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AIBU to think takeaway iced coffee at interviews is unprofessional?

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MasterBeth · Yesterday 19:45

Apparently, the world is debating this topic. Let's join in:

Is it unprofessional to bring a takeaway iced coffee into a job interview?

The answer to me is blindingly obvious, but not to everyone, it seems.

Feel free to add your age and industry, in case that matters.

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Cherryicecreamx · Yesterday 21:27

I know an iced coffee is a bit causal but is it really any different to bringing in a hot coffee? Would that be a no too?

XStitcher87 · Yesterday 21:27

Slight tangent, but in the same vein. I work for an established tech company in sales, so it’s pretty corporate. During an internal group video call, an individual was drinking a can of Tango. Don’t know why, but it felt unprofessional.

FiveEightNine · Yesterday 21:27

MasterBeth · Yesterday 21:15

I think it's a little bit rude to be bringing your own drink into any new social situation where you are likely to be offered a drink by the host.

I think it feels pretty greedy and needy to have to have a drink with you during the 30-90 minutes of an interview.

I think it's a tiny bit distracting to be sucking on a straw and rattling your ice cubes in a job interview.

Putting all those things together, I think it shows a small to medium lack of judgement when the alternative is very simple - to not bring an iced coffee into an interview.

I think it is a a little bit rude
It feels pretty greedy and needy
I think it is a tiny bit distracting
I think it shows a small to medium lack of...

Wow. Can you hear yourself?
Letting your feelings and personal opinions about something super small to influence your evaluation of a candidate? It sounds so self-important and judgmental.

Unless you are hiring a coach of mid-level corporate etiquette, try to not get distracted so easily and don't focus on a made up nonsense.

MasterBeth · Yesterday 21:28

FiveEightNine · Yesterday 21:27

I think it is a a little bit rude
It feels pretty greedy and needy
I think it is a tiny bit distracting
I think it shows a small to medium lack of...

Wow. Can you hear yourself?
Letting your feelings and personal opinions about something super small to influence your evaluation of a candidate? It sounds so self-important and judgmental.

Unless you are hiring a coach of mid-level corporate etiquette, try to not get distracted so easily and don't focus on a made up nonsense.

I hire people, not robots.

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ColdAsAWitches · Yesterday 21:30

MasterBeth · Yesterday 21:28

I hire people, not robots.

Edited

As long as they're people that stay within your very narrow and arbitrary set of rules, obviously.

AmnesiacsDream · Yesterday 21:34

I've worked in two professions for any length of time. In the police (though this is 30 years ago, but I would think would still apply?) - definitely inappropriate in interview. Far too informal, shows a lack of restraint.

In software and tech support, as an interviewer it would barely register and would be fine. As a candidate I'd never do it (far too worried I'd spill it down it me, apart from anything else).

FiveEightNine · Yesterday 21:34

MasterBeth · Yesterday 21:28

I hire people, not robots.

Edited

Nicely ironic.

The interviewer should be the professional in hiring and focus on the actually important stuff. Being bothered and distracted by their feelings about a coffee is the only unprofessional thing in the room.

On the other hand, the interviewee, unless applying for HR job, is a professional in something else. And human as well.

puppysleepdeprivation · Yesterday 21:36

I'd think less of a candidate if they brought a drink in for an interview. It feels a bit too casual. If it came down between two or three people who seemed equally good fits for the job, I'd probably choose someone who didn't bring a drink or food in with them. 💁And it would never occur to me to bring something to sip or nibble on to an interview, either. Save it for later.

ItsCloudyToday · Yesterday 21:36

48, NHS. Extremely rude.

Scrimblescromble · Yesterday 21:37

Fireybricks · Yesterday 21:24

Hmm it feels like something a young millennial or Gen Z would do. Probably says they’re more interested in what the company can do for them and they’ll be expecting a good hybrid working pattern or regular work from home.

Heaven forbid!

Nerdynerdynerd · Yesterday 21:38

I wouldn't do it as an interviewee but as an interviewer I'd not judge it a bad thing.

Maybe they were killing time after turning up early to make sure they were on time. Maybe it's a comfort to have something to hold or sip from. Maybe they don't know the fact it's mostly frowned upon.

If they interview well who really cares? What is it telling you that their answers and demeanour during interview doesn't? That they have a penchant for cold stimulants?

