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AIBU to question Reform's plan to prioritise married couples for social housing?

317 replies

QueenSophia · 24/08/2026 14:01

Reform have proposed to prioritise social housing for various groups : 'Rules would be changed to reserve at least half of all social homes in England for British-born workers aged under 35, with prioritisation also given to married couples, veterans, victims of domestic violence and care leavers.'

I agree with DV victims, those with children, care leavers : veterans are also at high risk of homelessness. But why prioritise married couples over single people? I'm not convinced that's fair. I assume it's to encourage marriage which is a good aim but I'm not convinced if this is the right decision.

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Midnightmoonface · 25/08/2026 20:37

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 20:31

You said disabled people should get little one bedroom flats Dont blame me because you cant think critically

I think you’re the one who can’t think critically, she said a disabled person should be more entitled to the 1 bed flat than an able bodied single person with no specific needs, not that every single disabled person should be housed inappropriately 🤦‍♀️

Not all disabled people use a mobility scooter, not all disabled people would struggle in a one bed. Your comments are very reaching and you’re quick to rant about things whether or not they’ve even been said.

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 20:41

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 20:31

You said disabled people should get little one bedroom flats Dont blame me because you cant think critically

Yeah I didn’t mean that in a bad way, I’m not rich and I don’t have a rich circle a lot of my family members and friends live in studio flats or one room in a shared house. So to me a one bedroom flat isn’t the smallest thing in the world

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 20:42

Midnightmoonface · 25/08/2026 20:37

I think you’re the one who can’t think critically, she said a disabled person should be more entitled to the 1 bed flat than an able bodied single person with no specific needs, not that every single disabled person should be housed inappropriately 🤦‍♀️

Not all disabled people use a mobility scooter, not all disabled people would struggle in a one bed. Your comments are very reaching and you’re quick to rant about things whether or not they’ve even been said.

Yeah there was a whole essay on fruit picking earlier. Think it was the same poster

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 20:42

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 20:41

Yeah I didn’t mean that in a bad way, I’m not rich and I don’t have a rich circle a lot of my family members and friends live in studio flats or one room in a shared house. So to me a one bedroom flat isn’t the smallest thing in the world

Dh and i lived in a bedsit in the very early 90s The bedroom doubled as the living room

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 20:44

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 20:42

Yeah there was a whole essay on fruit picking earlier. Think it was the same poster

Yes that was me Like i said pre empting the tirade

In other words i knew where it was going These threads are very predictable.

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 20:46

Midnightmoonface · 25/08/2026 20:37

I think you’re the one who can’t think critically, she said a disabled person should be more entitled to the 1 bed flat than an able bodied single person with no specific needs, not that every single disabled person should be housed inappropriately 🤦‍♀️

Not all disabled people use a mobility scooter, not all disabled people would struggle in a one bed. Your comments are very reaching and you’re quick to rant about things whether or not they’ve even been said.

Surely the answer is more accessible housing so disabled people get what they need.

Midnightmoonface · 25/08/2026 20:46

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 20:42

Dh and i lived in a bedsit in the very early 90s The bedroom doubled as the living room

This is the weird and irrelevant posting style people are talking about.

SadiraOfTyr · 25/08/2026 20:49

More to the point, since when did national government get to set social housing policies - that’s always been a matter for local councils. Do they intend to run a centralised state?

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 20:51

Midnightmoonface · 25/08/2026 20:46

This is the weird and irrelevant posting style people are talking about.

OK tell me what i should be posting then Tell you what you post it and will copy and paste it

#schoolisinsession.

Backedoffhackedoff · 25/08/2026 20:53

SadiraOfTyr · 25/08/2026 20:49

More to the point, since when did national government get to set social housing policies - that’s always been a matter for local councils. Do they intend to run a centralised state?

social housing strategy and framework has always been set by Westminster. It wasn’t those local authorities who decided to introduce RTB!

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 20:54

A housing officer threatens to destroy a mobility scooter but my posting style is the problem.

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 21:00

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 20:44

Yes that was me Like i said pre empting the tirade

In other words i knew where it was going These threads are very predictable.

I wasn’t going to say anything about fruit picking, these threads are usually just single childless people hating on teen mums for “stealing” the council homes when A. Not every teen mum gets a council home. B. Why do you even demand a home from the government when you have no kids, no disability, not a care leaver. Just get a job and buy or rent your own home

Why does 43 year old Robert’s go online demanding a free home and blaming young mothers for “stealing” them all.

Theres your rant from me that has nothing to do with what you said but i just felt like saying

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 21:03

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 21:00

I wasn’t going to say anything about fruit picking, these threads are usually just single childless people hating on teen mums for “stealing” the council homes when A. Not every teen mum gets a council home. B. Why do you even demand a home from the government when you have no kids, no disability, not a care leaver. Just get a job and buy or rent your own home

Why does 43 year old Robert’s go online demanding a free home and blaming young mothers for “stealing” them all.

Theres your rant from me that has nothing to do with what you said but i just felt like saying

so just to clarify you dont think those without kids should get social housing at all

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 21:10

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 21:03

so just to clarify you dont think those without kids should get social housing at all

You don’t need to clarify anything, we’ve been talking to each other on here for about three maybe four pages now and I’ve said everything I think. Idk why you’re asking me to clarify anything.

