AIBU for supporting Bonnie Blue?

[KeenFatball]

Please hear me out first. I have no interest in watching her sleep with 1,000 guys (if this even happened), but I can’t help but like this woman for the following reasons.

1. It is so, so, soooo obvious that all she does it say/do the most obscene and provocative stuff possible for attention yet it seems like people fall for it every time. Especially on mumsnet, I think she has jumped the shark a bit too early naming the “baby” after a betting website but there were so many threads on this when none of it made any sense. Yet everyone just seems to eat it up and it makes me laugh.
2. Everyone wants to be rich and it is so so hard to accomplish (I became a single millionaire at 27 through business ownership so speaking from experience, it’s insanely insanely hard to get to 8 figs at her age like she has done), I have respect for anyone who manages to get there no matter how they do it. I relate to her a lot when she said she looked at all the UK careers and realised they all pay terribly. I don’t really know what people expect a young intelligent who wants to be wealthy to do instead? Work as an accountant or some crap which will pay £150k tops?
3. The sheer ridiculousness of the whole ordeal. It’s just a bit of braindead entertainment in this somewhat depressing world. I love checking up on this woman and seeing what she claims to be up to.

So AIBU? Frankly I can’t wait to see what she says next.

Oh, she’s made lots of MONEY!!!

In that case my opinion of her was completely wrong. Well done, Bonnie. 🤢

Completely agree. So many women seem to think having sex with lots/a 1000 men is empowering. For me it's the opposite - what's empowering is women not having to have sex to get ahead. We can keep our clothes on and still be successful.

We can choose what to do with our bodies.

yeah that's probably why he/she has suddenly gone silent! i am not discussing my vagina anymore 🤦🏻‍♀️😂 wish i never had even commented, but didn't realise people would take a comment i made about the disgusting Bonnie Blue Waffle so directly personal and offensive 🙄 it has baffled me.. its been a funny day though so who cares, i don't 🤣 life is too short.

I don’t really know what people expect a young intelligent who wants to be wealthy to do instead?

Yes, there are no other avenues that young intelligent women can successfully pursue beyond sex work.

Oh the irony 😂😂
You sending me a message of support 😂

I have no problem with her.

As long as everything she is doing is a choice she has happily made, and others are also happily making the choice to participate, then it's all fine.

People are very judgemental. There will always be someone who doesn't like something someone is doing.

My philosophy is that I don't judge others unless they are harming someone.

Personally, I couldn't think of anything worse than being famous, regardless of the reason. I don't even have social media. However, she seems happy and in control.

Probably borrowed a baby for the shoot!

she is in the public eye so we have a right to judge her don't we 🤷🏻‍♀️ she has made comments about how she doesn't want to be in the spotlight but wants to appear influential? she is an attention seeking, money driven disgusting whore 😂 nothing what she does is influential at all in my opinion.

Sure but if you have to have sex with a 1000 men in order to be successful (OP is very impressed by BB's millions) is that empowering?

It is your opinion that you have the right to judge, and that's entirely your prerogative.

As I said, I accept people wont always behave the way I would, and I don't judge them for it. We all have to do what is right for us, and as long as no one gets hurt, I feel pretty neutral towards most things.

If you're more judgemental, again, that's your choice. I won't judge you for making it.

I would just be honest with yourself about whether judging her brings anything positive to your life? Does calling her names because her choices differ from yours bring you joy?

As for the influential part, she seems to have influenced you pretty well. Influence and approval, after all, are not the same.

It is your opinion that you have the right to judge, and that's entirely your prerogative.

As I said, I accept people wont always behave the way I would, and I don't judge them for it. We all have to do what is right for us, and as long as no one gets hurt, I feel pretty neutral towards most things.

If you're more judgemental, again, that's your choice. I won't judge you for making it.

I would just be honest with yourself about whether judging her brings anything positive to your life? Does calling her names because her choices differ from yours bring you joy?

