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AIBU to ask for guidance around DC and A levels with university in mind - I'm clueless

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Tomorrowtodaynever · 10/09/2026 19:39

I didn't go to university traditionally, I ended up doing it as a mature student and his dad didn't go. I am helping Year 11 DC think about A level choices but with university in mind. Can anyone input?

So, in short: DC is bright and could do well across all subjects, but when it comes to choosing A levels they really can't decide. There are definite Nos - and these are a lot of the traditional subjects. I really want him to keep his options open and go to a good uni, if that can happen. Obviously if it doesn't, that's fine too. But I read that the Russell Group universities tend to favour facilitating vs non facilitating - I grabbed this (there are a few missing but you get the giste). Is this right? Should I be guiding him towards at least two of the facilitating subjects? What matters at A level? What you love to do or what (with one eye on the future) keeps things broad?

Any advice would be really welcome.

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Pinkissmart · 28/09/2026 21:43

Shatenoeuf · 27/09/2026 16:39

I'd disagree with this actually, unless its a particularly strong vocational course with links to an employer.

Theres a huge difference in the quality on offer at a top institution vs a weaker one. Weaker ones will take poorer students with worse grades & the courses will reflect this.

I studied a really random (non stem) course but at a top uni and got into an excellent grad scheme. Most of my colleagues are the same.

I would do at least 1-2 "facilitating" subjects & aim to get the best grades you can to access a selective uni with a strong reputation.

There’s no ‘facilitating subjects’ anymore.
Many of the less competitive universities do employability really well. They often DO have links with employers, real projects, and work experience built in or offered as a year in industry.

Charlatanfreethesedays · 28/09/2026 22:05

Of my peers at A Level, the most successful of my friends did drama - and she's doing very well indeed now.

She doesn't have a career that's related to drama directly as such, but she does have to do plenty of presentations. I have no doubt that her training in drama has stood her in good stead, she absolutely knows how to command a room.

Genevieva · 28/09/2026 22:20

Tomorrowtodaynever · 11/09/2026 18:55

I've never heard of geography requiring maths. Nor psychology. I understand the need to have writing skills, which they do

They require what I’d call soft numeracy skills - interpretation of stats and other data sets, the ability to create a graph, etc.

Genevieva · 28/09/2026 22:21

What does he love doing? What are his favourite subjects? What extracurricular interests does he have?

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