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To think Dolly Parton was some sort of prophet or philosopher

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Judicioususeofthewordgirdle · Yesterday 16:42

There have been loads of clips of Dolly Parton interviews around and articles with quotes and the more I watch and read, the more I think she was some kind of font of wisdom. An oracle. A prophet.

Her approach to life, everything, she was like Yoda in rhinestones. Just the perfect attitude, and a long, productive, inspirational life.

”Legend” is thrown around liberally but in her case it is fully deserved.

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Newname26 · Yesterday 18:07

EnjoythemoneyJane · Yesterday 17:41

She actually told an interviewer once that she could easily go out and about unrecognised because the ‘Dolly’ persona was all about the wigs and outfits and make up. Without them she could pass unnoticed and just go about her business. She was way ahead of her time in understanding how to be a global celebrity without allowing it to consume and define her.

That really doesn't surprise me.
I watched a clip on BBC last night her opening a cupboard on the campervan 'and there's another two Dolly's right there' two wigs on stands!

Flamingojune · Yesterday 18:17

iloveanearlynight · Yesterday 17:21

As she said "if it bags, sags or drags, I get it fixed!"

So what's the message. Women cant age?

geoger · Yesterday 18:25

Love, love, love Dolly. She’s my hero snd the one famous person I would have loved to have over for dinner.
Love her music, love her bright spirit and her ability to smile so much. She helped so many people and the love she had for her family shone through. I think because she came from humble beginnings and always dreamed of being rich and famous she always appreciated everything she had.
An exceptionally talented musician, very shrewd business woman and an absolute legend

MissBattleaxe · Yesterday 18:27

"Yoda in rhinestones" - love it. She was a true force of goodness. While billionaires are spaffing money on spaceships and dodging tax, she sent out over 300 MILLION books. She only ever had nice things to say and her actions backed up her kind nature.

Lavendersong · Yesterday 18:28

Dolly was simply magnificent

Bogstandardname · Yesterday 18:31

There was certainly something very special about the lady.

NovemberMorn · Yesterday 18:43

Flamingojune · Yesterday 18:17

So what's the message. Women cant age?

She wasn't sending any message, other than she didn't want to bag and sag, that was her choice.

I can't ever remember a celebs death having such an impact; it's on a par with Princess Diana's. Everybody loved her; she touched so many with her talent, storytelling, and generosity.

RIP Dolly.

notapizzaeater · Yesterday 18:44

I saw her live bout 15 years ago and she was by far the best artist I’ve ever seen live. We need more Dollys in this world.

a testimont to her is that not one bad word has been reported - every one is sharing food things, lots she did in the background.

paomara · Yesterday 18:48

She was so funny and so honest. I read somewhere that in an interview she was asked if she spent a lot of time at her hairdresser, she answered "I don't know, I'm never there" The wigs were at the salon, she was elsewhere. 😂😂😂

likelysuspect · Yesterday 18:49

Tomfooleries · Yesterday 17:44

That still doesn’t make it in any sense an ok message. I mean, I like her, think she was a brilliant singer-songwriter, and a warm, likeable personality, and someone who did impressive amounts of good, but some kind of sage? No.

What message? She wasnt giving a message. She was just herself and doing what she made herself happy with.

Good for her. She was genuine, more genuine than anyone else actually. Because she didnt actually do things in response to others, she just had her own way and her own person.

Love her.

the80sweregreat · Yesterday 18:50

She was brilliant wasn’t she. One of a kind.

Jaimelefromage · Yesterday 18:53

Flamingojune · Yesterday 18:17

So what's the message. Women cant age?

Does everything have to be a message though?

NovemberMorn · Yesterday 18:57

Jaimelefromage · Yesterday 18:53

Does everything have to be a message though?

No it doesn't.
But if she did send any message out, it was not to judge others and be accepting of people, whoever they are. I believe that was the way she lived her own life.

Sunloungerhogger · Yesterday 19:00

hear hear - am also really saddened by her death, she just seemed like an incredibly kind generous wise and joyful person, who also happened to be extremely talented, funny and worked damn hard. Nothing not to admire about her, and the world seems like a sadder place without her in it.

daisydaisydais128 · Yesterday 19:02

Flamingojune · Yesterday 16:47

Love her, but not sure all that plastic surgery is a great message about being a woman

I think plastic surgery is neutral - personal choice. Nobody should feel obliged to have it, but nobody should feel shamed if they want to.

Uncontroversialusername · Yesterday 19:09

Newname26 · Yesterday 18:07

That really doesn't surprise me.
I watched a clip on BBC last night her opening a cupboard on the campervan 'and there's another two Dolly's right there' two wigs on stands!

I remember a quote attributed to her.

She was once asked how long it took her to do her hair and she replied. " I wouldn't know, I'm never there".

CalmFairy · Yesterday 19:11

It is sad news i really liked her.
But not everyone liked her.

WellConfusedandDazed · Yesterday 19:14

Picoloangel · Yesterday 16:56

I think what people want to do with their bodies and faces is their business. What I don’t like is women who deny surgery. I admired the fact that she fully acknowledged wearing wigs, having surgery etc. I would welcome more honesty from the likes of the Kardashians, Nicole Kidman etc. It is very damaging to deny it.

There is an interview where she is asked how long it takes to do her hair, and she responded ‘I don’t know, I’m not there when they do it’ (or something like that) Absolutely hilarious and genuine. I loved her ‘it takes a lot of money to look this cheap’ philosophy. Own it!

UpToonGirl · Yesterday 19:14

I've seen quite a few clips of her over the last day and every one has made me laugh or smile. She was amazing. Her generosity is really to be admired.

Picoloangel · Yesterday 20:18

@WellConfusedandDazed

I loved that woman so much. Interviews where she said she was not going to be the woman in a meeting and not be equal to the men, one where she said, The jokes not on me, I know exactly what I’m doing” and she did. She made no apology for being exactly who she was and wanted to be. That’s so rare in life. Added to that her philanthropy, her talent. I’m genuinely so sad

WellConfusedandDazed · Yesterday 20:23

Picoloangel · Yesterday 20:18

@WellConfusedandDazed

I loved that woman so much. Interviews where she said she was not going to be the woman in a meeting and not be equal to the men, one where she said, The jokes not on me, I know exactly what I’m doing” and she did. She made no apology for being exactly who she was and wanted to be. That’s so rare in life. Added to that her philanthropy, her talent. I’m genuinely so sad

Another one …. I'm not offended by all the dumb blonde jokes because I know I'm not dumb… and I'm not blonde either

SnortCorner · Yesterday 20:30

An absolute phenomenon. I've never cried when a celebrity died before, but I've shed more than a few tears for Dolly. She was much more than a celebrity.
My favourite quote of hers is:
I was the first woman to burn my bra, it took the fire department four days to put it out.

I also listened to a great interview with her a few years back where she spoke about Elvis and how he wanted to record I will always love you, but his manager wanted some sort of lasting rights to the song and she told him absolutely not, so Elvis never recorded it, but he did apparently sing it to Priscilla when they got divorced.

Picoloangel · Yesterday 20:38

I loved the story about her entering a Dolly Parton lookalike competition but being told that she had gone too far and that everyone thought she was “a short gay man.”

DewDropsAndCobWebs · Yesterday 20:48

Dolly was pure class.
She grew, and lifted those around her. She always paid attention to the little guy
When she surged, she carried those around her too, and all the while, looking for who else she could help.
She was savvy, in the best ways.

risingup · Yesterday 20:48

Not only was she musically gifted she was also a very shrewd and capable business woman.