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DPs been invited but I havn't.. yet again. What do you all think of this?

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luvlymummy · 06/07/2008 17:03

I've done a name change coz don't like slagging DP off.

He's always getting invited to family parties, christenings, goes with his family and friends to funerals, and other stuff, and I never get asked. We also have a child together and it seems I'm expected to stay at home and look after the baby- neither of us get invited. Why is this???? I don't know his friends or half his family and i feel like an outcast.

We've been together ages. It seems he doesn't want me there or I don't get invited, one or the other and I don't know which. When I asked him about it he said he's so sorry he didn't know I thought that and that he's new to this couples thing so he hadn't realised. Nothing's changed though.

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TotalChaos · 09/07/2008 20:40

do you ever go out anywhere other than asda with him and the baby?

cheeset · 09/07/2008 21:01

Shocked you are giving it this much thought BUT in a good way IYSWIM.

Totally outraged at you feeling this way considering you have a child together

I just can't believe it! Next time there is a 'family doo' your going ok

Just GO! Don't think about anything ie the whys and wherefors. As long as you use the 'I'm alright' attitude and hold your head high, people will assume you have a right to be there, because you have!

Thankyouandgoodnight · 10/07/2008 21:26

Are you sure there really is a family do and not an excuse for a night / day out with the lads?

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