As for the influential part, she seems to have influenced you pretty well. Influence and approval, after all, are not the same.

Yes, of course you do 😂

@DebbieSavage childbirth is empowering! not shagging a 1000 men for 💰💰 which any one of us could do, she is nothing special.. might make an only fans account & see how much i could make 🙄😂😂

Whether it is or isn’t it’s just not ok to even make that kind of a plot when porn is involved.

I too didn’t really care much for her up until that point.

she hasn't influenced me at all hun, if that were true, i would behave and engage in the same disgusting acts like she does! rather not thanks 🤢🤢

We aren’t taking your comment personal. I think we’re just baffled that a grown woman with 6 kids would resort to such uneducated nonsense. It wasn’t funny. It wasn’t sarcastic as it’s clear you don’t understand what sarcasm is. It was just cringey, and deeply misogynistic and harmful to ALL women.

We are experiencing a complete epidemic of male violence against women and modern misogyny at the moment. With the likes of the “Red Pill” ideology being pushed and influenced by Andrew Tate and his type of “Manosphere” influencer acquaintances, we don’t need a woman (YOU) to be joining in with such ideologies.

Bonnie Blue also fits into this epidemic. She is influencing young (and any age tbh) males to disrespect, degrade and shame women. To use women like sex dolls. To normalise porn. This puts a lot of vulnerable women at risk in society.

You’ve said in previous comments why you dislike Bonnie Blue, so I’m baffled as to why you are lowering yourself to use such disturbing and misogynistic phrases which is the type of shit Bonnie Blue and Andrew Tate et al. like to say and push too.

If you are on our side please grow up and educate yourself. You come across as having the mindset and emotional intelligence of a very angry teenage boy. I’m ashamed and embarrassed on your behalf.

She's influenced your reaction. She's influenced you to engage with the topic and call her names.

But you did make a fairly misogynist point.

One that has no basis in biology or science either.

What i said was funny in my opinion, i was insulting her because i simply do not like her! she is disgusting!.. If anything, i was just trying to bring a sense of humour into the thread, i would of thought for me to make an insult that was directed towards her(which OP made & started this about the whore) some of you may of found it funny too. I am entitled to express my opinion & say what i want, Mumsnet is a free place where anyone can speak their mind & create whatever thread they like?! It's not my fault someone chooses to jump on a bandwagon taking it all personal, accusing me of this & that for an argument, when quite simply, i made a comment on a thread about Bonnie Blue Waffle 😂 It wasn't aimed towards any other woman! What baffles me is, why does everyone have to take everything so personal and serious? like we're in a f*cking parliment all arguing against one another, when again, i must state.. i don't agree with what she does at all so ofcoarse we are on the same side, i didn't say anything with the intention of starting an argument or a go compare debate on my own vagina! it's as simple as that 🤷🏻‍♀️

she hasn't influenced my reaction, OP has by starting this thread.

So, she hasn't disgusted you? I'm pretty sure you said she was a disgusting whore? I would definitely say that your feelings have been influenced by her choices.

I would also say that is her aim. Controversy makes money, after all. And she's been very successful at that too.

I hope you have a lovely end to your day.

So, she hasn't disgusted you? I'm pretty sure you said she was a disgusting whore? I would definitely say that your feelings have been influenced by her choices.

I would also say that is her aim. Controversy makes money, after all. And she's been very successful at that too.

I hope you have a lovely end to your day.

i feel disgusted by what she does and the fact she has brought a baby into it! she isn't a mother, she is a whore, that is a fact... but on a personal level, no? i don't know her as a person, i can only base my own opinions of her on what she has put out their for the millions of us to see, which therefore, i have made my own judgments based on that, which like everyone else has done! she has her haters & lovers.

If you aren't keen on Bonnie Blue, best thing is for all of us to stop talking about her, it's the attention via rage bait (even if negative) that drives everything. No attention, no business for her.