Need a reality check, or a wobble not sure. Interested in general consensus as feeling hormonal today so perhaps I’m not being rational.
Been going out with bf for two years, both divorcees and late 40s. He lives in a block of flats and obviously knows a few of his neighbours. One neighbour is a single mum with a very young kid who takes a shine to my BF, who is really great with kids. They aren’t close friends but BF will get her little one a token birthday gift etc. The single mum doesn’t really know me other than passing conversation when I’m visiting BF, but she knows I exist.
Anyway. She got a family box for a sports match for her immediate family, and her two brothers dropped out so she invited my BF and my BF’s teenage son to go too. Don’t know if she mentioned me when she offered the tickets, it’s my BF’s fave sport and team so wasn’t a stretch as to why she thought of him but I didn’t think they were that close. Found out there was room for two more people, so I could have gone.
Felt uncomfortable about this but haven’t seen BF yet to have a conversation. A good friend said she’d feel uncomfortable too, more so that the girl didn’t acknowledge me.
Trust my BF so I’m not worried about anything happening, but feels a bit off that she’d invite my BF and wondering whether to start being wary or whether this is a normal thing between friends. Like I said, feeling hormonal and sensitive in general today so aware my compass might be a bit off. Or spot on.
Thoughts?