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Dogs in restaurants - I am done!

524 replies

Doseofreality · Yesterday 16:06

The hill that I will die on. Dogs should not be allowed in eating establishments.

Just had another lunch spoilt as a family came in with 3, yes 3, large dogs and sat down at the table beside us. It’s gross, unhygienic and anti social. If I wanted to eat surrounded by animals I’d grab a takeaway and go and sit in a vet’s waiting room.

Close to £100 wasted on a lunch where I had a dog licking it’s bumhole in my line of vision.

OP posts:
ThisWiseRobin · Yesterday 19:19

italianlondongirl · Yesterday 18:41

But they SMELL … their fur , but mostly their BREATH. …it makes me retch

This is the problem for me in restaurants… I think if you live with them you just don’t notice this

Life is tough, get a helmet

ThisWiseRobin · Yesterday 19:21

Theyreeatingthedogs · Yesterday 18:19

Tie them up outside. Put them in kennels. Go self catering. Don't inflict your dogs on us.

Nasty.

tomatoplants · Yesterday 19:21

Girlwithavibe · Yesterday 18:56

I agree I have seen some.really irresponsible owners and entitled myself and it is annoying I get it but posts like these everyone is tarring us all with the same brush !!! And it's not fair 😭

That’s the thing. Although I’m in the no dog camp, it’s because it’s out of hand. The odd well behaved dog actually wouldn’t bother me. It’s the fact there’s so many now it’s just too much. They take up a lot of floor space, trip people up and slobber and come up to me. I hate it. If it’s 1-2 I could stay away.

so I do think it’s a shame they all get tarred with the same brush.

Laterlife · Yesterday 19:21

SteamboatSally · Yesterday 18:19

I have cancer and can't get travel insurance as I'm in active treatment so we've cancelled all our holidays abroad and rented cottages in Norfolk and Suffolk this year. We take the dog and as we're not allowed to leave her in the cottages alone (standard in holiday cottages) we eat in dog friendly places. She's well trained, well behaved and falls asleep under the table. No one would even know she was there.

I've never seen any of the dogs that get described in these posts in any cafe or pub. According to some posters all dogs do is jump up, slobber, bark and attack people 🙄

Nor me. Nor, thankfully, have I experienced many dog-haters in real life. We have always had multiple dogs, and we've always had one at any time that was pub friendly. Hand on heart, pubs are much more social when you have a dog with you. People ask if their kids can stroke it, stroke it themselves, ask if it likes crisps, and strike up conversations with you about it. I do the same with other people out with dogs when we're not. I really don't recognise the world many of these posters are living in. 😉

bafta16 · Yesterday 19:22

RobertaFirmino · Yesterday 18:24

There's more dirty animals in Wetherspoons than a local cafe.

Edited

Don't be so silly. It's perfectly fine.

TeenLifeMum · Yesterday 19:22

Fuckmyliferightnow · Yesterday 16:22

I have a dog allergy, going to cafes is now a risk for me unfortunately

I have a latex allergy but don’t expect people to stop using balloons because of me. Use antihistamines - their effectiveness doesn’t reduce so you can take what you need to live in a world that includes dogs.

Rachelshair · Yesterday 19:24

I agree with you. Food places should be dog-free indoors. I like animals, but not big smelly dogs next to me when I'm eating, it makes the experience less pleasant. Experienced it last week, huge smelly dog sat next to us just as our food arrived.
I would always choose a dog-free place but you can't always tell before going into a place if it's dog-free or not. I guess if the dog owners spend more money they will be prioritised. More reasons to eat at home.

tomatoplants · Yesterday 19:24

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 19:19

An establishment that welcomes dogs is designed for dogs too.
I went to a restaurant with my mum and her dog today. She bought our food, so I didn't pay. She also bought her dog food too. If her dog was not with us, she would have spent less. So what is the logic in charging someone just for having a dog there?

well in that case they have paid via the dog food. Most places I go and see dogs they don’t buy the dog anything.

maybe you’re in a place designed for dogs better. Unfortunately where I live the space is not designed for dogs and they take up a lot of floor space. I’ve tripped over them, stood on tails and generally been quite crowded. This is because there have been so many. There’s a few places I avoid now.

bafta16 · Yesterday 19:25

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · Yesterday 19:06

As a baby, ds1 did once bring out a finger-full of poo from his nappy in the middle of a pancake restaurant, @menopausalmare. I’d suggest that might have been more unpleasant for the other patrons than a dog licking their bottom.

Dh whipped him out of the restaurant at warp speed, while I paid the bill and gathered our stuff, and hopefully we didn’t cause too much disgust.

Ah well, there you go then. Being surrounded by animals is absolutely fine and dandy.

RufustheFactualReindeer · Yesterday 19:27

Local wine bar does a dog charcuterie board

Overwhelmed664789 · Yesterday 19:29

Spare a moment for the people allergic to dogs, are we only supposed to eat at non dog friendly establishments, are we not allowed a choice now, just in case Brian wants to bring his Labrador out for tea?
why are dogs taking over?

im with you OP.

