To find DP ick inducing…

[Jenkiu]

Am I being harsh or not? These are a selection of comments from the past month or so…

-We were at a car dealership looking at a new car for me and he referred to SUV’s as ‘milf-mobiles’ saying that’s what the school run mums drive. The salesman we were speaking with awkwardly laughed.

-Made a ‘joke’ about an item of food he ordered when the waiter put it in front of him, ‘that’ll be the farts later then’. Just what you want to hear when about to eat.

-Used the term ‘front bottom’.

Any thoughts on whether I’m being harsh?!

It's only been 9 months, hopefully you don't live with him so he's easier to dump

By paying attention to what they say? It's not exactly a special insight. People don't usually disguise their sense of humour that well.

I have the ick and I’ve never even met him.

Yuk , he sounds vile

'That'll be the farts later then' doesn't even sound like words spoken by someone familiar with the English language. What will be the farts? The food? No, farts are made of gas. And why would anyone say that?

He sounds idiotic and like he can barely string a coherent sentence together.

A real romantic!

Possibly, but really if it is cringe -inducing to you that is the measure- tell him, or escape.