To want to live in a pigsty on the basis it may be cleaner than my home? (a rant)

[dilemma456]

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hmm probably for a very long time unfortunately, boys really dont seem to find festering in their own crap. I would be going insane if i was you! im sorry i cant give you any good advice!

though you could always stick it all in a bin liner, hide it and tell him that you really chucked the lot, see if that sorts him out.

No YANBU.

I don't have any advice though as my DH is a tidying, cleaning freak and I love him for it.

If I were you I'd move into a nice 5 star hotel for a couple of weeks, get waited on hand and foot, have a couple of Swedish massages. Chill out with some fine food and wine and let your DP stew a bit

Oh and take his credit card for good measure

Just pick up everything he's dropped on the floor, clothes, rubbish etc and bung it all in a bin bag. Put it on his side of the bed and say "here you go darling this is yours," Also STOP doing his washing he'll soon realise something is up.

how old is dc?

still impressionable to instal a cleaning habit.

rule in my house is if old enough to get it out, old enough to put it back

applies to toys, clothing, bathroom stuff

dilemma I'm coming with you, pigsty beats my pit anyday. I have 2 dcs, no pets and would make a good pig sty sharer if you need help with the rent!

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Oh aye, that'll do for me!