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To ask you to help me find my passport?

89 replies

Twoshoesnewshoes · 07/10/2026 12:04

I have prayed to St Anthony so it’s only a matter of time, but it would help my blood pressure a great deal if anyone has any pointers?

OP posts:
PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 07/10/2026 12:05

Do you have a printer with a scanner? Mine was in there

purplecorkheart · 07/10/2026 12:05

Have you a printer/scanner look in there. If it is kept in a drawer take out the drawers and see if it has fallen down there.

EatSleepHooverRepeat · 07/10/2026 12:06

A desk drawer? Or a bag that you last used when you travelled

BirdLandedonmyHead · 07/10/2026 12:06

Think logically... wgat could have used it fir last?
Holiday, work trip, ID check, getting information out of it, photocopying it...

Is it blue or red, are you definietly looking for the right colour?

SummerFeverVenice · 07/10/2026 12:07

Life is too short for this. Apply for a new one due to this one being lost or damaged

Felixthewonderdog · 07/10/2026 12:08

Down the back of the drawer: take all drawers out and feel down the back

LetMeGoogleThat · 07/10/2026 12:09

Have you needed it for an ID check? When I lost mine, I found it in my laptop bag.

Hatepancakes · 07/10/2026 12:11

Look through all your handbags, then look very thoroughly in the place where it's supposed to be. Then partner's pockets, down the sides of chairs and sofa.

Raindropskeepfallingon · 07/10/2026 12:12

Check the bag you last took away, any bag you would have used if you needed it as ID for something, the pockets of your coats, the pockets of any outfits you rarely wear but might have worn on your last trip…

I lost mine, searched the house, replaced it and eventually found the old one years later in the back pocket of a little used black handbag that I’d used for a funeral abroad and subsequent flight back but then completely forgotten about.

Twoshoesnewshoes · 07/10/2026 12:12

Thank you - yes might be ID check, will also take drawers out!
off to Croatia on Friday (hopefully!) so no time to get a new one

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ZippyPeer · 07/10/2026 12:12

Zipped into a coat that you haven't used in a while?

Clearingaspace · 07/10/2026 12:12

Behind a desk/cabinet/piano- pull them out
under or behind a drawer
under your bed
In a coat pocket
in a toy box - child found it and was playing
in a toiletry bag ftom holiday
in a suitcase pocket
in a paperwork drawer ftom applying for things online or a laptop bag
on top of a random high shelf

CirclesandSpirals · 07/10/2026 12:13

Bookshelf

OldieButBaddie · 07/10/2026 12:14

when my DH lost his recently when he was literally about to leave the house, I went and looked where we keep our passports and it was in the correct place, but for some reason he had forgotten that passports were now Blue and so had ignored the Blue one and was looking for a maroon one. Maybe you have done similar.

lovelydayss · 07/10/2026 12:14

Go back to the place you first thought it was and have a really, really good look

Divebar2021 · 07/10/2026 12:14

When was the last time you used it ? What bags did you take for that trip if it was used abroad. Has there been any occasion when you’ve needed it to open a bank account or for ID unrelated to travel.

UnwillingAdvocate · 07/10/2026 12:15

Under the sink

Dozycuntlaters · 07/10/2026 12:15

When I 'lost' mine, it was in the drawer it should have been in but rather than laying flat it was on its side so I didn't see it. Not until my replacement turned up anyway. Fingers crossed you find it.

Newusername2026 · 07/10/2026 12:16

In the drawer where you usually keep it. Yes I realize you have probably checked that a few times already...but in my experience lost things are very frequently in the right place all along.

SplishSplash123 · 07/10/2026 12:18

Have you got children?

Do you use one of those underseat bags on planes with a million and one pockets, have you checked every single one (including the hidden ones)?

Check down backs of drawers, including unscrewing any panels on fitted furniture.

When was your last trip, who were you with, did you come straight back to your house from the airport?

Have you used your passport since - as ID or when booking/checking in for the trip?

Check these key places, then next step is a room by room thorough search. Pull out every piece of furniture and check behind/underneath, fully empty every single drawer/shelf/cupboard/bag/pocket, all cushions off sofas, under mattress etc.

Good luck!

Twiglets1 · 07/10/2026 12:20

Drawer by the side of your bed? If you have one.

Billy47 · 07/10/2026 12:20

Have a look in the draw / unit ti the right hand side of your bed.

PortiaRose · 07/10/2026 12:22

Clearingaspace · 07/10/2026 12:12

Behind a desk/cabinet/piano- pull them out
under or behind a drawer
under your bed
In a coat pocket
in a toy box - child found it and was playing
in a toiletry bag ftom holiday
in a suitcase pocket
in a paperwork drawer ftom applying for things online or a laptop bag
on top of a random high shelf

Look in secret hiding places ... mine is hidden so a burgular would not steal it

purplecorkheart · 07/10/2026 12:22

Where do you normally keep it? Do you have a dp? Could they have it with theirs?

LeftFooter · 07/10/2026 12:22

In the zipped pocket of your travel bag.
Inside pocket of a coat
inside something else in a drawer

Have you promised to give money to the poor when St A finds it for you? He loves the poor so that’ll incentivise him.