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AIBU to think Burnham’s words may haunt his premiership?

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Greyrock79 · 10/09/2026 07:16

To think that Burnham’s words are going to haunt his premiership?

‘…national security can’t come at the expense of social security…’

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Theseagullwhisperer · 11/09/2026 11:57

Pineneedlesincarpet · 11/09/2026 11:46

I get your point we need a stable society. But weve spent the peace dividend on social security and look at the country.

If war was declared next week the bottom line wouldn't be whether the triple lock was still.in place. It would be do we have enough guns and ammunition. And people who know how to shoot. And what Ab said was we can't (can't being the operative word) have those guns if it was at the expense of social security.

I really do get your point too. But fundamentally I suppose my own personal stance would be:

Yes, we do everything to support our national security, but it can't come at the expense of social security - because the two are completely inter-dependant and we need to find a pragmatic, long term way to adequately afford both”.

Which I do think does broadly align with what the Prime Minister said.

So, in terms of the initial question of whether those words will haunt his premiership, I think not because I think quite a lot of the public are broadly aligned with his thinking - or at least see the nuance and pragmatism behind it. And also because at the moment, the opposition aren’t offering a credible alternative.

LilacBalloons · 11/09/2026 12:01

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DdraigGoch · 11/09/2026 12:02

LancashireButterPie · 10/09/2026 09:17

We could spend every single penny we have as a nation and it would still be a drop in the ocean if the US or China decided that they wanted to invade us.

We are not the "great" invading power that we once were and we need to face up to that before we bankrupt ourselves.

How are China invade us (as if they'd want to) when we're on the opposite side of the world and they don't have the abilty to project power? Use your head!

As for the US, Trump might be an idiot, but trying to annex the UK is the sort of thing that would finally get the useless bunch in Congress to impeach and convict. How's that Iran war going?

Pineneedlesincarpet · 11/09/2026 12:04

nomas · 11/09/2026 11:55

He's not having we can't have national security. Because we already do have it (to the extent possible with the budget available).

So your point makes no sense.

"National security can't come at the expense of social security".

If national security IS at the expense of social security we cannot have that situation. That's where the word "can't" used by AB is relevant.

Therefore, if its a choice between funding for social security or national security, social security takes precendence as national security cannot be funded by cuts (at the expense of) to social security. This presumably applies to any future funding needs too. Defence spending cannot come at "at the expense" of any social security spending AB decides is needed.

Thats the meaning of his words.

The unfortunate meaning of his words and the impression he has given is that he thinks social security spending takes precedence over national security spending. He clearly does think that. Its a view of course. He can argue it and we will see from the Budget whether he believes it.

5128gap · 11/09/2026 12:05

Pineneedlesincarpet · 11/09/2026 11:50

Look at the word "cant"

If we "can't " have national security at the expense of social security this means we can only have national security if it isnt at the expense of social security. Therefore if national security is at the expense of social security, social security has priority.

And yes of course its a stupid thing for AB to say.

Edited

If I said to you, I'm not going to give my daughter a good meal at the expense of starving my son, would you think I was prioritising feeding my son? Or might I be simply saying that I wasn't going to give my daughter all the food in the house while my son has nothing, and would instead look for ways to feed them both?

Pineneedlesincarpet · 11/09/2026 12:06

DdraigGoch · 11/09/2026 12:02

How are China invade us (as if they'd want to) when we're on the opposite side of the world and they don't have the abilty to project power? Use your head!

As for the US, Trump might be an idiot, but trying to annex the UK is the sort of thing that would finally get the useless bunch in Congress to impeach and convict. How's that Iran war going?

Have you seen the size of the Chinese army and navy. They can do anything they want to.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 11/09/2026 12:09

5128gap · 11/09/2026 12:05

If I said to you, I'm not going to give my daughter a good meal at the expense of starving my son, would you think I was prioritising feeding my son? Or might I be simply saying that I wasn't going to give my daughter all the food in the house while my son has nothing, and would instead look for ways to feed them both?

"National security" is something we either have or we don't have. We are either secure or insecure. The military etc say we are insecure and need to increase spending.

If its "im not going to give a meal at the expense of my extremely well fed son to my daughter to keep her alive" would you change your mind? What if you had to chose between the two if you couldn't feed both? Son or daughter? Luckily if AB had to chose, the law requires him to chose national security over social security as the first duty of government is national security. It looks like he is going to find out the hard way along with the rest of us if he leaves the country open to attack and an attack happens (which it is already).

tramtracks · 11/09/2026 12:11

SevenYellowHammers · 10/09/2026 17:56

I’ll say this slowly so you get it. They. Don’t. Pay. Any.
They hire accountants to help them avoid it. They hide it in fake businesses. I knew one who had a paddock. Not even a decent one, marshy weedy scrub land. Registered as “Equestrian Livery Services”

He paid £330m tax last year. He paid himself £477m.

