing there talking and their dogs had done the same thing would you have been disgusted?

StayFrosty · 07/09/2008 13:35

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onepieceoflollipop · 07/09/2008 13:37

Yes exactly Frosty.

onebatmother · 07/09/2008 13:47

"yes altho mostyl done by fixed panlties now"

I read this as 'fixed panties' - which would be quite a neat solution.

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2shoes · 07/09/2008 13:47

i wasn't hysterical we left because it summed the party up. we were bored.
I wasn't bothered by the ma in a kilt who was flashing. he was just having a laugh.

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onager · 07/09/2008 14:01

StayFrosty, I'm a man and I have experienced this effect so I know it to be very real. Women do pee outside too as it goes. More often nowadays I understand though I don't go to pubs any more. They also throw up on the pavement and flash their bits and swear.

Actually I'd be interested to know if there are physical differences regarding the urgency. I think it was just that men drank pints while women sipped cocktails. Hence the increase in women peeing now.

bloomingfedup · 07/09/2008 14:04

YABU - no biggie, disgusiting -yes but over reaction or what.

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