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AIBU for supporting Bonnie Blue?

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KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 13:43

Please hear me out first. I have no interest in watching her sleep with 1,000 guys (if this even happened), but I can’t help but like this woman for the following reasons.

  1. It is so, so, soooo obvious that all she does it say/do the most obscene and provocative stuff possible for attention yet it seems like people fall for it every time. Especially on mumsnet, I think she has jumped the shark a bit too early naming the “baby” after a betting website but there were so many threads on this when none of it made any sense. Yet everyone just seems to eat it up and it makes me laugh.
  2. Everyone wants to be rich and it is so so hard to accomplish (I became a single millionaire at 27 through business ownership so speaking from experience, it’s insanely insanely hard to get to 8 figs at her age like she has done), I have respect for anyone who manages to get there no matter how they do it. I relate to her a lot when she said she looked at all the UK careers and realised they all pay terribly. I don’t really know what people expect a young intelligent who wants to be wealthy to do instead? Work as an accountant or some crap which will pay £150k tops?
  3. The sheer ridiculousness of the whole ordeal. It’s just a bit of braindead entertainment in this somewhat depressing world. I love checking up on this woman and seeing what she claims to be up to.

So AIBU? Frankly I can’t wait to see what she says next.

OP posts:
Busylizzy87 · 03/10/2026 19:51

Thatsalineallright · 03/10/2026 19:05

Sure but if you have to have sex with a 1000 men in order to be successful (OP is very impressed by BB's millions) is that empowering?

I think this is a really interesting question.

It both is and isn't empowering, in my opinion.

Individually, yes. She feels empowered to make decisions over her own body and what she chooses to do with it.

On a larger scale, no, because it is reinforcing patriarchal gender expectations and attitudes to sex. Both from men, and women. I think Judith Butler's theories around performativity are relevant here.

Personally, I won't judge what any person does unless it is actively harming another person. What I do judge are the systemic conditions that continue to influence and limit our choices in order to be successful and independent.

For example, sex has always been a valid way for individual women to make money. It is a service and a form of entertainment. However, the systemic conditions that have led to performers taking the service and entertainment to the extreme are pretty reprehensible.

I have no problem with sex work as long as no one is getting hurt. It can be a very positive service to provide. Most people need physical human connection, and it isn't available to everyone. However, commodification of sex on the scale it has reached today is incredibly harmful.

Greenismyfavouritecolournow · 03/10/2026 19:54

She is everything that is wrong with this disgusting world. And the men who shag her are worse. Truly scrapping the bottom of the barrel of humanity.

Mirsine · 03/10/2026 19:55

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 19:33

What i said was funny in my opinion, i was insulting her because i simply do not like her! she is disgusting!.. If anything, i was just trying to bring a sense of humour into the thread, i would of thought for me to make an insult that was directed towards her(which OP made & started this about the whore) some of you may of found it funny too. I am entitled to express my opinion & say what i want, Mumsnet is a free place where anyone can speak their mind & create whatever thread they like?! It's not my fault someone chooses to jump on a bandwagon taking it all personal, accusing me of this & that for an argument, when quite simply, i made a comment on a thread about Bonnie Blue Waffle 😂 It wasn't aimed towards any other woman! What baffles me is, why does everyone have to take everything so personal and serious? like we're in a f*cking parliment all arguing against one another, when again, i must state.. i don't agree with what she does at all so ofcoarse we are on the same side, i didn't say anything with the intention of starting an argument or a go compare debate on my own vagina! it's as simple as that 🤷🏻‍♀️

It wasn’t funny. If that’s funny in your opinion then you need to stay away from the internet, touch grass and mature. Fast.

You can bring a sense of humour to threads without resorting to uneducated and sexist vile language. That type of language is harmful to ALL women. But you have been influenced and conditioned to think it’s funny by people just like Bonnie Blue.

You might not have aimed the comment at any other women but if you had an ounce of emotional intelligence you would understand why a comment like that is harmful to women as a whole, and how it is setting us back in society. It makes a total mockery of women.

Like you say, if you are on the same side please try and educated yourself on how your language is harmful to women and deeply disturbing.