I’ve said I personally think everyone should be responsible for getting their own place whether renting privately or buying one. I just think social housing should be for disabled people and young adults that are leaving foster care.

But if we are going to have it for other groups OF COURSE people with kids will be prioritised over childless people because kids are so vulnerable. And I’m saying this as someone who’s NEVER lived in social housing my whole adult life and I had kids really young.

Just use your brain why should an able bodied adult with no kids get a place given to them for practically nothing by the government ?

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 21:16

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 21:10

You don’t need to clarify anything, we’ve been talking to each other on here for about three maybe four pages now and I’ve said everything I think. Idk why you’re asking me to clarify anything.

I’ve said I personally think everyone should be responsible for getting their own place whether renting privately or buying one. I just think social housing should be for disabled people and young adults that are leaving foster care.

But if we are going to have it for other groups OF COURSE people with kids will be prioritised over childless people because kids are so vulnerable. And I’m saying this as someone who’s NEVER lived in social housing my whole adult life and I had kids really young.

Just use your brain why should an able bodied adult with no kids get a place given to them for practically nothing by the government ?

Thankyou for clarifying

BermudaRhombus · 25/08/2026 21:33

I mean it’s fine to debate hypotheticals, but this is literally the equivalent of debating policy if the Monster Raving Loony party were in government. It’s extraordinary how many reform supporters don’t understand first past the post elections. Why are we wasting time debating this?! Far better to focus on parties who could actually win a national election.

QueenSophia · Today 11:41

Disturbia81 · 25/08/2026 11:26

Reform are like going back in time. They shouldn’t be encouraging marriage.

Sorry for not returning before, lots of interesting replies. I'll try and reply to some now..
I don't like Reform but this seems a bit dramatic : do you think marriage should be discouraged, then? I don't agree with that, though I don't like this policy either.

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QueenSophia · Today 11:46

BermudaRhombus · 25/08/2026 21:33

I mean it’s fine to debate hypotheticals, but this is literally the equivalent of debating policy if the Monster Raving Loony party were in government. It’s extraordinary how many reform supporters don’t understand first past the post elections. Why are we wasting time debating this?! Far better to focus on parties who could actually win a national election.

How certain is it, though, that Reform couldn't win a place in a coalition at least? I think we should be aware of their policies in case.

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QueenSophia · Today 11:50

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:18

What is this long rant about fruit picking? My mother rents from a housing association and fixes things up herself. And with a council home you can do pretty much whatever you want.

But then there’s some who let their kids punch holes in the door and then demand the council give them a new door on facebook

To be fair, there's all kinds of aggravating people on Facebook : the most vocal of any kind of annoying person will be there.

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QueenSophia · Today 11:51

MrsTerryPratchett · 25/08/2026 14:27

Social housing allocation should be based on need, not the relationship status of the applicant.

This is complicated too. If only vulnerable, trauma impacted people with lots of issues get housing, that housing will become unmanageable. Old council estates with young families, a range of needs all the way to my gran and granddad were livable, safer, people with more could help those with less out. Balanced communities are safer and happier.

Well a homeless woman risks being attacked and raped while sleeping on the street whether she has kids in tow or not

Studies often show that 'gender based violence' (god help us) or VAWG is the #1 issue identified by female users of homeless provision. And that is probably already tramatised women.

Another good point.

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QueenSophia · Today 11:53

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:30

Yeah they should that’s right. But I went on to say especially people who don’t have kids or disabilities or care leavers. Absolutely no excuses there. But still all I see is grown men claiming it’s unfair all the teen mums get council houses (we don’t) and they should get one too.

Absolutely no excuse for Richard age 43 to go get a job and buy or rent his own place.

Those men are idiots. Teenage pregnancy is much rarer now so another reason that's unlikely.

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QueenSophia · Today 11:59

MaidsRoom · 25/08/2026 15:35

The government literally announced £16bn of new social housing subsidy this morning. They taxpayer is now subsidising it much more directly because S106 has stopped working so well, and because they want to see an acceleration of social housebuilding and direct subsidy is the only way to do that.

Yes, I hope the government can improve the housing situation.

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QueenSophia · Today 12:00

TopPocketFind · 25/08/2026 16:32

Probably using AI to come up with a profile.

This has been happening on other threads.

I wish MN would crack down on this...

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QueenSophia · Today 12:03

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 19:55

I originally brung him up because people always accuse teen mums of stealing all the council homes (I had my first at 16 and I privately rent so it irks me) then they bemoan single men with no kids (or single people in general) not getting given their god given entitlement from the council of an entire home.
Well here’s a middle aged man with no kids who was given a council flat. He’s spent the majority of his early adult life drinking and drugging!* The reason people with kids get priority is because kids are more vulnerable than adults and there’s no reason an able bodied adult can’t get a job and buy/rent their own property!
Those little one bed council properties would be better served given to young adults leaving foster care or disabled people. Why does everyone think being given an entire property for doing nothing is their god given right anyway?

*He's actually a nice guy but the point still stands

Personally I've never thought singles should be prioritised over those with children. Children should always come first. My issue is with prioritising married adults over single adults.

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XenoBitch · Today 12:05

QueenSophia · Today 12:03

Personally I've never thought singles should be prioritised over those with children. Children should always come first. My issue is with prioritising married adults over single adults.

Single people would only get a one bed place anyway. Someone with a child would get a two bed.
Yep, it makes no sense to prioritise a married couple over an unmarried couple.

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