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To question whether northerners are actually poorer than southerners ?

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Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 10:02

As we know a lot of northerners seem to think all southerners are living like the Russian Romanov family pre murder and funds from the south should be directed up north because they are apparently so much poorer than us.

But is this even true? If you can buy a family home up there for 100k or less and the same size home costs 300-400k on average in the south. You already have a lot more disposable income. I know they say they get paid less, but Tesco (for example) pays the same every where and has branches everywhere. I know they also say there’s no good jobs there but where there’s people there’s schools and hospitals so you want us to believe there’s no teachers and doctors?

I know someone will say “move there then” personally I won’t be moving anywhere anytime soon as I started my family young (first born a few months after GCSEs) and my kids are all really settled in school and with friends.
Based on what I’ve heard from northerners they are more welcoming to people from countries on the other side of the planet than they are their fellow countrymen from 100 miles to the south.

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Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 10:58

SleeplessRoads · 05/10/2026 10:52

You’ve just listed (relatively low paying) jobs that are available in the North and the South. If I added on all the (higher paying) jobs that are available in London and the South, then there would obviously be more jobs in the South. No one is saying there’s no jobs here, it’s not District 12.

Also the comparison doesn’t mean that the richest person in the North is poorer than the poorest person in the South. But on average, yes. Property prices alone must mean this is true, because your more expensive property will likely be worth more than my less expensive property when we both die, and I as a Northerner probably don’t have the capacity to generate unearned wealth like that on my main asset.

(with a caveat that I’m a reasonably well off Northerner with no desire to waste money moving to the South. Some of us manage to do alright for ourselves!).

Low paid? A doctor? A head teacher? On what planet are they low paid 😂😂.

Yes I’m sure the opportunity to be ceo of Barclays Bank exists in the south but 99% of southerners have normal jobs (and most pay less than a doctor)

Half of people rent so no they will not have a more expensive asset after 30 years of ball busting anyway

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JaneJaneAnne · 05/10/2026 11:02

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 10:29

I’ve honestly never heard a single southerner say anything snobby or nasty about northerners. I have heard a lot of the opposite though “stuck up posh southerners looking down on us”

I’m pleased you haven't heard nasty comments, they are unpleasant.

Comments in reverse aren’t pleasant either but those making them may have some basis for their complaints.

Both St Andrews and Edinburgh universities have problems with Scottish students being belittled by English students (and in some cases lecturers) for their background, accent, class.

It’s not students and staff from the north of England doing the belittling.

Evaka · 05/10/2026 11:03

NotAnotherScarf · 05/10/2026 10:39

Can i suggest you visit places like Redruth and Camborne in Cornwall, Frome and Chard in Somerset. Southmead, Knowel and Hartcliff in Bristol. The Bournville estate in Weston-super-Mare.

Poverty exists in many parts of the west. The problem being hiden/exacerbated by the exodus from London/South East in an "escape to the country " type idea.

You sound like the BBC radio 4 presenter of a programme called The Patch, where random post codes are visited. She was given Redruth and went with the concept that everyone was living idyllic lives by the sea. The Taxi Driver dismissed that idea and said the only family living locally who she'd seen be to the sea, she gave a free ride as they were walking 4 miles home. The presenter couldn't find a single cornish person on the nearest beach.

There's a folk singer called Corkie...watch his YouTube "ginsters paradise ".

As a possible idea of what I am talking about roughly 7,000 men worked on the Bristol Docks 70 years. Today its about 600.

Did you mean to quote my post?

BirdLandedonmyHead · 05/10/2026 11:07

We (as in my family) definitely have a higher quality of love in Yorkshire than we would with the same jobs in Greater London. Simply from housing costs. We will pay off our mortgage next year, at 41&43 for example.

Other things cost more. We need to have two cars fir example... no handy London Transport. Council tax tends to be higher.

A big thing for us though is DHs job would pay exactly the same in London. Mines WFH so it doesnt matter.

More peoole get UC top ups in London (i think the new FSM numbers will highlight this!)

HelpMyBlackLabradorVotesReform · 05/10/2026 11:08

I wish people would stop posting about how nice it is up North. We have spent years creating the "its grim up north" messaging to help keep the Southern out. We get bigger houses, with more land, better access to national parks, better football teams, a whole better version of Rugby, even the water is better. It is just a better quality of life. Yeah Southerns might on paper get paid more but we work smarter not harder. We even get the Southerns to contribute towards paying for it.

Noddyslittleredcar · 05/10/2026 11:10

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 10:02

As we know a lot of northerners seem to think all southerners are living like the Russian Romanov family pre murder and funds from the south should be directed up north because they are apparently so much poorer than us.