Busylizzy87 · 03/10/2026 19:56

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 19:46

i feel disgusted by what she does and the fact she has brought a baby into it! she isn't a mother, she is a whore, that is a fact... but on a personal level, no? i don't know her as a person, i can only base my own opinions of her on what she has put out their for the millions of us to see, which therefore, i have made my own judgments based on that, which like everyone else has done! she has her haters & lovers.

Exactly. She has influenced your feelings and opinions of her.

I just found it strange you said she wasn't a person of influence when she has influenced strong reactions and a whole thread.

I neither approve nor disapprove of her and support your right to make your judgements. As you said, most people do judge what they see.

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 20:03

Busylizzy87 · 03/10/2026 19:51

I think this is a really interesting question.

It both is and isn't empowering, in my opinion.

Individually, yes. She feels empowered to make decisions over her own body and what she chooses to do with it.

On a larger scale, no, because it is reinforcing patriarchal gender expectations and attitudes to sex. Both from men, and women. I think Judith Butler's theories around performativity are relevant here.

Personally, I won't judge what any person does unless it is actively harming another person. What I do judge are the systemic conditions that continue to influence and limit our choices in order to be successful and independent.

For example, sex has always been a valid way for individual women to make money. It is a service and a form of entertainment. However, the systemic conditions that have led to performers taking the service and entertainment to the extreme are pretty reprehensible.

I have no problem with sex work as long as no one is getting hurt. It can be a very positive service to provide. Most people need physical human connection, and it isn't available to everyone. However, commodification of sex on the scale it has reached today is incredibly harmful.

it's mainly a control thing is to why she may feel empowered. But how can shagging 1000 men create a feeling of empowerment?.. When human nature would say that would be something we all could/would do.. the woman clearly has very low standards... you can do other normal things to feel a sense of achievement/empowerment/control - like childbirth! but she opted for a c-section 🤷🏻‍♀️ she has chosen to shag 1000 men simply for the money, i don't think the feeling of empowerment even comes into it.

wishfulthinking25 · 03/10/2026 20:05

I hope to god you don’t have kids

wishfulthinking25 · 03/10/2026 20:07

KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 14:00

One of the best day schools in the country. It has came up a few times and she is not a popular figure.

One of the best day schools in the country is talking about a prostitute (she sells sex for money) who exploits her newborn child for money? Fuck me, that’s worrying.

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 20:10

Busylizzy87 · 03/10/2026 19:56

Exactly. She has influenced your feelings and opinions of her.

I just found it strange you said she wasn't a person of influence when she has influenced strong reactions and a whole thread.

I neither approve nor disapprove of her and support your right to make your judgements. As you said, most people do judge what they see.

but if the OP hadn't made this thread to begin with, i wouldn't of got my head bitten off over a throw away comment and we all wouldn't be arguing amongst each-other 🤦🏻‍♀️ so if anything the OP has influenced my feelings on Bonnie Blue to be brought here publicly, as to be honest, i am usually one to keep my opinions to myself. maybe next time it's best to just quietly watch a thread rather than post a funny comment 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

wishfulthinking25 · 03/10/2026 20:13

She can do what she wants, it doesn’t matter. However, exploiting her newborn child (whether real or unreal) she should be sterilised in all honesty, because if it’s not real she clearly has severe severe mental health problems. That poor baby will be bullied beyond belief growing up, didn’t she say she doesn’t even know who the dad is because they were conceived when she had intercourse with like 1000+ men? She sees no wrong in it, will probably encourage the child into the same industry. Please tell me how this is right ?!

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 20:13

Mirsine · 03/10/2026 19:55

It wasn’t funny. If that’s funny in your opinion then you need to stay away from the internet, touch grass and mature. Fast.

You can bring a sense of humour to threads without resorting to uneducated and sexist vile language. That type of language is harmful to ALL women. But you have been influenced and conditioned to think it’s funny by people just like Bonnie Blue.

You might not have aimed the comment at any other women but if you had an ounce of emotional intelligence you would understand why a comment like that is harmful to women as a whole, and how it is setting us back in society. It makes a total mockery of women.

Like you say, if you are on the same side please try and educated yourself on how your language is harmful to women and deeply disturbing.

i will take onboard what you have said so i appreciate your opinion on my first post.

