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Dogs in restaurants - I am done!

521 replies

Doseofreality · Yesterday 16:06

The hill that I will die on. Dogs should not be allowed in eating establishments.

Just had another lunch spoilt as a family came in with 3, yes 3, large dogs and sat down at the table beside us. It’s gross, unhygienic and anti social. If I wanted to eat surrounded by animals I’d grab a takeaway and go and sit in a vet’s waiting room.

Close to £100 wasted on a lunch where I had a dog licking it’s bumhole in my line of vision.

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YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 21:24

Greedybilly · Yesterday 20:53

@YeOldeGreyhoundthe fact that you're asking that means it obviously doesn't make you sick to the stomach. It would make many of us feel physically sick! See also letting dogs lick your face Confused
I guess you either find it repulsive or you don't.

The glass gets cleaned. I don't freak out that dental instruments have been probing about in hundreds of other mouths before mine.

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 21:26

DuckDowned · Yesterday 20:53

Some dog-lovers have low standards and questionable hygiene. They are the often the type that think their dog doesn’t smell etc.

Some non-dog lovers do too.
But I am not going to stoop to the level that some people go to on here dog owner's houses stink. it just sounds like kids in a playground.

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 21:27

Sidebeforeself · Yesterday 20:54

You dont see a problem with her drinking straight from the glass the dog just drunk from either then?

No, because that is up to her and has no impact on me.
By the way, it is not something that I would have done myself, but I don't care if other people do it.

ByPeachPeer · Yesterday 22:06

Most dog friendly places have signs advertising the fact. Or spend 30 secs googling. YANBU to not want to share dining experience with dogs. YABU to choose to eat at dog friendly restaurants then moan about it online.

Foolish1984 · Yesterday 22:10

SinisterGreenMan · Yesterday 16:13

I was in a pub (that serves food) a few days ago. It was full of the bloody things shaking fur and dog dust all over the places, whining, barking and "being friendly". And the fucking stink of them...

Bloody things? You sound delightful Biscuit

Foolish1984 · Yesterday 22:14

Sidebeforeself · Yesterday 20:29

I’ll tell you what I saw a few months ago. A woman with her dog in a pub. She picked the dog up on her lap, gave it a drink from her glass.. and proceeded to drink from the glass herself. I had to leave immediately. I’ve never gone back in that pub since.

10/10 for dramatic overreaction good grief!

Foolish1984 · Yesterday 22:17

ClearFruit · Yesterday 19:55

Oh my God, I've found my people. Fuck the dog takeover. Disgusting smelly beasts.

What a lovely person Biscuit

Sidebeforeself · Yesterday 22:19

Foolish1984 · Yesterday 22:14

10/10 for dramatic overreaction good grief!

Not so. I dont have to frequent anywhere that I dont feel comfortable in anymore.

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · Yesterday 22:21

ByPeachPeer · Yesterday 22:06

Most dog friendly places have signs advertising the fact. Or spend 30 secs googling. YANBU to not want to share dining experience with dogs. YABU to choose to eat at dog friendly restaurants then moan about it online.

This. Dog owners do sometimes need options to eat somewhere where there dog can come in too, and there are generallly far more places that don't allow dogs than do, so it's not too hard to avoid them if you feel that strongly about it.

Nutmuncher · Yesterday 22:21

Oh god OP, I agree, I FUCKING DESPISE DOGS at the best of times, being in a restaurant with them just makes me heave, the sheer level of entitlement owners have to actually have the audacity and ignorance in thinking it’s normal and acceptable to take a dog to these places is just mind blowing.

SulkingInTheCatio · Yesterday 22:23

Nutmuncher · Yesterday 22:21

Oh god OP, I agree, I FUCKING DESPISE DOGS at the best of times, being in a restaurant with them just makes me heave, the sheer level of entitlement owners have to actually have the audacity and ignorance in thinking it’s normal and acceptable to take a dog to these places is just mind blowing.

Well it’s acceptable or they wouldn’t be there. The owner of the establishment accepts it.

RufustheFactualReindeer · Yesterday 22:29

and there are generallly far more places that don't allow dogs than do, so it's not too hard to avoid them if you feel that strongly about it

there have been a few posts saying that just about everywhere in their towns accept dogs so it must obviously differ from town to town

it would be impossible to go out for a coffee in my home town if you had an issue with dogs

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 22:29

ByPeachPeer · Yesterday 22:06

Most dog friendly places have signs advertising the fact. Or spend 30 secs googling. YANBU to not want to share dining experience with dogs. YABU to choose to eat at dog friendly restaurants then moan about it online.

