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to be shocked at a mother feeding her 7 and 4 year old DS's yoghurt with a spoon?

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Anna8888 · 02/07/2008 13:04

Franco-American mother I know a little - her DSs are at the same school as my daughter. They were having a picnic lunch in the park yesterday and she fed them each a yoghurt (in its entirety) with a spoon.

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4madboys · 03/07/2008 13:33

FAB IDEA KEWCUMBER :O

and tbh that is my reply to this thread JWDIM.......

coppertop · 03/07/2008 13:41

I'm surprised that level of discrimination is allowed. Then again, actually no I'm not all that surprised.

I wouldn't want any of my children (NT or SN) to attend a school with a policy like that. I'd hate them to grow up thinking that it was acceptable to discriminate against people with disabilities.

Personally I'd be far more concerned about the anti-SN policy than about a 7yr-old being fed with a spoon.

Anna8888 · 03/07/2008 13:49

I think it's just to enable the school to fulfil its primary purpose, which is to educate children bilingually and to integrate non-French speaking/educated children into the French system. I don't think a school like that has also to be all things to all people.

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coppertop · 03/07/2008 13:54

But under that policy a child like ds1 who has a gift for languages (French, German and Korean as well as English) would be refused access because he has ASD.

Dress it up however you like. It's still discrimination.

Anna8888 · 03/07/2008 13:56

coppertop - no, he would be assessed for suitability.

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blueshoes · 03/07/2008 15:33

ah, so then it IS possible for a child with ASD with a gift for languages to be admitted to the same school those 4 and 6 year olds attend, if they have been assessed as suitable.

Therefore, you cannot be absolutely sure one or both do not have SN.

2shoes · 03/07/2008 17:01

congratulations anna. how lovely your darlings will be able to discriminate in 3 languages.

Swedes · 03/07/2008 20:41

Blueshoes - I agree I thought that too and started typing: Anna you are inconsistent. But I lost the will to live.

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