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10 year olds more likely to be on disability benefits than 50 year olds

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AgeingMillennial · 16/10/2026 18:07

AIBU to think this is absolutely baffling? And at some point we really have to investigate why so many young children are non verbal, have severe emotional regulation problems etc?

10 year olds more likely to be on disability benefits than 50 year olds
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ThreadGuardDog · 16/10/2026 19:58

BoredZelda · 16/10/2026 19:53

The renewal for DLA is just as strict as the initial claim. They need the same evidence at 12 as they did at 6. If you no longer have consultant or therapist input who can confirm the condition, you will likely not continue to be given benefits.

And a lot of the time this is also the problem when it comes time to transition to PIP at age 16.

AgeingMillennial · 16/10/2026 20:00

Octavia64 · 16/10/2026 19:58

Ok so

dfe says how many children are in reception here:
https://explore-education-statistics.service.gov.uk/data-tables/permalink/489bec15-4dfe-480e-8cd1-08df25240285

spoiler it’s 572,913

i did some interrogation of the dfe data from stat explore. Their data on disabilities is strictly by age which is frankly quite annoying but I’ve got the table for five year olds which should give a reasonable idea and saved it as a permanent link

https://explore-education-statistics.service.gov.uk/data-tables/permalink/24a03ebd-4c97-42eb-4bd7-08df251b5373

so all children aged 5 who might need language support - I have included all children with ASD, profound learning difficulty and any kind of speech and language problem so this sweeps up lots that will be verbal.

link here:
https://explore-education-statistics.service.gov.uk/data-tables/permalink/24a03ebd-4c97-42eb-4bd7-08df251b5373

grand total for this is about 20,000 girls and 47,000 boys, so 67,000 in total.

67,000 out of 572,000 is 1.14 per cent. So about one in seventy children.

That doesn’t match what Speech and Language UK say?

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AgeingMillennial · 16/10/2026 20:00

BoredZelda · 16/10/2026 19:58

There was a massive cluster of cases, spiking over a very small period of time. It was clear there was a very specific problem.

Yes I think that’s happening now.

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boopetboopt · 16/10/2026 20:02

Octavia64 · 16/10/2026 19:58

Ok so

dfe says how many children are in reception here:
https://explore-education-statistics.service.gov.uk/data-tables/permalink/489bec15-4dfe-480e-8cd1-08df25240285

spoiler it’s 572,913

i did some interrogation of the dfe data from stat explore. Their data on disabilities is strictly by age which is frankly quite annoying but I’ve got the table for five year olds which should give a reasonable idea and saved it as a permanent link

https://explore-education-statistics.service.gov.uk/data-tables/permalink/24a03ebd-4c97-42eb-4bd7-08df251b5373

so all children aged 5 who might need language support - I have included all children with ASD, profound learning difficulty and any kind of speech and language problem so this sweeps up lots that will be verbal.

link here:
https://explore-education-statistics.service.gov.uk/data-tables/permalink/24a03ebd-4c97-42eb-4bd7-08df251b5373

grand total for this is about 20,000 girls and 47,000 boys, so 67,000 in total.

67,000 out of 572,000 is 1.14 per cent. So about one in seventy children.

67,000 out of 572,000 is:1 in 11

Fiftyandme · 16/10/2026 20:02

AgeingMillennial · 16/10/2026 19:57

Yes and I think that now with the number of children with non verbal autism. It’s always been around but I see so many now, all the posts about it on here are from the last 5/6 years

Your anecdotal evidence doesn’t reflect the actual statistics though.

There are no more neurodivergent individuals than there used to be.

MrsMurphyIWish · 16/10/2026 20:02

DS is 12. We don’t know why he is autistic - could be genetic but I don’t really know my birth family history but it could down to the fact as he was premature, a knot in the cord and a the cord wrapped around his neck. He would have died decades ago.

AgeingMillennial · 16/10/2026 20:03

boopetboopt · 16/10/2026 20:02

67,000 out of 572,000 is:1 in 11

That sounds more like it

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AgeingMillennial · 16/10/2026 20:03

Fiftyandme · 16/10/2026 20:02

Your anecdotal evidence doesn’t reflect the actual statistics though.

There are no more neurodivergent individuals than there used to be.

I didn’t say neurodivergent

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boopetboopt · 16/10/2026 20:03

Sorry it’s 1 in 11

Fiftyandme · 16/10/2026 20:05

AgeingMillennial · 16/10/2026 20:03

I didn’t say neurodivergent

No you didn’t, you banged on about ‘emotional regulation’ and ‘non-verbal’

AgeingMillennial · 16/10/2026 20:05

boopetboopt · 16/10/2026 20:03

Sorry it’s 1 in 11

Yes that sort of tallies with the DLA stats although I know it won’t all be for that

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AgeingMillennial · 16/10/2026 20:05

Fiftyandme · 16/10/2026 20:05

No you didn’t, you banged on about ‘emotional regulation’ and ‘non-verbal’

That doesn’t mean neurodivergent

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ThreadGuardDog · 16/10/2026 20:05

AgeingMillennial · 16/10/2026 19:51

Is it? Limb differences have always been around.

Yes, but Thalidomide wasn’t a naturally occurring difference. It was directly caused by the drug.

AgeingMillennial · 16/10/2026 20:07

ThreadGuardDog · 16/10/2026 20:05

Yes, but Thalidomide wasn’t a naturally occurring difference. It was directly caused by the drug.