SevenYellowHammers · 11/09/2026 12:16

sunshinesuki · 11/09/2026 09:16

@swimsong It is an invasion by a brutal and deadly occupying force.

You can't invade your own country !
The territory was not under legitimate sovereignty before 1967 so it does not fit the definition of an occupied sovereign state.
It was annexed by Jordan in 1948 (no-one took Jordan to task over that did they ?)
The Arab League: Most member states viewed the annexation as illegal and a challenge to Arab unity and the Palestinian cause. The Arab League demanded Jordan's expulsion, declaring the annexation a temporary trustee measure pending a future resolution.
Global Community: The vast majority of nations considered the move illegal and void under international law, refusing to recognize Jordanian sovereignty over the territory.
Only a few countries formally recognized the annexation, including the United Kingdom, Iraq, and Pakistan.
The Palestinians didn't help themselves by trying to assassinate the King of Jordan under the direction of Yasser Arafat.

Jun 25, 1994
In Washington, Jordan's King Hussein and Israeli Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin signed the Washington Proclamation ending the state of belligerency between Israel and Jordan. Radical Palestinian groups protested the declaration.
Oct 26, 1994
Israel and Jordan signed a peace treaty at the Arara crossing in Jordan. Many Palestinian groups opposed the treaty. A ban on all demonstrations in Jordan was put into effect before the signing of the treaty.

People need to study the complex history of the area.

They don’t because it’s hard. I find it incredibly complex.

People like easy answers so they can join a side. This is why the Farages, Trumps and Reagans get votes. And to an extent Corbyn (for the many not the few, nice easy slogan).

Starmer would stand there and try to explain the difficulties and everyone hated that.

To return to your point, there’s no easy understanding or solution. People seem to miss that the person to blame, if we need one, is Hitler.

The enormity of the holocaust hangs there. Jewish people must be terrified. They had no where to go then. They do now. Us condemning Israel must seem horrific.

But the situation in Gaza? Also horrific and playing out in real time before our eyes.

Where is the UN in all this?

Theseagullwhisperer · 11/09/2026 12:16

BrandiedAromatics · 11/09/2026 11:51

In view of what you wrote above. I would be interested to know why you think John Healey said this:

I am certain that a headmark date for 3% of GDP on defence in 2030 is what Britain must set. This commitment would have strong cross-party support.’

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Firstly, I think John Healey wrote that because what you say as Defence Secretary, and the realities you face as Chancellor are different. Secondly, I think he said it because it is correct: the aspiration to meet the 3% target is shared across the house. The question is how you pay for it - and as Chancellor he can see that right now, the public finances simply cannot absorb it without causing social harm. I also think some of the point-scoring accusations of hypocrisy from the opposition towards John Healey do sort of prove the point that Kemi Badenoch is just not a consensus building politician. Real consensus requires balancing competing national interests, not just screaming for a single number, on an arbitrary timetable.

BrandiedAromatics · 11/09/2026 12:20

11AndCounting · 11/09/2026 00:40

Yes, 3.5% by 2035, because that's the NATO target % and timeline. All the parties (Greens aside) are on board with that part.

And yes, what happens in the meantime (how do we get there and at what rate) are questions that remain to be answered.

Healey resigned when Starmer would only commit to 2.68% by 2030 so I expect we'll see something more aggressive than that with him as Chancellor, but I suspect they're not committing in order to give themselves some wiggle room.

We should have been investing more far sooner tbh, and I'm glad there's at least some degree of cross-party consensus on the need, if not the how.

Healey resigned when Starmer would only commit to 2.68% by 2030 so I expect we'll see something more aggressive than that with him as Chancellor

Well, yes. You would have thought so. It is disingenuous to suppose, with his dealings with Trump, that Starmer would not have declared more if he could realistically have committed to it.

So Healey and Burnham must have a way of raising this extra to get to the 3.00%. There must be a good plan if it was worth bringing down a PM?

1dayatatime · 11/09/2026 12:25

DdraigGoch · 11/09/2026 12:02

How are China invade us (as if they'd want to) when we're on the opposite side of the world and they don't have the abilty to project power? Use your head!

As for the US, Trump might be an idiot, but trying to annex the UK is the sort of thing that would finally get the useless bunch in Congress to impeach and convict. How's that Iran war going?

China or any other major power wouldn't physically invade the UK as you say. It's more likely to operate a war in the grey zone where they finance various groups to destabilise the country through misinformation and terrorist attacks.

