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Dogs in restaurants - I am done!

533 replies

Doseofreality · Yesterday 16:06

The hill that I will die on. Dogs should not be allowed in eating establishments.

Just had another lunch spoilt as a family came in with 3, yes 3, large dogs and sat down at the table beside us. It’s gross, unhygienic and anti social. If I wanted to eat surrounded by animals I’d grab a takeaway and go and sit in a vet’s waiting room.

Close to £100 wasted on a lunch where I had a dog licking it’s bumhole in my line of vision.

OP posts:
AuntieBiotics · Yesterday 17:17

Queenncat · Yesterday 16:44

Our dog is our 6th family member. And we treat her as human. She is the best dog.

This is the problem isn't it. Your dog is not human, it is a dog. You can feel however you like about your pet, but you cannot expect anyone else to be as besotted as you are.

Stormyrose · Yesterday 17:17

Very few restaurants actually allow this op, so maybe next time just ask the policy if it upsets you. As said it’s typical in cafes and pubs, but actual restaurants .

it doesn’t bother me,I like dogs and usually give them a pet when I see them in the pub when we go for dinner.

ThisWiseRobin · Yesterday 17:17

So most delicate little flowers here are icky about dogs.
Kids are germ carriers, louder than dogs ans a pain in the arse to anyone trying to have a quiet meal of just don't like kids.
My dog goes everywhere, he is obedient, gentle and well behaved.
Most kids on the other hand are snot covered germ mobiles but we are subjected to their antics because they are someone's beloved spawn.
Get real, Ghandi said civilisation is judged by the way they treat their animals. Most of you are so up your own arses with how perfect your kids are you don't realise that dogs are and always will be the preferable alternative.
Kids should be left at home, so the rest of us can relax.

Stormyrose · Yesterday 17:17

AuntieBiotics · Yesterday 17:17

This is the problem isn't it. Your dog is not human, it is a dog. You can feel however you like about your pet, but you cannot expect anyone else to be as besotted as you are.

She didn’t say she did, calm down

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 17:18

BeachTimeIsBliss · Yesterday 17:16

You know the plate gets washed before it's used again.

Wait until they find that people put cutlery in their mouth.

vodkaredbullgirl · Yesterday 17:19

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 17:18

Wait until they find that people put cutlery in their mouth.

😲 😆

WildGarlicSoup · Yesterday 17:19

Dog owner and agree. Dogs should be allowed only in dog areas of the establishment (if the place is large and there is a separate space) or preferably outside area only.

Mooselove · Yesterday 17:20

Lowlagal · Yesterday 17:17

Maybe some do where you are, but in my town not one coffee shop on my high street has a sign to say “dogs allowed”.

I appreciate your experience may be different but you can’t tell us what we’ve seen.

My favourite local coffee shop has a sign that says “NO dogs allowed”, but none of the others in my town that do allow dogs indicate that they do.

I have NEVER seen a restaurant advertise it on their windows. I’ve only ever figured it out through personal experience or via their social media posts, reviews or (on a few occasions) their website.

Edited

I am surprised as all the dog friendly eating places in my local town have stickers saying dogs are allowed. When we go to any other place we always look for a dog friendly place and see stickers on windows and/or doors. I don't see otherwise how dog owners are meant to know if somewhere allows dogs or not

Doseofreality · Yesterday 17:20

ThisWiseRobin · Yesterday 17:17

So most delicate little flowers here are icky about dogs.
Kids are germ carriers, louder than dogs ans a pain in the arse to anyone trying to have a quiet meal of just don't like kids.
My dog goes everywhere, he is obedient, gentle and well behaved.
Most kids on the other hand are snot covered germ mobiles but we are subjected to their antics because they are someone's beloved spawn.
Get real, Ghandi said civilisation is judged by the way they treat their animals. Most of you are so up your own arses with how perfect your kids are you don't realise that dogs are and always will be the preferable alternative.
Kids should be left at home, so the rest of us can relax.

In all my many years on earth I have never been subjected to a child loudly licking their bumhole yards away from where I am eating.

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IsawwhatIsaw · Yesterday 17:20

Greedybilly · Yesterday 17:14

It's a complete piss take now. I live somewhere very touristy with 20 odd cafes/pubs- only 1 is dog-free. Just one!
My daughter worked there and said people were very arsey when told they couldn't bring their beloved mutt in.
So not as simple as 'go somewhere dog free' - there's not many of those left.