TheGreatDownandOut · Yesterday 19:30

The way I see it, you have two options

  1. go somewhere dogs aren’t allowed
  2. lighten up
tomatoplants · Yesterday 19:32

Overwhelmed664789 · Yesterday 19:29

Spare a moment for the people allergic to dogs, are we only supposed to eat at non dog friendly establishments, are we not allowed a choice now, just in case Brian wants to bring his Labrador out for tea?
why are dogs taking over?

im with you OP.

some dog owners don’t care about allergies though. They think an antihistamine will fix it 🙄

Deadringer · Yesterday 19:33

I just dont see what a dog would get out of sitting in a cafe/pub under the table, wouldn't it be just as happy curled up on the sofa at home?

MandingoAteMyBaby · Yesterday 19:39

It’s time to ban dogs from indoor public places. Absolutely grim.

Frequency · Yesterday 19:39

tomatoplants · Yesterday 19:32

some dog owners don’t care about allergies though. They think an antihistamine will fix it 🙄

Around 7% of adults in the UK have a dog allergy. Are you seriously asking that privately owned, for-profit businesses cut their profit margins to cater to 7% of the population?

That's what this is about at the end of the day, businesses wouldn't allow dogs if they didn't make money from them/their owners. No one has any right to demand they be catered to to the detriment of the business owner. We've lost enough small businesses without adding more to the list so that 7% of the population can have a bigger choice of pubs.

Noodge · Yesterday 19:40

Deadringer · Yesterday 19:33

I just dont see what a dog would get out of sitting in a cafe/pub under the table, wouldn't it be just as happy curled up on the sofa at home?

Some dogs just want to be with you. Of course I leave mine at home when going to places unsuitable for her. But I know for a fact that if she could be with me 24/7 she would be. She sometimes refuses to come in from the garden when I go out as she knows 9/10 times i will just let her come with me, even if she has to stay in the car. They just want to be with you(mine is hand-reared, never known a dog Mum, which probably makes the bond stronger).

whyohwhydelilahdarling · Yesterday 19:43

Boomer55 · Yesterday 16:14

I agree.

I don’t need drooling, smelly, hair shedding animals when I’m eating.🤮

The only pub/restaurant chain, not allowing them anywhere is Weatherspoons, which isn't a a place I like.

it’s a problem. 🤷‍♀️

We’ve got kids and tend to go to lower price chain restaurants, this summer we’ve been to the following and seen no dogs (can’t comment on whether they’re allowed, but definitely weren’t any in there):

  • Pizza Express
  • Yo!
  • Bill’s
  • Zizzi
  • Giraffe

I think pubs and cafes are a bit different, but I can’t remember the last time I saw a dog in a restaurant (I would notice as both me and my kids love dogs)

Rpop · Yesterday 19:50

Frequency · Yesterday 19:39

Around 7% of adults in the UK have a dog allergy. Are you seriously asking that privately owned, for-profit businesses cut their profit margins to cater to 7% of the population?

That's what this is about at the end of the day, businesses wouldn't allow dogs if they didn't make money from them/their owners. No one has any right to demand they be catered to to the detriment of the business owner. We've lost enough small businesses without adding more to the list so that 7% of the population can have a bigger choice of pubs.

Why stop there then? Dogs in hairdressers, dogs in private hospitals, dogs in bowling alleys, dogs in supermarkets, dogs concert venues, dogs in work places.

7% is a huge number of people.
there are also an awful lot of people who are uncomfortable around dogs or even have dog phobia.
people with autism or other sensory difficulties.

tomatoplants · Yesterday 19:51

whyohwhydelilahdarling · Yesterday 19:43

We’ve got kids and tend to go to lower price chain restaurants, this summer we’ve been to the following and seen no dogs (can’t comment on whether they’re allowed, but definitely weren’t any in there):

  • Pizza Express
  • Yo!
  • Bill’s
  • Zizzi
  • Giraffe

I think pubs and cafes are a bit different, but I can’t remember the last time I saw a dog in a restaurant (I would notice as both me and my kids love dogs)

That’s helpful. Thanks

Frequency · Yesterday 19:54

Rpop · Yesterday 19:50

Why stop there then? Dogs in hairdressers, dogs in private hospitals, dogs in bowling alleys, dogs in supermarkets, dogs concert venues, dogs in work places.

7% is a huge number of people.
there are also an awful lot of people who are uncomfortable around dogs or even have dog phobia.
people with autism or other sensory difficulties.

Dogs are allowed in many of those places. Therapy dogs visit hospitals, hairdressers, supermarkets, venues, workplaces, etc are free to make their own rules. I've been to several salons that have a dog.

My dog often calls into the local shop with me on the way home from the park to get milk. If that shop didn't allow dogs, it would lose business; it is right by a popular dog-walking spot, so many people do what I do and grab the milk/loo roll/bread while they're out instead of going back home, dropping the dog off, and going back out to another shop.

ClearFruit · Yesterday 19:55

Oh my God, I've found my people. Fuck the dog takeover. Disgusting smelly beasts.

beigetriangle · Yesterday 19:57

I was on holiday in a country that doesn't allow dogs inside restaurants.
it's bliss.
at first I didn't realise why but made eating out do much nicer

OonaStubbs · Yesterday 19:59

Why do people take dogs to restaurants anyway? Do they think the dogs enjoy being there?

PrincessScarlett · Yesterday 20:00

The trouble with telling people to only visit restaurants/cafes/pubs where dogs are not allowed is that in a lot of cases you are unaware until it's too late. We had already ordered our food when a dog and it's family was seated at the very next table. I have since been back to look for any signage saying dogs are welcome and there is none. It would be really helpful for establishments to advertise in their windows that they welcome dogs and then I could choose to eat elsewhere.