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To question whether northerners are actually poorer than southerners ?

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Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 10:02

As we know a lot of northerners seem to think all southerners are living like the Russian Romanov family pre murder and funds from the south should be directed up north because they are apparently so much poorer than us.

But is this even true? If you can buy a family home up there for 100k or less and the same size home costs 300-400k on average in the south. You already have a lot more disposable income. I know they say they get paid less, but Tesco (for example) pays the same every where and has branches everywhere. I know they also say there’s no good jobs there but where there’s people there’s schools and hospitals so you want us to believe there’s no teachers and doctors?

I know someone will say “move there then” personally I won’t be moving anywhere anytime soon as I started my family young (first born a few months after GCSEs) and my kids are all really settled in school and with friends.
Based on what I’ve heard from northerners they are more welcoming to people from countries on the other side of the planet than they are their fellow countrymen from 100 miles to the south.

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Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 14:53

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Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 14:57

Floatlikeafeather2 · 05/10/2026 14:46

Part of the problem, @Naegriafowlia , with your ill thought-out little rant, is 9that you're not speaking for The South, you are speaking about your limited part of it, which I'm guessing is the Sarf East. I'm from the south west. We're not too keen on the imbalance of opportunity, resource funding, infrastructure provision etc etc either, with by far the biggest share of any pie somehow always ending up in the south east.
I now live in Cumbria. That's proper Up North, in case you don't know. We don't notice our pension going any further up here. Our 3 bed house cost £350,000 - if we lived a few miles up the road it would be considerably more. Our nearest town has areas of significant deprivation where people cannot even dream of ever owning a house.
People might be more inclined to engage in a proper debate with you if you could provide actual stats to back up your claims. As it is, your argument is little more than the musings of someone who has no experience outside of their own little bubble (and is not planning to gain any, as you admitted). I suspect you've never even set foot in The North which you claim to know all about.

When did I admit I didn’t want any experience outside of my bubble?

The stats professional northerners like to throw around are on average wage. The tiny minority of people on really high wages in London drag up the southern average. Then it dosent take into account someone in the south outside of London could be earning the same wage working in Tesco as someone in the north but spend 3x as much money on their mortgage or rent (shock I know but not every southerner owns their home, some of us rent too).

Therefore the northerner has more disposable income

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OctoberMists · 05/10/2026 14:58

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 14:38

I said why I havent moved I settled down early and had my first child literally a few months after my GCSEs now my kids are settled and happy with friends and I don’t want to move because of that.

Other southerners have done it though because it just makes more sense financially. Although they do get called “gentrifier” (for moving around their own country 😂)

I also assume access to green spaces is better as the population density is lower no?

I knew people making moves north over 20 years ago - why have you been so ridiculous slow to realise this was possibly a good move?

No-one IME and I've lived all over UK - blames individuals for gentification - so if you moved north IME they will not bat an eyelid.

Population density depend where you look in north. London has quite a few green spaces despite being very densily populated - so depends what being compared to what really and then access to it.

Last place I lived before this one had loads of green spaces and famers fields what it didn't have were footpaths and access routes into them. We actually had better access in northern city to countryside and buses and trains went out there.

cornflakecrunchie · 05/10/2026 15:11

I must be a bit dim because I'm not getting this thread.
If you're not happy, OP, move!
If I've ever heard a southerner / northerner rant, it's been in fun, not serious.. people are just people, wherever they come from in the UK. We're all trying to do our best. Are you just trying to set people against each other?

SeedsOfReason · 05/10/2026 15:12

RedToothBrush · 05/10/2026 14:34

Well in terms of wealth both in economic and social terms in fairly sure demand for buying a house that's likely to fall down a mine shaft isn't a desirable thing in terms of your quality of life really.

I'm not sure of your point here.

It sounds like you are saying northerners should be grateful for this wonderful investment opportunity and that they have some where to live cos it's cheap because it's better to worry about this than to not be able to afford to buy a property at all. Cracks, damp problems and condemn notices be damned.

No, pretty much the opposite - it's an illustration of the wealth gulf between north and south. That house is about 40 mins drive from where I live, I certainly won't be making an offer.

AfraidToRun · 05/10/2026 15:14

Cornwall's poverty rates aren't great....but it is full of ex Londoners which may be skewing the results...

wishingonastar101 · 05/10/2026 15:32

My DP manages a large team - all work remotely. And the ones up north have massive houses, two cars and their wives don't work.

They are on the same wages as London and SE based members of the team so they are laughing! Everything is cheaper... like leisure centres, cafes, kids gymnastics, football clubs... cinema etc...

We are totally ripped off in London. And we pay for everyone else. And Fing Burnham wants to bleed us dry even more!

Poor northerners? My arse.

NotAnotherScarf · 05/10/2026 16:10

Evaka · 05/10/2026 11:03

Did you mean to quote my post?

No I'm not sure how that happened!

Whoopiedooo · 05/10/2026 16:12

JHound · 05/10/2026 10:26

Do Northerners think funds from down South should be redirected North?

