to be p'd off when someone looks at my stomach to check and then says 'is it time for another baby'

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An acquaintance said to me today 'how's baby' and I said 'oh he's great, actually he's not really a baby anymore, he's 3'.
Fine and it was nice of him to ask.

But then he looked at my stomach and then up at my face and said 'isn't it time for another then?'

Why did he need to look at my stomach?

As a matter of fact I can't have more children without lengthy IVF etc but I didn't think it was any of his business so didn't say that!

Grrrr....rant over.

I know that people are often genuinely curious etc but it is annoying!

Yes it is anoying, I'm in the same boat as you. I just feel so blessed to have my daughter. Why do people just asume you are going to have another?
I don't know why he looked at your stomach though Strange man.

we have a crazy irish friend whose lovely but she always rubs my tummy and says you need another baby everytime she does it i feel like a fat old cow

anotherday - my friend who will only ever have one child has a crackin reply - 'no no more for us - you cant improve on perfection'

That is a good line - I might use that one!

Yep MLL very weird that he looked at my stomach ...what was he expecting to see!??