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She weighs 105lbs...

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likelysuspect · 01/09/2026 13:18

The film Angel Face - Robert Mitchum and Jean Simmons 1952

During the start he is describing his girlfriend and mentions she is 105lbs

I thought I'd misheard and maybe it was 125lbs but no, 105lbs

Thats 7 and a half stone.

Seems very tiny but AI tells me that is the usual sort of frame and weight to height ratio for actresses in those days. The actress playing the girlfriend was 5'4 apparently. So slight frame but not underweight

I was a bit surprised it was so low a weight.

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somekindofdoughnut · Yesterday 08:15

I was disgusted with myself as a teen in the 80s when the scales tipped 9 stone. At 5'4" I was a steady 8st 12 until I had kids. Now I'm delighted with 9st 6! (And despite my literally bang-average size I was teased about my weight at school and had Bridget Jones level of neurosis about it).

Myli1 · Yesterday 08:21

SideEyeClyde · 02/09/2026 20:01

Only if you also include the elderly (who lose 1-2 inches as they age and often had very poor nutrition in childhood also); teenagers who haven’t finished growing; ethnic minorities who are genetically disposed to being far smaller than northern Europeans; and people living in poverty or with very poor diets as children (malnourishment in childhood reduces adult height by 2 inches on average).

When you strip out these confounding factors from the data the average height of adult women 20-45 in the UK is around 5’9”. For men it is 5’11-6’0”.

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So if you strip out relevant and contributory data you end up with… a different set of statistics? 🙄🙄 No shit Sherlock.

AbacusCat · Yesterday 08:24

somekindofdoughnut · Yesterday 08:15

I was disgusted with myself as a teen in the 80s when the scales tipped 9 stone. At 5'4" I was a steady 8st 12 until I had kids. Now I'm delighted with 9st 6! (And despite my literally bang-average size I was teased about my weight at school and had Bridget Jones level of neurosis about it).

I was always around 9 stone in the same era. I was a size 12 in those days at that weight.

TheChickenRun · Yesterday 08:57

AbacusCat · 01/09/2026 13:42

Jean Simmons doesn't look unhealthily thin in this shot from the film - her arms are shapely rather than bony and her face is not in any way gaunt- I think she must simply have had a small, delicate frame.

She looks a lot younger than him in that pic though. Surprised to see she’s only 12 years younger.

Nannamads · Yesterday 09:28

In those days very few people were overweight. During /post 2nd world war you would be " hard pushed to find anyone overweight. It was full fat everything. And i guess as women you couldn't just put a load in the washing machine, its was a full days hard labour, so they were fit aswell.😊

NancyThompson · Yesterday 09:29

Myli1 · Yesterday 08:21

So if you strip out relevant and contributory data you end up with… a different set of statistics? 🙄🙄 No shit Sherlock.

You don't, anyway. There's nothing you can strip out to give any female cohort in the UK an average height of 5'9 (other than randomly excluding women below a certain height). So the figure is just flat out wrong.

NancyThompson · Yesterday 09:31

SideEyeClyde · Yesterday 06:30

Yes. It is an analysis of data from the NHS Digital Health Survey and UK Biobank Study data. You can cross section the very detailed subsets of data and excluding the confounding factors that I stated (age, specific genetic heritage which typically results in far lower average heights than the white British population and growing up in deprived areas/ poverty) then it results in precisely the heights I provided.

This is how data analysis works. It’s not “racist” to note the objective fact that people with different genetics have different heights on average. Look at the data from across the globe.

No, it doesn’t imply that people from different ethnic backgrounds are “not real women” or “not real people”. 🙄😆 Why would the objective fact that people with specific genetic heritage are statistically far more likely to be short be considered insulting? It’s an objective fact. Nobody is making a value judgement on being short, in fact this thread was about someone not liking being tall (evem though objectively they are not even by general UK averages including all of the confounding factors which don’t apply to the majority of the adult UK population under 45, let alone if they are white British and haven’t grown up with malnutrition in which case they are actually two inches under average height for a woman).

It is simply an obvious fact that it makes no sense to average heights between two groups who have different genetic/ age characteristics which directly affect their height, the same as it would be silly to compare my height to that of the average ten year old and it’s not “ageist” to note the fact they are likely to be far shorter than me, or to compare my height to that of the average man my age and it’s not “sexist” to note that they are likely to be taller than me.