I think that is part of the current Prime Minister's opinion, yes. It is one of his big talking points. I think that is likely why OP has posted about it.
Like most things, it is not as straightforward as the soundbites.

backformoreofthesame · 05/10/2026 16:21

wishingonastar101 · 05/10/2026 15:32

My DP manages a large team - all work remotely. And the ones up north have massive houses, two cars and their wives don't work.

They are on the same wages as London and SE based members of the team so they are laughing! Everything is cheaper... like leisure centres, cafes, kids gymnastics, football clubs... cinema etc...

We are totally ripped off in London. And we pay for everyone else. And Fing Burnham wants to bleed us dry even more!

Poor northerners? My arse.

There are some richer people up north

but on average ? No

Pity people with such huge earning power can’t understand the difference between individuals and averages

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 16:24

Whoopiedooo · 05/10/2026 16:12

I think that is part of the current Prime Minister's opinion, yes. It is one of his big talking points. I think that is likely why OP has posted about it.
Like most things, it is not as straightforward as the soundbites.

The current prime minister has certainly led to a lot more discussion around the topic but for a while there’s been this idea that all southerners are rich, stuck up etc. and that all northerners are poor and “salt of the earth” kind of stuff.
My point is mainly houses are cheaper up there so they actually have a lot MORE disposable income than southerners (if you compare people with the same job)

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nutbrownhare15 · 05/10/2026 16:53

Some northerners will be better off than some southerners but overall the data shows that the South is richer. This is reflected in the housing market. There is less economic activity in the north and more income in the south. Therefore on average people can afford to pay more for a house in the south. So rather than saying the housing means northerners are richer it's more like northerners are poorer on average and so therefore housing is cheaper.

Keepoffmyartichokes · 05/10/2026 17:08

Monty36 · 05/10/2026 14:28

The southern part of South Yorkshire is lower than some parts of Lincolnshire. It is almost half way from the Northern most point of England to the southernmost point of Hampshire. So midland.

It's most certainly not in the Midlands

Monty36 · 05/10/2026 17:21

Keepoffmyartichokes · 05/10/2026 17:08

It's most certainly not in the Midlands

Arguably, it is, I am afraid. Commonly, no, people in South Yorkshire think they are Northerners. And would loathe to be considered from the Midlands.

Keepoffmyartichokes · 05/10/2026 17:31

Monty36 · 05/10/2026 17:21

Arguably, it is, I am afraid. Commonly, no, people in South Yorkshire think they are Northerners. And would loathe to be considered from the Midlands.

We are Northeners

To question whether northerners are actually poorer than southerners ?
Monty36 · 05/10/2026 17:35

Keepoffmyartichokes · 05/10/2026 17:31

We are Northeners

Yes I know you how you see yourselves ! I have explained in a PP why arguably, you are not. I will not persuade you otherwise. Nor you me.

StarCourt · 05/10/2026 17:56

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 10:21

Maybe I should have said between 100k and 200k for a 3 or 4 bed house. Down south a 3 bed house goes between 300-400k and 4 beds can be up to half a million.
If I for example (work in a supermarket) lived there’s I’d earn the same money I do now but have a lot more disposable income. And they want us to believe theyre impoverished and we’re all posh and stuck up

Who wants you to believe that?

Keepoffmyartichokes · 05/10/2026 18:00

Monty36 · 05/10/2026 17:35

Yes I know you how you see yourselves ! I have explained in a PP why arguably, you are not. I will not persuade you otherwise. Nor you me.

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But South Yorkshire is in the Northern region of England I'm not sure how you argue with that fact. But you are entitled to your opinion

Monty36 · 05/10/2026 18:14

Keepoffmyartichokes · 05/10/2026 18:00

But South Yorkshire is in the Northern region of England I'm not sure how you argue with that fact. But you are entitled to your opinion

I did try to explain it in an earlier post.

Stressedandgrey · 05/10/2026 18:17

fumingrightnow1 · 05/10/2026 10:15

Northerners aren't poorer as housing costs are significantly cheaper but more funds should be directed up north for lack of services.

This. The more opportunities that are created in the North, the less there will be over-demand for housing in the South East (which I think is that we mean by South in these conversations).
Reduced demand will stop the house prices in the South East being pushed to such ridiculously unaffordable levels.

Sherarara · 05/10/2026 18:51

Surely this is nothing to do with disposable income at a personal level? I know I have much more disposable income than I would have if I lived in London.

What i don't have is:

  • a bus service that is frequent enough to use for commuting
  • a local library that is open for more than 4 hours per week
  • wraparound childcare, in any form, no matter how much money I am willing to throw at it.
  • local evening classes / adult education

Some of these are due to living semi rurally, but i have also lived in a city, and had similar problems.

So, on a personal level, I am fine, but these are basic things needed for equality of opportunity, and they are missing in some areas of the country.