I am going to a pub for a meal next week with my mum and her dog. It took all of 30 seconds to find out that the pub welcomes dogs.
From personal experience, dog friendly places often don't have dogs in there at all. It is only on MN where every dog friendly place is more like doggy day care with dogs pissing and barking everywhere.

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 22:30

Nutmuncher · Yesterday 22:21

Oh god OP, I agree, I FUCKING DESPISE DOGS at the best of times, being in a restaurant with them just makes me heave, the sheer level of entitlement owners have to actually have the audacity and ignorance in thinking it’s normal and acceptable to take a dog to these places is just mind blowing.

It is not entitled or ignorant to take a dog somewhere that allows dogs.
If you think it is, can you please explain how?

Greedybilly · Yesterday 22:31

@Norwaygirl- yes exactly. I live somewhere very touristy- full of cafes and pubs - and there's literally ONE cafe that says no dogs ( and it's always packed) .
Most cafes allow dogs ( obvs a business decision)so basically if you're not a fan tough t*ts!!

Tel12 · Yesterday 22:34

The 3 pubs i might visit have spaces or rather dog areas. I think that it works well, there's room to accommodate everyone and no one has to mix if they don't want to. I take my dog or not depending on who I'm going with.

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 22:36

Sidebeforeself · Yesterday 22:19

Not so. I dont have to frequent anywhere that I dont feel comfortable in anymore.

It was one single person that made you feel the way you did. A bit weird you would not go to that place again.

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · Yesterday 22:37

RufustheFactualReindeer · Yesterday 22:29

and there are generallly far more places that don't allow dogs than do, so it's not too hard to avoid them if you feel that strongly about it

there have been a few posts saying that just about everywhere in their towns accept dogs so it must obviously differ from town to town

it would be impossible to go out for a coffee in my home town if you had an issue with dogs

Sure it will vary (and touristy areas will probably be more dog friendly), but having in the past needed to find somewhere to eat while away from home where we could take our dog, it often wasn't easy!

RufustheFactualReindeer · Yesterday 22:46

Sure it will vary (and touristy areas will probably be more dog friendly), but having in the past needed to find somewhere to eat while away from home where we could take our dog, it often wasn't easy!

absolutely

but should i have an issue with dogs in cafes I will need to go to a completely different town to have a coffee

and actually i bet that a lot of places do not say they are ok with dogs being in their establishment…..but they are, making it more difficult to find dog free places

i like the idea of dog areas….or if dog owners prefer, non dog areas 😀
works okish at the local garden centre

Frequency · Yesterday 22:46

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 22:30

It is not entitled or ignorant to take a dog somewhere that allows dogs.
If you think it is, can you please explain how?

Agreed.

I always have Hmm moment when someone accuses dog owners of entitlement for bringing their dog to a dog-friendly establishment whilst simultaneously demanding that private businesses damage their profit margins to appease their whims.

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 22:48

Frequency · Yesterday 22:46

Agreed.

I always have Hmm moment when someone accuses dog owners of entitlement for bringing their dog to a dog-friendly establishment whilst simultaneously demanding that private businesses damage their profit margins to appease their whims.

I know 😂
It makes no sense at all.

SadiraOfTyr · Yesterday 22:50

Dogs in country pubs has always been a thing. I can’t say I’ve ever seen one in an establishment in a town and would be surprised if they are even permitted.

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 22:53

SadiraOfTyr · Yesterday 22:50

Dogs in country pubs has always been a thing. I can’t say I’ve ever seen one in an establishment in a town and would be surprised if they are even permitted.

I have in city centre places, but they are not overrun with dogs like some people on here will have you believe.
Most times I have gone to a dog friendly place, there have been no dogs in there.

Firsttimecommentor · Yesterday 22:53

Doseofreality · Yesterday 16:06

The hill that I will die on. Dogs should not be allowed in eating establishments.

Just had another lunch spoilt as a family came in with 3, yes 3, large dogs and sat down at the table beside us. It’s gross, unhygienic and anti social. If I wanted to eat surrounded by animals I’d grab a takeaway and go and sit in a vet’s waiting room.

Close to £100 wasted on a lunch where I had a dog licking it’s bumhole in my line of vision.

Totally agree. Love dogs but I am allergic to animals and don’t want a side or sneezing and wheezing because someone can’t leave their dog at home!

Sidebeforeself · Yesterday 22:54

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 22:36

It was one single person that made you feel the way you did. A bit weird you would not go to that place again.

I dont want to go in a doggy pub. It’s obviously a doggy pub. What’s weird about that.