Judy looking for opinions really on whether you'd leave it or not
I have a 15 year old ds and I had him as a teen, at a young mum group I met friend she had a little girl about 6 months younger than my son. They were 2 at the time. Since then they've grown up together pretty much, we were both single mums so we did day trips to the beach etc together and honestly the friends dd helped ds a lot with his speech from just being around her
They didn't go to the same primary school or secondary up until the middle of year 8 when ds moved to her school. Since then there has been some jealousy as DS got a girlfriend and made new friends. But its been okay up until recently
DS has been struggling with his behaviour for a while, he attempted suicide last September and self harms so I am worried about him
At the beginning of this month he came out to me as bisexual which is absolutely fine. He said he felt a bit better now I knew but then the next day he broke up with his gf because he didn't want to tell her but felt guilty for still dating her. He didn't tell her the truth and perhaps he could've been nicer about it but he's 15 and told her didn't want to date her anymore, they had the same friend group and have sided with the gf and DS is upset about the breakup and the loss of friends and hasn't done anything all summer he's barely left the house tbh
I've been encouraging him to go out so last Wednesday when he said he was seeing his friend (my friends dd) I thought great but he came back in a bad mood and he's been in a bad mood since and really angry at me, my partner and his brother. Finally earlier my partner got it out of him and he said when he went to the park his friend wasn't there and turns out she invited him somewhere she wasn't because i’m her words it was “funny” i don’t think it’s funny i think it’s cruel and she’s 15 so she should understand how that can hurt someone. DS has said he doesn't know what he's done to her for her to do that but has said she's been hanging around with new people
DP is really annoyed and thinks I should tell my friend but I don't know as I worry it will cause more issues for DS next week when he goes back and he's already been really anxious about school this last school year
WWYD?