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To think there are different types of insomnia ...

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brainz · 24/10/2026 13:10

... and that 'sleep experts' and the NHS don't acknowledge this.

I say this after reading a self-help book from a sleep expert, after reading advice from sleep experts online, and after trying an online 'sleep programme' recommended by my GP. In all cases the assumption was that I was going to bed and struggling to fall asleep then waking one or more times in the night and taking a while to drop back off to sleep again. The proposed solution was to go to bed later, so I was 'more tired' and, on waking, get up and do something else (e.g. read a book), until I felt tired again, then go back to bed.

My insomnia doesn't follow that pattern. I fall asleep quickly when I first go to bed around 11, then wake up around 4, and don't go back to sleep. If I go to bed later, I miss out on my best quality sleep. If I get up at 4, then my body clock assumes its morning and I'm just more likely to wake at 4, or earlier, on subsequent nights too.

The sleep programme was very frustrating. It involved filling in a questionnaire every morning to track my sleep experience. It had multi-choice questions, but 'none of the above' wasn't an option, and there was a 'rule' about not ever checking the time during the night, so it tracked inaccurately, and then generated an inaccurate report to send to my GP. I eventually gave up on it.

Anyone else had a similar experience?

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Bearbookagainandagain · 24/10/2026 13:29

Yeah, I wasn't confident when filling the questionnaire and then stop engaging after a few days because it was completely useless for my situation.
It's a cheap way for the NHS to get rid of people on the waiting list. It's also insulting because they imply YOU are the problem.

You can ask your GP for a referral to a proper sleep clinic. Expect a long wait.

ThatFancyFinch · 24/10/2026 13:44

Do you sleep 5 hours and feel like you have slept well and wake up alert? Or is your 5 hours sleep disturbed. I fall asleep at 11pm and wake up 4am/5am everyday and sleep solidly and Wake up very alert ready for the day. - are still feeling tired?

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