But is this even true? If you can buy a family home up there for 100k or less and the same size home costs 300-400k on average in the south. You already have a lot more disposable income. I know they say they get paid less, but Tesco (for example) pays the same every where and has branches everywhere. I know they also say there’s no good jobs there but where there’s people there’s schools and hospitals so you want us to believe there’s no teachers and doctors?

I know someone will say “move there then” personally I won’t be moving anywhere anytime soon as I started my family young (first born a few months after GCSEs) and my kids are all really settled in school and with friends.
Based on what I’ve heard from northerners they are more welcoming to people from countries on the other side of the planet than they are their fellow countrymen from 100 miles to the south.

I think it massively depends on where "up north" you mean. Where we live a family home is £400k+ and there are areas down south where equivalent properties are cheaper.

Salaries in the north and south are broadly the same outside of Greater London.

I think large areas of the country are broadly similar, regardless of north or south, as long as they aren't in the London commuter belt.

Rachelshair · 05/10/2026 11:10

Surely if you own a house worth 400k you're richer than if you own a house worth 100k?
If you mean you could have more disposable income as a doctor or teacher in the "north," then possibly. But 100k family homes are extremely rare anywhere.

Teenybeen · 05/10/2026 11:13

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 10:36

I do that so people like yourself don’t go hunting for personal information to use as a personal attack. You are genuinely deluded yourself if you think someone paying 700 a month rent is poorer than someone paying 1600. Even if they have a slightly better paying job (most southerners are not bankers)

This has clearly struck a nerve for whatever reason though

Even in the poorest area of Manchester you won’t get a house for £700 rent that isn’t a house share.

Before I left Manchester I rented a two bed semi on a council estate and was paying £1100! Even completely deprived areas like Rochdale, Oldham which are far from the city are way more than £700.

JLou08 · 05/10/2026 11:13

Where are you getting your information?
I live in the north, no one hates southerners or thinks they're all posh and stuck up. People know there is poverty everywhere. Many northerners appreciate the lower house prices. We do, rightly, recognise there are more job opportunities in London and that is where a lot of the wealthiest people in the UK live but we don't have this disdain for southerners you seem to think we have.

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 11:16

JaneJaneAnne · 05/10/2026 11:02

I’m pleased you haven't heard nasty comments, they are unpleasant.

Comments in reverse aren’t pleasant either but those making them may have some basis for their complaints.

Both St Andrews and Edinburgh universities have problems with Scottish students being belittled by English students (and in some cases lecturers) for their background, accent, class.

It’s not students and staff from the north of England doing the belittling.

I heard something similar to this. Students being made fun of for having jobs and not having been to private school.

This makes absolutely no sense people are always mocking unemployed people for being “bums” and private school students for being “posh spoilt brats” (especially considering unemployed people and private school students are largely outnumbered).

Im not saying the above definitely doesn't happen but it didn’t sound hugely feasible to me.

Sorry this is a little tangent now I am definitely not saying Scottish students aren’t being mocked for their accents I can imagine that happening and it’s not nice at all

I have a job and went to state school before someone starts

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Ches71 · 05/10/2026 11:17

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 10:21

Maybe I should have said between 100k and 200k for a 3 or 4 bed house. Down south a 3 bed house goes between 300-400k and 4 beds can be up to half a million.
If I for example (work in a supermarket) lived there’s I’d earn the same money I do now but have a lot more disposable income. And they want us to believe theyre impoverished and we’re all posh and stuck up

@Naegriafowlia not sure where your getting you house prices from, but I live in the north and the prices you're quoting for the south are very similar to where I live.

Noddyslittleredcar · 05/10/2026 11:18

Teenybeen · 05/10/2026 11:13

Even in the poorest area of Manchester you won’t get a house for £700 rent that isn’t a house share.

Before I left Manchester I rented a two bed semi on a council estate and was paying £1100! Even completely deprived areas like Rochdale, Oldham which are far from the city are way more than £700.

Exactly. Even in Preston you'll be hard pushed to rent a family home for less than £1200 - those that are aren't in places families live! Where we live in Greater Manchester, there isn't a 3 bed for less than £1695.

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 11:19

Ches71 · 05/10/2026 11:17

@Naegriafowlia not sure where your getting you house prices from, but I live in the north and the prices you're quoting for the south are very similar to where I live.

im comparing small towns to small towns. If I was to compare cities to cities I’m sure it would be a lot higher for both north and south albeit with the north still being a lot cheaper

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TheBayHorse · 05/10/2026 11:19

OP you're generalising. It's pointless. I live in a part of the north where you really struggle to get a 4 bed house for under £500k (I know because I'm looking).

