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To be jealous of older generations who were able to buy houses because their bosses exaggerated their salaries?

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HonestTealPoster · Today 09:05

Yesterday I was at the spa and got talking to a man who was older than me (I’m 33 and I’d put him in his early 50s at most).

He told me that when he was in his 20s, he and his friend were able to buy properties in the area of South London where I grew up.

Despite not earning particularly much at the time, his boss wrote a letter stating that he earned £90,000 a year! He openly admitted that he wasn’t earning anywhere near that amount but the letter helped him secure a mortgage. He also received £5,000 from his grandmother towards the purchase.

I’d heard stories about people being able to do things like this years ago but I’d never actually met someone who’d benefited from it!

I was genuinely gobsmacked. Imagine being able to get on the property ladder like that.

AIBU to feel rather envious of how much easier some people had it when it came to buying their first home?

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KeepPumping · Today 17:09

Winterissilver · Today 16:57

We did this when we bought our last house 14 years ago. DH was working for his families company and his mum got the accountant to write a letter saying he earnt more than he did.

Classic Ponzi scheme behaviour, it is going to unravel big style this time.

https://www.propertywire.com/news/vistry-to-close-12-offices-as-debts-reach-800m/

Vistry to close 12 offices as debts reach £800m - PropertyWire

Housebuilder Vistry is closing 12 of its 25 offices as part of a restructuring aimed at saving £50 million next year. The closures come as the company expects its debts to reach £800 million in the second half of 2027.

https://www.propertywire.com/news/vistry-to-close-12-offices-as-debts-reach-800m/

MyDogHumpsThings · Today 17:09

Jaxhog · Today 13:33

This is actually true! The main difference is that we had less options to fritter our hard earned money on other than housing. No game boys, no computers, only crap on TV, few decent eating out places, fewer still coffee places. Beer was cheap, but pubs were not the family friendly places they are now. Kids were a lot more 'neglected', in that they had to find their own entertainment. No fancy holidays for us; we went camping in Scotland. No mobile phones, no internet, no social media, no high expectations about home cooking. Keeping up with our peers meant scrimping for a nice home.

Our first house was an unmodernised mid terrace in a very grotty area, with no heating, no hot water, no inside bathroom and riddled with rot. We refurbished it ourselves over 2 years. We couldn't even afford a tv, never mind a holiday or eating out. Our furniture was all second hand from the local junk shop. I doubt that you or many of your generation would find this acceptable. So take your so-called 'critical thinking' and get some actual facts.

I'm not brainwashed - I lived through it.

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Of course, all young people today are just stupid - they can’t manage their budgets. That’s the problem!

laughable.

Notanotherrestructure · Today 17:10

It was definitely a thing.

mondaytosunday · Today 17:18

Yes I remember my boss’s secretary asking me how much salary did I want them to put down! I said she could tell the truth. But whatever they said you still had to pay the mortgage, and interest rates were around 14% back then. House values to earnings were cheaper though. My first flat has gone up ten fold but the salary of a person in the job I had then has only tripled.

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