Once the country is in chaos they then finance and support a change of government to one that is favourable to China.

Look at how Russia took control of Crimea, it's a really good example of grey zone warfare.

KeepDancing1 · 11/09/2026 12:27

Binnyforthewin · 10/09/2026 11:28

In fact I'm going to change again soon since disappointingly Binny fail to win so my name is a bit out of date.

Lovely interview with him at lunch on TMS yesterday

Theseagullwhisperer · 11/09/2026 12:34

Pineneedlesincarpet · 11/09/2026 12:09

"National security" is something we either have or we don't have. We are either secure or insecure. The military etc say we are insecure and need to increase spending.

If its "im not going to give a meal at the expense of my extremely well fed son to my daughter to keep her alive" would you change your mind? What if you had to chose between the two if you couldn't feed both? Son or daughter? Luckily if AB had to chose, the law requires him to chose national security over social security as the first duty of government is national security. It looks like he is going to find out the hard way along with the rest of us if he leaves the country open to attack and an attack happens (which it is already).

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In theory, I don’t disagree with what you’re saying, but the thing is at the moment I don’t think the opposition have a viable plan to adequately fund defence spending either.

At least the Prime Minister is being honest about the genuine difficulties of balancing competing priorities.

BrandiedAromatics · 11/09/2026 12:34

Theseagullwhisperer · 11/09/2026 12:16

Firstly, I think John Healey wrote that because what you say as Defence Secretary, and the realities you face as Chancellor are different. Secondly, I think he said it because it is correct: the aspiration to meet the 3% target is shared across the house. The question is how you pay for it - and as Chancellor he can see that right now, the public finances simply cannot absorb it without causing social harm. I also think some of the point-scoring accusations of hypocrisy from the opposition towards John Healey do sort of prove the point that Kemi Badenoch is just not a consensus building politician. Real consensus requires balancing competing national interests, not just screaming for a single number, on an arbitrary timetable.

Thanks for your answer - which falls into 2 parts for me.

Firstly, I think John Healey wrote that because what you say as Defence Secretary, and the realities you face as Chancellor are different. Secondly, I think he said it because it is correct: the aspiration to meet the 3% target is shared across the house. The question is how you pay for it - and as Chancellor he can see that right now, the public finances simply cannot absorb it without causing social harm.

Yes. And amidst the crowing with delight when he flounced off. I welcomed the opinion of someone within his Ministry of Defence - Healey had been very unrealistic.

I also think some of the point-scoring accusations of hypocrisy from the opposition towards John Healey do sort of prove the point that Kemi Badenoch is just not a consensus building politician. Real consensus requires balancing competing national interests, not just screaming for a single number, on an arbitrary timetable.

On the contrary I do not think Badenoch would be doing her job if she did not call this out. Healey did scream for a single number, on an arbitrary timetable. His subsequent promotion to the very position that could fulfil his principles rather makes the accusations of hypocrisy very pertinent.

LilacBalloons · 11/09/2026 12:35

Pineneedlesincarpet · 11/09/2026 12:04

"National security can't come at the expense of social security".

If national security IS at the expense of social security we cannot have that situation. That's where the word "can't" used by AB is relevant.

Therefore, if its a choice between funding for social security or national security, social security takes precendence as national security cannot be funded by cuts (at the expense of) to social security. This presumably applies to any future funding needs too. Defence spending cannot come at "at the expense" of any social security spending AB decides is needed.

Thats the meaning of his words.

The unfortunate meaning of his words and the impression he has given is that he thinks social security spending takes precedence over national security spending. He clearly does think that. Its a view of course. He can argue it and we will see from the Budget whether he believes it.

Did you read anything other than the headline?

Became what he expressly said is "This side of the House will not be forced to choose between the two and we will set out a plan to get to 3.5% by 2035 at the spending review."

He isn't saying 'it's a choice between national security and social security and I'm picking social security'. He is saying 'funding for national security will come from somewhere other than cuts to social security, and the details of that will be in the spending review'.

It's not 'national security can't be at the expense of social security, therefore we aren't having national security'. It's 'national security can't be at the expense of social security, but it can be at the expense of something else.'

EasternStandard · 11/09/2026 12:39

LilacBalloons · 11/09/2026 12:35

Did you read anything other than the headline?

Became what he expressly said is "This side of the House will not be forced to choose between the two and we will set out a plan to get to 3.5% by 2035 at the spending review."

He isn't saying 'it's a choice between national security and social security and I'm picking social security'. He is saying 'funding for national security will come from somewhere other than cuts to social security, and the details of that will be in the spending review'.

It's not 'national security can't be at the expense of social security, therefore we aren't having national security'. It's 'national security can't be at the expense of social security, but it can be at the expense of something else.'