Ches71 · 05/10/2026 11:21

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 11:19

im comparing small towns to small towns. If I was to compare cities to cities I’m sure it would be a lot higher for both north and south albeit with the north still being a lot cheaper

@Naegriafowlia I live in a small town and not one of the major cities.

Sartre · 05/10/2026 11:21

Fewer well paid jobs and opportunities and transport is dire, life expectancy is also lower due to poverty in many parts of the north. Just look at Sutton Trust’s research on this. 1 in 4 people in Doncaster have no qualifications at all, imagine that stat in Oxford.

JaneJaneAnne · 05/10/2026 11:21

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 11:16

I heard something similar to this. Students being made fun of for having jobs and not having been to private school.

This makes absolutely no sense people are always mocking unemployed people for being “bums” and private school students for being “posh spoilt brats” (especially considering unemployed people and private school students are largely outnumbered).

Im not saying the above definitely doesn't happen but it didn’t sound hugely feasible to me.

Sorry this is a little tangent now I am definitely not saying Scottish students aren’t being mocked for their accents I can imagine that happening and it’s not nice at all

I have a job and went to state school before someone starts

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Your post is confusing, I’m not sure what point you are making. It is unequivocally happening at those two universities.

My point is that it is southern students who are the source of the problem, not northern.

And I didn’t mention private education.

But as it is indeed a tangent, I’ll step away from the thread now.

Noddyslittleredcar · 05/10/2026 11:22

Ches71 · 05/10/2026 11:17

@Naegriafowlia not sure where your getting you house prices from, but I live in the north and the prices you're quoting for the south are very similar to where I live.

I think it's really hard because very few people will know a location in "the north" and a location in "the south" that are similar in demographics, style, make up and lifestyle in order to do a true comparison. But yes, where I live, average house prices are higher than some places down south, but I've no idea if they are truly comparable.

TheBlueKoala · 05/10/2026 11:23

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 10:48

I’m aware not all northerners think this but there are certainly some who do!

People from Northern England has a reputation for being friendly. Maybe it's because their Col is so low?

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 11:24

JaneJaneAnne · 05/10/2026 11:21

Your post is confusing, I’m not sure what point you are making. It is unequivocally happening at those two universities.

My point is that it is southern students who are the source of the problem, not northern.

And I didn’t mention private education.

But as it is indeed a tangent, I’ll step away from the thread now.

I was not disagreeing with you regarding Scottish students being mocked (which I think is horrible) it just made me think of something I saw very recently where a girl was claiming she was teased for not going to private school and for having a job. Which seemed like bollocks to me. Again sorry it was a tangent and had nothing to do with what you said which I can definitely see happening

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Hello87abc · 05/10/2026 11:24

So I live in the north east my three bed detached is worth £250k if I wanted a decent sized 4 bed I would be paying between 280-350 so not really as cheap as you think.

Sunbringer · 05/10/2026 11:25

Most areas it doesn’t cost 100k or less for a house. You might get a shitty one bed that’s run down in a village 40 minutes away from anywhere for that. Average small homes in my northern town costs closer to 300k.

Doctors and nurses in London and surrounds get the Higher Cost Area uptick so are paid more.

As a northerner in London (zone 6) I can assure you that there is more money down here. Northerners aren’t poor, but southern money especially London and the Home Counties is global level wealth. Average semi detached that needs work where I live costs in excess of £1m…

JHound · 05/10/2026 11:25

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 10:27

Surely the amount of shops, schools and hospitals (job opportunities) matches the ratio of people living there to some degree. Otherwise kids would be in classrooms of 50 kids instead of the usual 30. And everyone would be travelling a hundred miles down south for an x ray.

Not everybody works in shops, schools snd hospitals. And a lot of us did have to move down South to find jobs in our field.

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 11:26

Noddyslittleredcar · 05/10/2026 11:22

I think it's really hard because very few people will know a location in "the north" and a location in "the south" that are similar in demographics, style, make up and lifestyle in order to do a true comparison. But yes, where I live, average house prices are higher than some places down south, but I've no idea if they are truly comparable.

I’m comparing a small/medium sized town by the sea to a small/medium sized town by the sea. If I compared London to Manchester the prives would obviously both be higher but London still more expensive

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Pedallleur · 05/10/2026 11:26

takealettermsjones · 05/10/2026 10:23

Yes, but potentially less need for city bankers and stockbrokers and forensic accountants and commercial lawyers if major companies all decide to situate their headquarters in the well-connected south? But never mind, northerners can always work at Tesco!

We have Booths as well. But when we say Northern are we including Scotland?