To find DP ick inducing…

[Jenkiu]

Am I being harsh or not? These are a selection of comments from the past month or so…

-We were at a car dealership looking at a new car for me and he referred to SUV’s as ‘milf-mobiles’ saying that’s what the school run mums drive. The salesman we were speaking with awkwardly laughed.

-Made a ‘joke’ about an item of food he ordered when the waiter put it in front of him, ‘that’ll be the farts later then’. Just what you want to hear when about to eat.

-Used the term ‘front bottom’.

Any thoughts on whether I’m being harsh?!

You’ll have to share how you manage to get such an insight at the pre-dating stage - I’d love such a crystal ball! x

Well done.

No going back once the Ick sets it. You don't need an excuse to finish it if it's not working for you.

Yeah he’s just not funny at all. Just cringe worthy.

Sorry I laughed at 'milf-mobiles'.

I laughed at 'milf-mobiles'

So did I, but I have the sense of humour of a twelve year old boy, although I don't appreciate fart jokes. 'Front bottom' is the sort of thing my prudish mother would say.

OP, it's nine months in and he's starting to relax around you and show who he really is. Dump him if you don't like his humour.

Revolting puerile man. Do yourself a favour and dump.

I like men that make me laugh, so wouldn't have been interested in your dh and his unfunny jokes.

I think he has always been like this but has got a bit comfortable and let his guard down

😂

I think, 'milf mobile' is pretty funny and Id snigger.
The fart thing Id probably roll my eyes.
The front bottom thing - if its just referring to a minge then I woudl get the ick at the term. But if it is to refer to a fat woman who is so big she looks like her arse is on her front, I think thats ok as Ive used that term. (I will get slated for that Im sure).

Im very immature though and very un-PC. And no I dont think im 'cool'. Far from it.

Why are you dating a 9-year old?

Shudder
You deserve better!

Front bottom? Just no!!!!

Haha. I’m stealing this for when DH has annoyed me and wants sex 🤣🤣

people who enjoy toilet humour don't tend to hold it in for nine months

< immature snigger >

You beat me to it
What a prick!!
I couldn't listen to that.

LTB

I mean I don't love any of those phrases but on the basis of that alone if he's a decent person and you're into him I'd probably just stick it out. That said once the ick hits its hard to get rid of it.

He's rendered himself unfuckable, so no reason to go on any more dates with him, is there?
Saying he wants to fuck women with kids (milf), commenting on a strangers vulva, talking about his farts- he's trying to be repulsive.

Trying to 'stick it out' just to have a boyfriend like @Dontkeepcalmbutcarryonanyway would, would be pretty embarrassing

Milf mobile did make me laugh I’m immature as fuck I can’t lie, but it didn’t need to be said infront of the salesman that’s icky
Front bottom and the fart one made me pull a face that my partner noticed, he asked if something smells so there’s your answer tho those two. 9 months in I’d just fuck him off tbh.

@UndoRedo I don't know about how much class I have, but I never heard a man say "Milf" in my presence. I'm 47.
Wouldn't stand for this.

I would be cringing also.
Cut him loose.
He sounds dim.

You're actually a misogynist.

I once had a colleague who, when I said me and my family were going for a curry the night before a holiday, said:
”I wouldn’t want to be in the same car as you lot tomorrow! Windows down all the way!” I had to ask her what she meant. It was a fart reference and still gives me the ick when I remember it 10 years on. Humour like that lead me to look for a new job with better colleagues. Bin him.