That’s my experience- it’s a job to find anywhere dog free now.
It's not too bad if places at least have designated areas for dogs , but I had an incident where a couple brought 2 dogs to the dog free section. They were asked to move by the waitress but the woman initially refused and there was a stand off .

ThisWiseRobin · Yesterday 17:20

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 17:18

Wait until they find that people put cutlery in their mouth.

Cutlery gets washed too Einstein

Goatsarebest · Yesterday 17:20

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 16:22

For a moment, I was wondering if this thread was about me.
I went to a restaurant earlier today with my mum and her greyhound. He was on his matt on the floor and didn't cause any issues whatsoever. A couple on a nearby table kept giving us evils though.
YABVU to go to an establishment that allows dogs, and then declare your meal ruined. If a dog licking its bumhole is in your line of vision, then maybe don't eat off the floor 😉

But Greyhounds are professional dogs and know how to behave in public and have nice clean short coats and a calm manner. If every dog was a greyhound there would be no issues. I avoid places that permit dogs because there are so many owners who just don't keep them under control, but I'd have no problem with somewhere that just let greyhounds in.

TheWytch · Yesterday 17:21

I'm on holiday and can't leave my dogs unattended at the accommodation.

The cafes that accept dogs get my business.

Sidebeforeself · Yesterday 17:21

Mycatmax · Yesterday 16:18

Why did you choose a dog friendly eatery?

It’s not always advertised as dog friendly though. And don’t even get me started on hotels and B and Bs

ThisWiseRobin · Yesterday 17:22

Doseofreality · Yesterday 17:20

In all my many years on earth I have never been subjected to a child loudly licking their bumhole yards away from where I am eating.

That would be the least of my problem with children.

beaglescurleduplikebagels · Yesterday 17:22

Sidebeforeself · Yesterday 17:21

It’s not always advertised as dog friendly though. And don’t even get me started on hotels and B and Bs

So ring and ask if you're so bothered, or look on their website. It's really not difficult.

Sidebeforeself · Yesterday 17:22

Mooselove · Yesterday 17:20

I am surprised as all the dog friendly eating places in my local town have stickers saying dogs are allowed. When we go to any other place we always look for a dog friendly place and see stickers on windows and/or doors. I don't see otherwise how dog owners are meant to know if somewhere allows dogs or not

They try it and see if they get away with it.

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 17:22

ThisWiseRobin · Yesterday 17:20

Cutlery gets washed too Einstein

I know. You have taken my post out of context.

aliasfrog · Yesterday 17:22

ThisWiseRobin · Yesterday 17:17

So most delicate little flowers here are icky about dogs.
Kids are germ carriers, louder than dogs ans a pain in the arse to anyone trying to have a quiet meal of just don't like kids.
My dog goes everywhere, he is obedient, gentle and well behaved.
Most kids on the other hand are snot covered germ mobiles but we are subjected to their antics because they are someone's beloved spawn.
Get real, Ghandi said civilisation is judged by the way they treat their animals. Most of you are so up your own arses with how perfect your kids are you don't realise that dogs are and always will be the preferable alternative.
Kids should be left at home, so the rest of us can relax.

So it's ok to treat animals better than we treat humans? Let dogs everywhere and anyone with a life-threatening allergy..Just fuck em? Utterly bonkers

beaglescurleduplikebagels · Yesterday 17:23

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 17:18

Wait until they find that people put cutlery in their mouth.

😂

Sidebeforeself · Yesterday 17:23

beaglescurleduplikebagels · Yesterday 17:22

So ring and ask if you're so bothered, or look on their website. It's really not difficult.

I didn’t say it was

Mistachio · Yesterday 17:23

I’m a dog lover and owner and I agree.

I don’t mind well behaved dogs in a pub garden as long as they can settle under the bench well out of anyone’s way, keep quiet and keep themselves to themselves. Inside - nope.

Limeandfigs · Yesterday 17:23

aliasfrog · Yesterday 17:22

So it's ok to treat animals better than we treat humans? Let dogs everywhere and anyone with a life-threatening allergy..Just fuck em? Utterly bonkers

This is literally what happens with guide dogs, which are allowed everywhere.

Katemax82 · Yesterday 17:24

I totally agree with you. I have 2 sons who hate dogs and a lot of places are dog friendly so bloody annoying

Bonkers1966 · Yesterday 17:24

Make sure you leave a bad review and complain to the regional manager. Disgusting.

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