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AIBU?

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to think these men beahved disgustingly and to leave because I was appalled. I mean ffs my ds who is 16 knows better.

83 replies

2shoes · 07/09/2008 12:56

went to a prty at a pub/hotel place last night. was a grown up party and bar about 4 guests all others wer over 20.
Wnt out to have a fag with dh. I was the only female but it was at the entrace.
turned round and saw a prick........yest a penis in a mans hand as he pissed against the wall.right at the entrance
I was shocled. even more so to see the party ladyies dh satanding talking to him(my BIL)
dh was also shocked and even more so when some one else did it.
now are we prudes to think this is well out of order. (there were working toilets and a massive carpark)
So come on AIBU?????????

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LittleBella · 07/09/2008 14:38

s'all about arrogance innit

Disgusting behaviour because it's a 2 fingers to everyone else - it shows contempt for the rest of the world.

It's not what civilised drunk men do. It's what dickheads do. I wouldn't want to be at the same party as them either.

There's a difference between being caught short and desperate, and choosing to spray like a tomcat.

IWishIWasMaryPoppins · 07/09/2008 14:54

YANBU!

It is uncivilised and disgusting behavior! Did their mothers' forget to potty train them?! And do I read correctly - they urinated in the doorway - could at least find a quiet corner or bush to hide behind. This type of arrogance is such a bore - I would have left too.

Although, streaking - in the right context - I wouldn't have a problem with, which perhaps I ought to!

islandlassie · 07/09/2008 15:00

if it was anywhere else but a pub i would say it was outrageous!

pub...not the worst thing they could have dont but deffinately not nice.

you didnt apprecieate it...you left...fine...

YANBU

Upwind · 07/09/2008 17:29

I think you overreacted. It is not nice, appropriate or decent behaviour on their part, but to be so appalled that you left the party? YABU

bloomingfedup · 07/09/2008 17:29

Smoking is a lot worse, at least there not breathing posion over everyone else.

expatinscotland · 07/09/2008 17:36

oh, yes, exposing your cock to everyone and pissing all over someone's plants is totally harmless .

bloomingfedup · 07/09/2008 17:40

expat - he had said cock in his hand, unless onlookers were staring at it they would'nt have seen much. So as long as the plants are ok, its alright tp smoke around non -smokers. In fact don't answer - have read what you think on the other smoking thread.

expatinscotland · 07/09/2008 17:41

she saw his cock, bloomin.

it's illegal.

smoking outside is not.

i can answer if i feel like it, too.

Upwind · 07/09/2008 17:50

"yes, exposing your cock to everyone and pissing all over someone's plants is totally harmless"

yes it really is harmless! They were not flashing people, they were having a wee against a wall. Urine is sterile and would fertilise the plants nicely

smoking is a dirtier habit & neither smoking nor public peeing should be encouraged!

VictorianSqualor · 07/09/2008 17:54

Filthy.
It's not nice and not necessary, FGS.

expatinscotland · 07/09/2008 17:55

there is a toilet in the building for taking a piss, Upwind.

harmless?

do you realise what Britons' reputation is abroad for drunken behaviour like this?

i can assure you, it's not good.

anytime you take your dick out in plain sight you're exposing yourself, that's why as cod pointed out, it's an offense.

i don't smoke. i gave up in 2002.

but it's legal and people do it outside because it's banned inside.

there's no other place for them to do it.

v. using a friggin' toilet purpose-built for people to pee in so the wastes gets treated in a proper manner rather than peeing against a flippin' wall.

FabioBadAssCat · 07/09/2008 17:58

Hope I didn't ruin your shoes or make you smell like a tramp there, people.

at expat's flight attendant story
though I rather think they should've cuffed him to the trolley
face down

I wouldn't go into a pub if I saw someone pissing on the front doorstep.
Not on.
[catbum face]

littlelapin · 07/09/2008 18:01

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expatinscotland · 07/09/2008 18:02

exactly, ll!

if i were approaching a drinking establishment, though, and the first thing i saw were men pissing against the wall, however, i wouldn't go in.

not the kind of place i'd want to drink in, tbh.

and everyone knows i like a drink.

VictorianSqualor · 07/09/2008 18:04

Same here. When I go to a pub I expect it to look lively inside, but people to be inside, not pissing up the wall outside.

Countingthegreyhairs · 07/09/2008 18:14

in my experience a lot of men outside the UK in mainland Europe (especially Belgium and France) do pee in public more than in the UK

but they just don't go in for as much drunken falling about beforehand

noddyholder · 07/09/2008 18:17

I would agree its disgusting but would probably have stayed at the party anyway

2shoesisabirdkillerpart2 · 07/09/2008 18:22

wow.
Have to say I am suprised that so many people think I was BU.
now tbh we didn't leave because of that incident. just left because it was a bit dull by that time. just wanted to really find out what people thought. I did wonder if I was being a bit of a prude to be shocked(maybe being stone cold sober had something to do with it) so I asked on here. so it seems I abu. fair enough.
nest time I go to a party I will make sure I am not driving and I can have a drink.

FabioBadAssCat · 07/09/2008 18:26

YANBU!

pissing at entrance to pub/hotel is vile
find a bush!

[fnarr]

littlelapin · 07/09/2008 18:28

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2shoesisabirdkillerpart2 · 07/09/2008 18:30

thanks littlewotsit
I think it shocked me more as it wasn't raining and they only had to walk a little bit and they would have been out of sight.

MABS · 07/09/2008 19:06

was it worth lookin at 2shoes? see , you should have come to the brigton meet ystdy after all.

chenin · 07/09/2008 20:09

Absolutely totally vile in my opinion. Bloody hell, what is this country coming to..

A bloke gets his todger out and pisses against a wall while his female companions carry on chatting to him? Disgusting and I would have told the bloke so. Why didn't he just have a wank while he was at it...

WallOfSilence · 07/09/2008 21:01

One night outside a club this guy was trying to get off with a friend of mine..she was so not interested.. but apparently he thought it didn't matter, he could have her if he wanted.

Anyway, he pulled his knob out & went for a pee, I loudly said he was disgusting so that made lots of people turn & look at him.

He called me a dwarf in a coat of many colours...
(I'm 4ft 10 & was wearing a coloured top)

I spat in his beer though

MrsMuddle · 07/09/2008 21:02

I had a friend who got caught pissing in an alley in Glasgow city centre (it was very late, and he was very drunk).

To cut a long story short, he got charged with breach of the peace and then many years later when he got offered a job in the US, he wasn't allowed into the country. All because of a drunken student piss.