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to be annoyed at strangers touching my children in their buggy?

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penona · 19/08/2008 18:42

A man literally stopped me in the street today, blocked my path, and then peered into the buggy and we went through the usual 'Are they twins?' (yes) 'Two boys?' (No the one in pink is a girl...) 'Are they identical?' (no, it's a boy and a girl).... and then he leaned in and STROKED my daughters face and started to stroke my sons foot! All the while cooing aren't they lovely etc etc. I just stared in shock and did not know what to do.

In the end my DD screamed so loudly he backed off apologising.

What is the etiquette here? Lean over and yank at his moustache and say 'Oh how bristly' or something? Ask him politely not too touch them please? I couldn't very well run away with a double buggy in tow.

Or was he just being friendly and I am being a bit precious? (This happens quite often to me so I should learn to deal with it).

Please tell me if IABU!!!!

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seeker · 19/08/2008 22:24

I wouldn't, but then I have small children,a nd I'm not a lonely baby-deprived granny. I am delighted if my children can give joy to other people - it takes a village and all that.....

By the way, if you don;t like strangers doting on, cuddling, feeding and generally spoiling your children don't, for the love of life, ever go to Italy!!!

penona · 19/08/2008 22:31

Bloss - if babies are a gift to be enjoyed by everyone perhaps someone could come and enjoy them at 3am Seriously, where do you live? I am in London, and people don't seem that friendly. Hence why I do like to stop and chat to strangers when I can - people never even look at each other normally! Having a child does make me feel more part of the local community; defintely talk to people around me more.

bohemianbint - I would never touch a stranger's child but do often coo/chat/pick up toys etc. But I guess that is obvious from my opening post!

Oh and if George Clooney came and cooed over my kids I would say 'please touch me first so I can make sure you are gentle'.

I am quite surprised that I am beginning to change my mind and see today a little differently.

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SalLikesCoffee · 19/08/2008 22:41

Lol @ penona test driving George Clooney