Yes I think there will be an environmental cause for the severe non verbal autism we see now, which they will find one day . I follow a mum of a child like this online, she does a LOT of research into it and she’s convinced it’s environmental (has had full gene studies etc)

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Thatsalineallright · 16/10/2026 20:07

I put a lot down to modern lifestyles. So many things are linked to mental health - diet (sugar, upfs), exercise, routine, gut microbiome, social media, blue light, sunlight, extended family networks, knowing your neighbours, etc etc. The list goes on and on.

On most of those counts we're worse off today than 40 years ago (comparing today's 50 yo with 10 yo).

Acommonreader · 16/10/2026 20:08

AgeingMillennial · 16/10/2026 18:29

But if 1 in 30 kids were non verbal in the past I’m sure we would’ve all known about it, special schools or not. Thats a very high number. It’s very worrying how many adults will need 24/7 care in 15 years

There is more autism now but also kids in past decades were put in residential care. I went to primary school in the late 70s / early 80s. I knew of local two kids my age who went to homes because of their’ behaviour’ .The families kept it quiet and they were never talked about.

Octavia64 · 16/10/2026 20:08

Brokentoes85 · 16/10/2026 19:54

There's no such thing as severe autism and I would love to see the data on that claim pleeeasssssse

Kanner type autism is often referred to as severe autism see eg here
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Classic_autism

the dsm 5 has put Kanner type autism and Asperger’s together under one new diagnosis of autism spectrum disorder with three levels possible.

https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/what-is-autism/the-history-of-autism/asperger-syndrome

under the new diagnostic system of dsm5 severe autism is the lowest of the three levels.

dsm5 is not available online for free so no links sorry.

Asperger syndrome (Asperger’s)

Asperger syndrome is no longer used as a diagnostic term. Historically, it was used to describe some autistic people who did not have a learning disability.

https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/what-is-autism/the-history-of-autism/asperger-syndrome

MrsMurphyIWish · 16/10/2026 20:10

Thatsalineallright · 16/10/2026 20:07

I put a lot down to modern lifestyles. So many things are linked to mental health - diet (sugar, upfs), exercise, routine, gut microbiome, social media, blue light, sunlight, extended family networks, knowing your neighbours, etc etc. The list goes on and on.

On most of those counts we're worse off today than 40 years ago (comparing today's 50 yo with 10 yo).

All of you debating these issues - you realise these are actually people you’re talking about? I’m a parent of a disabled child and I work. Life is tough. It’s awful at times.

BoredZelda · 16/10/2026 20:11

ThreadGuardDog · 16/10/2026 19:58

And a lot of the time this is also the problem when it comes time to transition to PIP at age 16.

Indeed. We are about to switch to ADP from CDP. It’s a worrying time because if she loses it, she loses her car. People will insist that these benefits should only go to the most profoundly disabled people, but in my daughter’s category of “too disabled but not disabled enough” it’s really difficult. She can walk aided sometimes, but sometimes she can’t and uses a wheelchair. She never qualified for 1:1 care at school, but her support needs are so sporadic, there needs to be someone assigned to be there for her when she needs it. She doesn’t need a WAV or adaptions on her car (except a hoist for her wheelchair), but the size of car she needs to carry her wheelchair means it would be impossible to buy a car and get insured for it aged 17. Even though we like in a town, there are no routes she can safely use in her wheelchair to get to a bus stop. She has no access to any suitable sports nearby so if she wants to remain active she needs a gym membership and the means to get there. Any sports she has done cost extra because she needs an instructor and someone to support her. We need adaptions in the house to help her to be able to be independent. We have to buy equipment for her, specialist utensils etc. She goes through shoes and clothes so quickly because they are not designed properly for disabled people. Even the amount of crockery we go through as she drops it a lot, all adds to the cost!

So much of the world is designed for either totally disabled or totally not disabled. Those in the middle really struggle with it.

TemperanceWest · 16/10/2026 20:11

AgeingMillennial · 16/10/2026 20:00

Yes I think that’s happening now.

So what do you think is the cause?

BoredZelda · 16/10/2026 20:12

Thatsalineallright · 16/10/2026 20:07

I put a lot down to modern lifestyles. So many things are linked to mental health - diet (sugar, upfs), exercise, routine, gut microbiome, social media, blue light, sunlight, extended family networks, knowing your neighbours, etc etc. The list goes on and on.

On most of those counts we're worse off today than 40 years ago (comparing today's 50 yo with 10 yo).

Where did you get your PhD in neuro-disability?

Octavia64 · 16/10/2026 20:13

boopetboopt · 16/10/2026 20:02

67,000 out of 572,000 is:1 in 11

Oh yes sorry missed a power of ten.

so the total number of children who might possibly be non verbal but most of whom won’t be is one in eleven.

those are the children who are receiving any kind of assistance from the school for any kind of speech and language problem. Some (probably most in practice) will be verbal.

BoredZelda · 16/10/2026 20:14

AgeingMillennial · 16/10/2026 20:00

Yes I think that’s happening now.

Can you point to a specific cluster of a specific disability that has spiked significantly in the past 3 years?

Acommonreader · 16/10/2026 20:14

AgeingMillennial · 16/10/2026 19:57

Yes and I think that now with the number of children with non verbal autism. It’s always been around but I see so many now, all the posts about it on here are from the last 5/6 years

Wow I wonder why you didn’t read so many posts on social media about autistic kids 30 years ago?!

Kirbert2 · 16/10/2026 20:15

I claim DLA for my 10 year old. He gets highest rate care and mobility.

Years ago, he simply wouldn't have survived.

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