Calenia · 03/10/2026 20:21

MissingMeadow · 03/10/2026 13:51

This is all very "I'm not like other girls".

She’s not a regular op, she’s a cool op.

thatsgotit · 03/10/2026 20:41

KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 13:49

I didn’t say it was? I have looked this up out of morbid curiosity and she seems to be enjoying herself so I don’t think it’s a particularly big deal.

I just love watching the news, the other mums at the school gates or mumsnet foam at the mouth in response to whatever nonsense she comes out with.

Haven’t rtft but you’re a mum? How do you feel about the ‘values’ you’re potentially passing on to your child/ren?

HeyThereDelila · 03/10/2026 20:49

OP. You are an idiot and a liability.

This woman helps normalise a culture of extreme pornography, denigration of abuse of women and sexualisation (and worse) of children.

Making money at any price isn’t something to admire.

dh280125 · 03/10/2026 21:59

ColdAsAWitches · 03/10/2026 13:47

Having sex with 1000 men in a row is not a bit of "braindead entertainment". You can't just handwave that away.

Why is it different to doing it with just 1? Are we talking morally? I don’t get what the number has to do with it.

CamillaMcCauley · 03/10/2026 22:18

dh280125 · 03/10/2026 21:59

Why is it different to doing it with just 1? Are we talking morally? I don’t get what the number has to do with it.

Sex is biologically designed to be a bonding act of intimacy between future parents. There’s a hormonal cascade that occurs that is intended to encourage pair-bonding for the future raising of offspring.

Obviously science has changed a lot in regard to preventing the natural consequences of sex but most people can’t actually completely emotionally divorce themselves from their natural instinct to bond with someone they are having sex with. Sex with multiple people over a short period of time is typically emotionally and psychologically traumatising, even if the person doesn’t really recognise it at the time because they are acting out some past issues.

Bonnie Blue may be (and probably is) wired differently but normalizing this isn’t a healthy example of sexuality. It also commodotises female bodies in particular, making it seem as though it is at least somewhat normal for women to treat their bodies as receptacles for male pleasure. As much as BB says she gets off on this, that’s likely just marketing; what she enjoys is the money and possibly notoriety, which would be strong markers for narcissism.

There’s also a fairly substantial health-risk case to be made for this kind of stunt. Maybe she was able to get every single one of the participants to have two clean STD checks three months apart to ensure she wasn’t risking her sexual health but I doubt it, in which case that sort of thing is likely to be a mass-spreader event.

That’s leaving aside the immediate physical repercussions of being continuously fucked for 24 hours. I’m sure we’ve all experienced a degree of rawness after a long day in bed in the first flush of new love - now multiply that exponentially and add in the fact that these men are here to pump and dump, there’s little to no gentleness and consideration involved.

Sure, BB is choosing to do this to herself, but does that honestly make it just fine and no different to sex with one person?

Ohyesiwill2 · 03/10/2026 22:30

MxCactus · 03/10/2026 17:15

This isn't true. The average Only Fans account only ever makes £200 total. There is so much free porn, making money from flashing your tits online is now non-existent.

The amount of money BB makes is very unusual. Tbh I think she makes it all up and is a marketing genius

Literally anyone can be a whore and literally anyone can monetise a thousand sleazer gang bang. The fact that BB is so disgusting, repellent and foul is the reason she makes so much money, even in the world of prostitution she's an aberration. Lining men up to piss on your baby bump is pathetically wretched and putrid, for example, you'd have to be a psychopath or irreparably damaged to think otherwise, and that goes for everyone involved obviously.

A fat, ugly woman willing to let a thousand men gang bang up her an alley would also find it easy enough to monetise. BB does nothing special, she just takes painkillers, spreads her legs and tells men to do whatever they like by the thousand. Having an actual job is beyond her. Being a whore is the easiest task in the world and anybody at all can do it, fat, thin, old, young, disability, nearly dead, doesn't matter.

I know that OF prostitutes don't make much cash, and that's because most of them aren't willing to lie in the street spread eagled letting rapists use them by the thousand, they all think they'll be able to just play around with their boyfriend on camera and make cash, they realise pretty quickly that once they're no longer new flesh on the market that they have to do really vile things to make any real money. I read a couple of pieces by OF prostitutes a couple of years back, and it's all so grubby and sad.