He might have to, or someone not him instead, there’s not a lot to get from the other things you listed.

tramtracks · 11/09/2026 12:41

SevenYellowHammers · 11/09/2026 00:50

That bloke was born rich. It’s nothing to do with acumen. Money breeds money. I bet he only made a few charitable donations because they were tax deductible, like his Eton education.

Chris Rokos wasn’t born rich. He came from a very normal family but just happened to be extremely gifted at Maths etc. So Eton offered him a fully funded place under their outreach program.

tramtracks · 11/09/2026 12:48

Switchnow · 10/09/2026 10:08

Good to know. Fortunately we don’t compel
people to live here so it’s always a risk that some will leave. I still don’t think we should be held hostage by one billionaire.

What do you mean by ‘held hostage’. He hasn’t asked anything of this government.

Theseagullwhisperer · 11/09/2026 12:49

EasternStandard · 11/09/2026 12:39

He might have to, or someone not him instead, there’s not a lot to get from the other things you listed.

But equally, it can’t be funded by cuts alone, and certainly not only by cutting benefits.

So, once we strip the ideology back, at the moment no political party has a solution yet.

At least the Prime Minister is being a bit less simplistic about it.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 11/09/2026 12:49

Theseagullwhisperer · 11/09/2026 12:34

In theory, I don’t disagree with what you’re saying, but the thing is at the moment I don’t think the opposition have a viable plan to adequately fund defence spending either.

At least the Prime Minister is being honest about the genuine difficulties of balancing competing priorities.

Edited

Yes fair enough. But the opposition aren't in government and don't have the power to make the decisions.

I think as tbe resignation of the Defence Secretary was pivotal in ensuring AB became PM you'ld have thought he would have a plan to hand rather than kicking the can down the road. But there we go.

EasternStandard · 11/09/2026 12:51

Theseagullwhisperer · 11/09/2026 12:49

But equally, it can’t be funded by cuts alone, and certainly not only by cutting benefits.

So, once we strip the ideology back, at the moment no political party has a solution yet.

At least the Prime Minister is being a bit less simplistic about it.

He’s being incredibly simplistic. He says nothing in that quote, it’s just a line to placate not answer.

It probably will involve cuts.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 11/09/2026 12:52

LilacBalloons · 11/09/2026 12:35

Did you read anything other than the headline?

Became what he expressly said is "This side of the House will not be forced to choose between the two and we will set out a plan to get to 3.5% by 2035 at the spending review."

He isn't saying 'it's a choice between national security and social security and I'm picking social security'. He is saying 'funding for national security will come from somewhere other than cuts to social security, and the details of that will be in the spending review'.

It's not 'national security can't be at the expense of social security, therefore we aren't having national security'. It's 'national security can't be at the expense of social security, but it can be at the expense of something else.'

We could go round in circles. I did watch the whole of PMQs. The impression I along with many people is that if it came down to a choice between social security and national security (and he will be forced to chose Im afraid, given theres no money) AB would chose social security. This is because he used the word "can't". That's the meaning of his words. Sorry. I know its scary for everyone even if they don't realise yet.

We will see what choices he makes in tbe Budget.

Theseagullwhisperer · 11/09/2026 12:54

Pineneedlesincarpet · 11/09/2026 12:49

Yes fair enough. But the opposition aren't in government and don't have the power to make the decisions.

I think as tbe resignation of the Defence Secretary was pivotal in ensuring AB became PM you'ld have thought he would have a plan to hand rather than kicking the can down the road. But there we go.

I do completely take that point. I guess my own personal hope is that in the budget itself the government might be more ambitious on defence spending than they’ve so far committed to.

But fundamentally, I do think the Prime Minister’s central proposition that national
security and social security are interdependent is right.

nomas · 11/09/2026 12:56

Pineneedlesincarpet · 11/09/2026 12:09

"National security" is something we either have or we don't have. We are either secure or insecure. The military etc say we are insecure and need to increase spending.

If its "im not going to give a meal at the expense of my extremely well fed son to my daughter to keep her alive" would you change your mind? What if you had to chose between the two if you couldn't feed both? Son or daughter? Luckily if AB had to chose, the law requires him to chose national security over social security as the first duty of government is national security. It looks like he is going to find out the hard way along with the rest of us if he leaves the country open to attack and an attack happens (which it is already).

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"National security" is something we either have or we don't have. We are either secure or insecure. The military etc say we are insecure and need to increase spending.

It's not true though, we have national security, at the cost of £62 billion pa.

It might not get us all the security we want, but if you you think we don't have any national security, you might as well advocate for that £62b to spent on social security. Is that what you're saying?