That he has done this?

[fifibella]

Just been on internet browsing friends reunited and noticed that FIL has put 3 photos of dd (she's 2) on his home page and a video of her. He hasn't asked permission. Do you think I'm being unreasonable.

As far as I know, only people who you have agreed to be your 'friends' can look at photos on your profile. So I think YAB a bit U

What's the difference between seeing her, and seeing photos of her?

I wouldn't worry about him taking hundreds of photos of her and not putting them up in the house - we do the same, as do my parents.