That's why the OF prostitution site is a pyramid scheme - they all get 5% of newbie earnings if they can sign them up as a referral. Like Tupperware ladies with STDs, prolapsed vaginas, drug addictions and PTSD. They can't make much money unless they do something extraordinarily gross, like BB.

A particular sort of man will fuck animals and a car exhaust, so the point I was making is that it's in no way special or difficult to be a depraved whore, like BB, you just have to have absolutely zero self esteem and no boundaries at all.

yacking · 03/10/2026 22:38

She’s a product of influencer land - they’re pretty much all the same, selling rage bait in order to make money. Yes, Bonnie is a multi millionaire but no woman sleeps with thousands of men for money and escapes emotionally unscathed. They can say they do but they don’t.

There’s this other (completely opposite) influencer who keeps popping up on my news feed - the morbidly obese Jaimie Weisberg. She tries on outfits, pulls a pose and lets people shout fat abuse at her in the comments. She’s worth millions and apparently she’s having the last laugh. Meanwhile her organs are being crushed under the weight of her huge body.

So on one hand, yes, they are reasonably savvy business women making a very sizeable living but really, they’re not much better than the circus freaks who used to join the travelling circus.

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 22:42

yacking · 03/10/2026 22:38

She’s a product of influencer land - they’re pretty much all the same, selling rage bait in order to make money. Yes, Bonnie is a multi millionaire but no woman sleeps with thousands of men for money and escapes emotionally unscathed. They can say they do but they don’t.

There’s this other (completely opposite) influencer who keeps popping up on my news feed - the morbidly obese Jaimie Weisberg. She tries on outfits, pulls a pose and lets people shout fat abuse at her in the comments. She’s worth millions and apparently she’s having the last laugh. Meanwhile her organs are being crushed under the weight of her huge body.

So on one hand, yes, they are reasonably savvy business women making a very sizeable living but really, they’re not much better than the circus freaks who used to join the travelling circus.

all attention seeking people desperate for abit of fame & fortune.

lightningatmidnight · 03/10/2026 22:42

I would have somewhat agreed with you, until the point that she brought her newborn baby into her brand. The freshers thing was morally dubious, but immersing even the CONCEPT of your newly born baby in a sexual sphere is awful.

Waitingfordoggo · 03/10/2026 22:43

@xXMummyTo6Xx You keep mentioning your ‘funny comment’. Can you explain the joke? Cause I think most of us didn’t get it.

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 22:46

Waitingfordoggo · 03/10/2026 22:43

@xXMummyTo6Xx You keep mentioning your ‘funny comment’. Can you explain the joke? Cause I think most of us didn’t get it.

don't need to repeat myself. your starting to come across abit desperate for an argument. nobody else is making a point of my first post, only you 🥱

Waitingfordoggo · 03/10/2026 23:07

Well no, quite a lot of people have commented on the misogyny in your comment, not just me.

You sound quite defensive, but you keep posting so must be getting something out of it. But I don’t have to keep arguing with you if it’s bothering you; I’m happy to leave it and wish you a good night, while also hoping that you reflect on why your comment was seen as misogynistic.

Isittimeformynapyet · 03/10/2026 23:14

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 22:46

don't need to repeat myself. your starting to come across abit desperate for an argument. nobody else is making a point of my first post, only you 🥱

What??!!

BridalFeastofBethChadruharazzeb · 03/10/2026 23:14

KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 14:00

One of the best day schools in the country. It has came up a few times and she is not a popular figure.

Of course its one of the best day schools...

Hmm
BridalFeastofBethChadruharazzeb · 03/10/2026 23:16

KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 14:29

I think she’s very clever for thinking of the whole thing and has a huge amount of courage to commit to it.

When i was her age i did and that was exceptional back then, even more I’m sure it’s very rare. Now I have a lot more but I’m also a lot older.

Happily married with a very ordinary sex life.

Business owner. I used to work a generic upper middle class job before.

When i was her age i did and that was exceptional back then, even more I’m sure it’s very rare. Now I have a lot more but I’m also a lot older.

What??