Stop being ridiculous.

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I think you've misread it then. There is nowhere on earth where the average height for non-elderly adult women is 5'9.

MiaKulper · Yesterday 09:37

" the average height of adult women 20-45 in the UK is around 5’9”". Yes, about 5'4".

@NancyThompson , the pp lives in a Long Tall Sally shop or a modelling agency.

dcthatsme · Yesterday 09:38

Lifeomars · 02/09/2026 20:59

Never had snacks when I was young and hardly ever had a take away. The small city i grew up in had a MacDonalds and a Kentucky but they were miles away from where i lived so we hardly ever went there. I still don't snack, or hardly and I have to be really hungry. I now live in a city that must have about 5 Macdonalds and the nearest Kentucky is about 5 mins away, near the Subway and over the road from the chip shop and round the corner from the Chinese take away.

We have so much temptation - it’s really hard to resist - I’ve fallen prey to so called healthy snacks now but they’re still calories

NancyThompson · Yesterday 09:49

MiaKulper · Yesterday 09:37

" the average height of adult women 20-45 in the UK is around 5’9”". Yes, about 5'4".

@NancyThompson , the pp lives in a Long Tall Sally shop or a modelling agency.

Ah, that clears up the confusion.

MiaKulper · Yesterday 09:49

@dcthatsme , there was a BBC Food Chain programme on snacks this morning. It was on World Service so the podcast is probably not available yet.
They are industrially-manufactured and meant to be temptation.

I don't really get the temptation for them but once I start, I won't want to stop.
My lack of 'temptation' is because they are usually a disappointment. Cakes, for example, are rarely as nice as they look.

Ladygodalmighty · Yesterday 09:52

My Mother was 5' 2" and weighed 7st 12 lbs when she married at age 28. She had a beautiful hour glass figure measurinf 36-22-36. After birthing 2 children her weight rose to 9st 2lb. She never looked over weight. She remained that weight for most of her life. She had a healthy diet and was moderately active.

MiaKulper · Yesterday 10:01

@Ladygodalmighty , She was 7st 12 (110lbs) and 5'2", so heavier and shorter.
It sounds like a healthy weight for the height. Slim but not underweight.

My mother was "only 8 st" after she had me. I'm taller than her but weigh about 8st. The difference is that I don't have my mother's obsession with dieting, her "big hips", and being "short-waisted". I inherited her frame but different habits.

pucelleauxblanchesmains · Yesterday 10:20

likelysuspect · Yesterday 07:59

Yes theres a lot of alarmist and po faced 'its UNDERWEIGHT' posts, when actually my own BMI is now 25 so Im the same equivalent overweight as 18.5 is undersweight. Are people alarmed for me?

Yes! I think 25 is also not a healthy BMI to aim for and you should be under 25 (or 23 if you're of an ethnicity where that's the cutoff).

I've been 5'4 and 7 and a half stone as an adult - indeed I've been under that. I am now at the very bottom of the healthy weight range.

When I was 7 and a half stone, in fact, I was seeing a GP for something completely unrelated and she weighed me and told me I could really do with gaining a very small amount of weight. I didn't feel "underweight" as such - I also have the fabled small frame - but I was according to BMI, and BMI is in fact a useful tool for the vast majority of people in terms of predicting health outcomes. Most people are not so special it doesn't apply to them.

MiaKulper · Yesterday 10:55

The BMI of 25 (or 23 if applicable) is the point beyond which you are classed as overweight, not a target. The ideal is 21.7.

Looking at the values for my height and age I'd say it was about right. I'd be 'fat' way before I reached BMI 25. (My frame is quite sturdy, feet and hands not small, quite lean in physique).

By fat I mean feeling too heavy and people commenting. Why they think I need to be told is beyond me.

pucelleauxblanchesmains · Yesterday 11:27

I don't think any particular BMI within the healthy weight range is given as a universal ideal to be honest. 21.7 is just in the exact middle of 18.5-25, but most people's ideal weight should fall somewhere in there.* *

MrsShawnHatosy · Yesterday 11:32

pucelleauxblanchesmains · Yesterday 11:27

I don't think any particular BMI within the healthy weight range is given as a universal ideal to be honest. 21.7 is just in the exact middle of 18.5-25, but most people's ideal weight should fall somewhere in there.* *

This. It’s a scale to take account of differing frame sizes.

