How do you get an assessment for dysgraphia? I have no clue where to start.
My DS is 15.
He holds a pen in a most unusual way. I can't even understand how he manages to write whilst holding it the way he does. His fingers wrap round the pen in a sort of claw grip and his thumb.wraps right round over the top of his fingers. How he manages to write legibly like this I don't know. He presses overly hard on to the paper with his pen. He says his hand and wrist start hurting quite quickly when writing.
He holds his cutlery wrong. He doesn't hold it correctly in his grip despite a lifetime of me correcting him. He also holds his knife and fork in the wrong hands, the wrong way round, which is bizarre. He's right handed, but holds his fork in his right hand and knife in his left hand. When I correct him and tell him to swap his knife and fork round, and teach him how to properly hold his cutlery, he can't do it and gets instantly stressed.
Is this Dysgraphia? I've only just heard of this. Until now I thought he was just unable to be taught how to hold pens and cutlery.
Now I wonder if there's actually a cause?
I know this is a bit unusual but does anyone else have any experience?
How do you get teenagers assessed?
Thank you!