I work in mental health.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · Yesterday 21:39

PrideanndPurrjudice · Yesterday 21:12

Fair enough! Different jobs / areas I guess 🤷‍♀️

I work in finance and have done many interviews within professional services firm and within a corporate. I guess I’ve been in enough bad interviews that have taught me where to be picky and where not to be. For me this isn’t one. I might have other things I care about though that others wouldn’t

Namechangewegovyjune26 · Yesterday 21:39

Age 41, manager at a uni, creative role

Turn up in jeans if you like but bring a takeaway coffee? God no! It’ll make things awkward and I would be concerned about your judgement. Just finish your drink and bin it before you arrive.

mybiggreenfrog · Yesterday 21:40

Yes

MasterBeth · Yesterday 21:41

FiveEightNine · Yesterday 21:34

Nicely ironic.

The interviewer should be the professional in hiring and focus on the actually important stuff. Being bothered and distracted by their feelings about a coffee is the only unprofessional thing in the room.

On the other hand, the interviewee, unless applying for HR job, is a professional in something else. And human as well.

Part of the important stuff I am hiring for is the ability to present themselves in client workspaces, being aware of the sensibilities of others.

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SquirrelFan · Yesterday 21:41

Nope, it's tacky and unprofessional. It does appear immature, frivolous and not very sensitive to what is needed in formal occasions. I would definitely judge. I work in a school.
Practically: condensation, ice nose, slurping, that weird noise straws make sliding in and out of the plastic lid, one hand not free and cold and damp (not great when meeting people and shaking hands), spilling. I wouldn't take a hot coffee in either for most of the above reasons. Once offered a drink (provided you're sitting and settled, not juggling your portfolio /CV, coat and briefcase /bag on the way into the interview room) it's fine to accept.

Namechangewegovyjune26 · Yesterday 21:41

Cherryicecreamx · Yesterday 21:27

I know an iced coffee is a bit causal but is it really any different to bringing in a hot coffee? Would that be a no too?

Yes, for me anyway

Backedoffhackedoff · Yesterday 21:42

MasterBeth · Yesterday 21:41

Part of the important stuff I am hiring for is the ability to present themselves in client workspaces, being aware of the sensibilities of others.

Why would clients care if they brought an iced coffee into their workspace?

user1471553275 · Yesterday 21:43

I don't get where the obsession with constant drinking came from. At primary school we had metal jugs of water and you maybe had a wee flask of squash. No one was drinking constantly. You had a drink in the morning, lunch and then what you wanted once home.

I'd always have water available at interviews for candidates. Most never touch it. The average interview in my workplace (university) is 45 mins.

I have had people turn up in jeans which I thought was unprofessional. It was pushing smart/casual a bit too far. I'd probably not be so bothered now as it's much more casual post COVID but I do expect people to make a little bit of effort.

One of the professors who was appointed to my team looked like she'd rolled out of a hedge at her interview. I was not impressed. You don't have to be polished to within an inch of your life but some effort is important.

It's a formal process so leave the drink for after.

Mid 40s
University

Scrimblescromble · Yesterday 21:44

XStitcher87 · Yesterday 21:27

Slight tangent, but in the same vein. I work for an established tech company in sales, so it’s pretty corporate. During an internal group video call, an individual was drinking a can of Tango. Don’t know why, but it felt unprofessional.

I feel like I want to challenge myself to have increasingly unhinged drinks on video calls just to see at which point it gets noted and commented on. I feel like the next step from tango is a massive can of Monster followed by drinking from a 2L bottle of Lilt. Going to work my way up to a 6 pinter of milk. I wonder where a slush puppy in a refillable novelty bottle with a curly straw would come on the list

TY78910 · Yesterday 21:47

Water only.
Also when people arrive late to work with a takeaway cup - cannot help but judge.

Scrimblescromble · Yesterday 21:50

MasterBeth · Yesterday 21:07

Well, the original reply said:

"all of my interviews are for support worker jobs where there are no hard rules or dress code."

So I don't really get why it is a crazy question to ask what kind of support worker this is.

That’s fair enough. I was just curious about whether you had a view on this

Cherryicecreamx · Yesterday 21:51

Namechangewegovyjune26 · Yesterday 21:41

Yes, for me anyway

What about a hot coffee? 😅

Scrimblescromble · Yesterday 21:53

TY78910 · Yesterday 21:47

Water only.
Also when people arrive late to work with a takeaway cup - cannot help but judge.

The exception to this at my work is if they ring someone and get them to take coffee orders from rest of the team. Then they’re elevated to hero status

XStitcher87 · Yesterday 21:59

Scrimblescromble · Yesterday 21:44

I feel like I want to challenge myself to have increasingly unhinged drinks on video calls just to see at which point it gets noted and commented on. I feel like the next step from tango is a massive can of Monster followed by drinking from a 2L bottle of Lilt. Going to work my way up to a 6 pinter of milk. I wonder where a slush puppy in a refillable novelty bottle with a curly straw would come on the list

This would be amazing. I think a slush puppy with a curly straw maybe a discrete note to HR about your wellbeing, especially if being drunk in the morning 😂