to be sad that dh said

[AliceThroughtheLookingGlass]

'we can make an appointment to see

........granny'

1 no she does not work

2 yes she is in good health

3yes she lives very locally

Why does this bother you? It's only polite to check with someone first before visiting.

she only lives next door

and am feeling ill today and she is always busy

sorry not a ggod day to start this thread

she has broken lots of promises to ds

'to take him out

I would always check before visting someone

So the fact that she has broken lots of promises to your ds is bothering you. THat would bother me too.

And never live next door to your in laws! Not a good idea.

ps it is her only granchild...dd is from my first marriage

and we will also be moving in a few months

thank you for answering

no it was a very silly idea

seemed a good idea,,when a thousand miles away

need to get my head straight I have lots to sort out