Aluna · Yesterday 12:17

pucelleauxblanchesmains · Yesterday 10:20

Yes! I think 25 is also not a healthy BMI to aim for and you should be under 25 (or 23 if you're of an ethnicity where that's the cutoff).

I've been 5'4 and 7 and a half stone as an adult - indeed I've been under that. I am now at the very bottom of the healthy weight range.

When I was 7 and a half stone, in fact, I was seeing a GP for something completely unrelated and she weighed me and told me I could really do with gaining a very small amount of weight. I didn't feel "underweight" as such - I also have the fabled small frame - but I was according to BMI, and BMI is in fact a useful tool for the vast majority of people in terms of predicting health outcomes. Most people are not so special it doesn't apply to them.

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I’ve been 7.5 in my life and no GP said anything.

Being underweight is not a risk factor unless it’s a manifestation of illness or malnourishment.

AbacusCat · Yesterday 12:24

Aluna · Yesterday 12:17

I’ve been 7.5 in my life and no GP said anything.

Being underweight is not a risk factor unless it’s a manifestation of illness or malnourishment.

My mum was always slightly underweight - BMI 17.5 - and it was regarded as normal for her. Tiny frame, size 3 feet. Sadly now she is old and unwell it has dropped to 14 - she struggles to eat nowadays.

FlyingPC · Yesterday 12:26

As others have said, we have normalised being much bigger than we should be, and this is very wrong.

Just got back from a holiday in Spain. Everyone is very, very thin there.

Talked to a friend of mine and we could imagine everyone from UK/USA would assume they all have disordered eating instead of realising that it's the UK/USA with disordered eating.

Spain, Italy, Norway, Russia, Japan women are all very 'small' compared to our version of what this means.

We changed - they didn't. We are the problem.

MiaKulper · Yesterday 13:33

Just got back from a holiday in Spain. Everyone is very, very thin there.
They're probably slim.

pucelleauxblanchesmains · Yesterday 13:39

I can't be bothered arguing the toss any more about whether most people should in fact be a healthy weight but per NICE guidelines, if you are underweight you are inherently considered malnourished. Yes, even if you eat like a horse.

I don't see this as any more controversial than "if your BMI is 26 you are overweight even if you swear you only eat a lettuce leaf a day and have big bones". I put effort into maintaining a healthy weight even if I'd rather have a BMI of 17 again and could quite easily lose to get back to it because- perhaps foolishly, idk! - I think NHS guidelines around weight are there for a reason and I ultimately trust my doctor.

She weighs 105lbs...
dreamiesformolly · Yesterday 13:43

Gatekeeper · Yesterday 06:36

We have though...someone on here the other day was describing another person as ,'slender' at 12 stone

That's one person's subjective opinion, though, and can't be taken as indicative of any wider societal shift in opinion re this...

Aluna · Yesterday 17:28

if you are underweight you are inherently considered malnourished

Not true, you’ve misunderstood those guidelines.

BMI is a very broad and simple statistical screening tool at population level which simply compares weight to height.

Malnutrition is when food intake or nutrient absorption is genuinely inadequate - leading to loss of muscle mass, vitamin and mineral deficiencies & physical impairment.

BMI on its own cannot determine malnourishment. Doctors look at medical history, blood tests, diet, and body composition - muscle mass, bone density etc.
Some people naturally have a slim build, fast metabolism, or genetic predisposition to a low weight without any nutritional deficiency.

likelysuspect · Yesterday 17:37

pucelleauxblanchesmains · Yesterday 13:39

I can't be bothered arguing the toss any more about whether most people should in fact be a healthy weight but per NICE guidelines, if you are underweight you are inherently considered malnourished. Yes, even if you eat like a horse.

I don't see this as any more controversial than "if your BMI is 26 you are overweight even if you swear you only eat a lettuce leaf a day and have big bones". I put effort into maintaining a healthy weight even if I'd rather have a BMI of 17 again and could quite easily lose to get back to it because- perhaps foolishly, idk! - I think NHS guidelines around weight are there for a reason and I ultimately trust my doctor.

If you're underweight you are inherently malnourished? What rot!!

You can be malnourished at any weight firstly and secondly, theres no evidence if your BMI puts you 'underweight' that you are certainly malnourished. You're only malnourished if you actually are.

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