NotBeforeCoffee · 05/10/2026 19:54

Me and my husband are public sector workers, grew up in London and still live in the south east. Some people I went to school with are also public sector workers in similar roles but moved to Manchester post university. They are much better off than us because they could buy a nicer house than us for less than half the cost of ours so they have a much smaller mortgage. And everything just seems cheaper there eg she tells me kids holiday clubs are £25 a day where here they are £50-60. Nursery and wrap around care significantly less. Family Days out eg a farm visit £100 here, half the price or less there. As such they have a much nicer lifestyle than us, ie spend their money on multiple holidays where ours is spent on mortgage interest. It frustrates me when people seems to think that because your house is worth a lot it means your rich- the cost of my house is what keeps me poor!!

Naegriafowlia · 05/10/2026 20:01

NotBeforeCoffee · 05/10/2026 19:54

Me and my husband are public sector workers, grew up in London and still live in the south east. Some people I went to school with are also public sector workers in similar roles but moved to Manchester post university. They are much better off than us because they could buy a nicer house than us for less than half the cost of ours so they have a much smaller mortgage. And everything just seems cheaper there eg she tells me kids holiday clubs are £25 a day where here they are £50-60. Nursery and wrap around care significantly less. Family Days out eg a farm visit £100 here, half the price or less there. As such they have a much nicer lifestyle than us, ie spend their money on multiple holidays where ours is spent on mortgage interest. It frustrates me when people seems to think that because your house is worth a lot it means your rich- the cost of my house is what keeps me poor!!

I completely agree

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MyFriendNorman · 05/10/2026 22:40

I don't get this thread.

OP, if you sold your house in London you bought 15 years ago and moved to Bradford you could buy a much bigger one, probably outright from the equity. If you sold your house in London and moved to Manchester you could buy a bigger one too.

If you are trying to buy a first home in London now it would be very hard because prices are crazy. There are very few bits of London that haven't gentrified to some extent.

But if you were born and brought up in Manchester or Bradford and working in an ordinary job, you wouldn't be able to buy a nice house in a nice area, and we do still have really bloody rough areas where you wouldn't want to buy. I am looking at flats for DC and the ones in areas where they'd like to live are 200k plus.

If you moved up here you'd be quids in , but if you lived up here your whole life you wouldn't be.

25 years ago, people working in my profession used to own 5 bed detached houses in nice parts of town. Now we are in 3 bed semis in ok parts of town. It's not a license to print money up here. House prices have more than quadrupled in my area in 20 years (and the BBC Londoners moving in with their equity richness had a fair bit to do with that, tbh)

Do you really truly think the North is on easy street? I mean the stats are very clear about inequalities in the North Vs the South of England. Health, employment opportunities, disposable income, education outcomes, graduate opportunities are all worse in the North. You are very simply wrong to think otherwise.

Since you don't appear to have ever ventured past Watford Gap I do wonder where all these chippy Northerners berating Southerners have been heard, as well. But if they did, they have got a point. Thatcher eviscerated a lot of traditional Northern industry and some areas have never fully recovered.

To question whether northerners are actually poorer than southerners ?
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To question whether northerners are actually poorer than southerners ?
To question whether northerners are actually poorer than southerners ?
Naegriafowlia · 06/10/2026 01:53

MyFriendNorman · 05/10/2026 22:40

I don't get this thread.

OP, if you sold your house in London you bought 15 years ago and moved to Bradford you could buy a much bigger one, probably outright from the equity. If you sold your house in London and moved to Manchester you could buy a bigger one too.

If you are trying to buy a first home in London now it would be very hard because prices are crazy. There are very few bits of London that haven't gentrified to some extent.

But if you were born and brought up in Manchester or Bradford and working in an ordinary job, you wouldn't be able to buy a nice house in a nice area, and we do still have really bloody rough areas where you wouldn't want to buy. I am looking at flats for DC and the ones in areas where they'd like to live are 200k plus.

If you moved up here you'd be quids in , but if you lived up here your whole life you wouldn't be.

25 years ago, people working in my profession used to own 5 bed detached houses in nice parts of town. Now we are in 3 bed semis in ok parts of town. It's not a license to print money up here. House prices have more than quadrupled in my area in 20 years (and the BBC Londoners moving in with their equity richness had a fair bit to do with that, tbh)

Do you really truly think the North is on easy street? I mean the stats are very clear about inequalities in the North Vs the South of England. Health, employment opportunities, disposable income, education outcomes, graduate opportunities are all worse in the North. You are very simply wrong to think otherwise.

Since you don't appear to have ever ventured past Watford Gap I do wonder where all these chippy Northerners berating Southerners have been heard, as well. But if they did, they have got a point. Thatcher eviscerated a lot of traditional Northern industry and some areas have never fully recovered.

I didn’t buy a house in London? I don’t live in London and was a child 15 years ago?

It’s not just house prices but also rent prices
If I rented a house here (south but not London) it would be 1700 a month but only 900 up there. I work in a shop so would be paid the same before you say northerners are paid less.

Anyway yes I could move if I really wanted to and maybe one day I will but I’m sure they wouldn’t be happy if every southerner moved north seeing as you’re already complaining about the dew that have

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