AIBU not warning a woman her shorts had ridden up?

[Ilikesundays]

Went for a coffee this morning. A “mature” lady was sitting with male friend at opposite table. I didn’t take much notice, but, suddenly, looking up across the cafe I couldn’t help seeing that her very short shorts had ridden up, she evidently wasn’t wearing isn’t pants underneath and all or almost all was revealed. I immediately looked away but she stayed put for the duration of my visit. Should I have warned her? I was too embarrassed to say anything. WWYHD?

So the poster can lecture the OP for being ageist.

I have seen this with a ball but not a flap

Sorry that has made me think of a joke. An elderly lady was on the deck of a cruise ship in high winds holding on to her hat while her skirts were up round her waist making it clear she wasn't wearing any underwear a Purser came running up and said Madam you must pull your skirt down everyone can see your privates to which she replied young man everything you see down there is 90 years old I just got this hat yesterday

It's possible.

Some years back a couple in their 60s were sitting at a table opposite me in - of all places - the food section of Waverley Market in Edinburgh and behaving in a most peculiar exhibitionist manner. I didn't realise what was happening at first, it was so bizarre...and there was hardly anyone there at the time, unusually.

There would be a loud noise and it wold be one of the couple banging rhythmically on the table and then grinning at the other. Okay. Weird, noisy and annoying.

Then I realised that it was some kind of a signal. (No, I'm not barmy.)

At one point, the bloke grabbed the woman on the chest just after she'd banged on the table. That was when I finished my coffee and left.

Grey-haired, bespectacled, wearing woolly hats and woolly jumpers. I recall wondering where there was some kind of a learning disability, given the banging on the table.

Never saw them again, thank goodness.

I am making a point about OP's sneering tone and ageism.

Well, the OP clearly thought they were relevant.

Maybe mature, or ‘mature’ labia are extra-horrifying?

Women with a big belly who wear swimsuits without legs on them very often show everything as their suit gapes around the leg when they walk up or down the stairs into the pool and unfortunately that also puts them right at eye height!

Maybe best try to forget it then, rather encouraging a load of strangers to discuss it.

Did she order a flapjack with her coffee?

I still laugh about that post … 🤣

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I’m totally confused how you can see anything, especially at a distance. Were the shorts baggy?

This is a well known, intentional perving technique and should be reported to the yoga teacher/sports centre.

If they were very short shorts there is no way she didn't feel that they had risen even higher, so she must have known and not cared

Honestly, mature women these days - can't take them anywhere!

You cow! I'm in a public place on my own,people around and I snorted 😤😂😂😂😂😂

They must of been eh?! I remember years ago (esrly 90s) when I was at high school and mum and dad were at work when we were coming home, we had to go to the neighbours house to get the key to get in, one day my brother and I went to get it and he must of been sleeping, he came to the door in boxers with the hole gaping and we both seen the lot 😱🤢🤮 his name was auld wullie. We used to say "we seen wullies wullie" after that unfortunate sight.

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Is there a chance she could have dementia and struggle with dressing etc?

Some cafes are quite small, I doubt it was one like M&S size so you would easily see. Sound deliberate if legs were wide open, displaying

Does your local caf not have a flaps klaxon?!

Think it is the shorts creep again…

Would put me off my flapjack but I wouldn’t say anything

How could you see under the table?
Were her labia in military uniform?
Are you the tuppence troll?

This is such a standard MN response as soon as a mature woman is mentioned.

Oh love I think he was exposing himself :(

I did have a reply to that post but I've forgotten what it was!

PMSL at many of the responses here 😂