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Ghoster returns

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Megacute · 07/11/2026 15:54

Best come back to a man who messed me around, then vanished, and has come back with tail between his legs after his acrimonious divorce came through?

I wasn’t the other woman, by the way. I met him while his divorce was going through.

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Mycatsfeetsmell · 07/11/2026 15:55

Nothing
No response

Thedam · 07/11/2026 15:56

And I’m surprised you have even been bothered to start a thread about it

Pansykavalier · 07/11/2026 15:56

Block and ignore

Rainingasusual · 07/11/2026 16:03

I wouldn't let him know he has any significance to you whatsoever. Dont reply, ignore him, it's the same energy he gave you when he ghosted.

twoyearsleft · 07/11/2026 16:31

That ship has sailed love! Then block.

Thedam · 07/11/2026 16:32

twoyearsleft · 07/11/2026 16:31

That ship has sailed love! Then block.

If someone is starting a thread about it… the ship definitely hasn’t sailed I would guess

Lexibletheflexible · 07/11/2026 20:34

I mean, it sounds like he had a lot going on. Hiw established was your relationship before he ghosted you?

Mum2Fergus · 07/11/2026 20:36

Ignore and block.

UncannyFanny · 07/11/2026 20:38

Usual Mumsnet double standards. Of course if it was a woman everyone would be urging you to give her a chance because maybe she just wasn’t ready to date while going through the divorce, but because it’s a man….🙄

Springtimeinsunshine · 07/11/2026 20:43

UncannyFanny · 07/11/2026 20:38

Usual Mumsnet double standards. Of course if it was a woman everyone would be urging you to give her a chance because maybe she just wasn’t ready to date while going through the divorce, but because it’s a man….🙄

Can you link to those kind of responses or are you just talking out of your backside?

OP - block and ignore.

HRTQueen · 07/11/2026 20:50

Ignore and block

he isn’t worth any of your time and will have done this over and over again knowing some women will engage with him don’t be one of them

UncannyFanny · Yesterday 19:41

Springtimeinsunshine · 07/11/2026 20:43

Can you link to those kind of responses or are you just talking out of your backside?

OP - block and ignore.

Someone touch a nerve?

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