Argement last night, opposing points of view.
I was going out, dh had known about it for ages and all importantly it was on the calendar (this is the word of the lord in our house, if it's not on it doesn't happen, this is dhs ocd not mine). I was due to be where i was going at 8.00pm. 20 min walk away and needed 20 min to get ready (I'm low maintenance).
Dh was faffing about as usual going out to put petrol in his car at 7.10 I asked him totake over bathtime so i could get ready at 7.35pm he asked me to read the stories so he could go out to get fish and chips!!!
I was mad because I felt in wanting to do this he had no respect for my plans and would ultimately make me late. he said "it'll only take 10 mins" this is bollox. I pointed out I'd never been in that chippie less than 25 mins. Then it was "so what if you're a few minutes late" which made me fume, yes 5 minutes or so doesn't matter but actively doing something that might make me late is disrepectful.
The argement then went off at various tangents ie why was he going to the chippie when we'd just had a shopping delivery etc. (I get sick of chucking mouldy food away cos dh would rather have take-aways).
In the end he got his mate to come round so he could go out to the chippie!!!
Who was right, me or him??