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AIBU to question Reform's plan to prioritise married couples for social housing?

317 replies

QueenSophia · 24/08/2026 14:01

Reform have proposed to prioritise social housing for various groups : 'Rules would be changed to reserve at least half of all social homes in England for British-born workers aged under 35, with prioritisation also given to married couples, veterans, victims of domestic violence and care leavers.'

I agree with DV victims, those with children, care leavers : veterans are also at high risk of homelessness. But why prioritise married couples over single people? I'm not convinced that's fair. I assume it's to encourage marriage which is a good aim but I'm not convinced if this is the right decision.

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Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:47

ClarkeandNewman · 25/08/2026 14:46

No such thing as free housing.

See my above comment

ClarkeandNewman · 25/08/2026 14:48

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:44

As I said:

Would you say this is free:
man I know in his fifties unemployed (long term) actually has his own council flat despite being single and childless (surprise surprise for the people who think single men don’t get council homes) his rent is straight up less than £100 a week (so less than £400 a month) we live in the south east btw.
And universal credit pays that for him.
No health issues btw

That’s free in every way except on paper. Can tell you’ve never had a mortgage or private rented or even considered either of those if you think less than 400 a month rent (in the south east) is in anyway a big deal 👌🏻

You gave the rent amount. You've proved that housing is not free by telling us it's £100 a week.

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 14:53

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:44

As I said:

Would you say this is free:
man I know in his fifties unemployed (long term) actually has his own council flat despite being single and childless (surprise surprise for the people who think single men don’t get council homes) his rent is straight up less than £100 a week (so less than £400 a month) we live in the south east btw.
And universal credit pays that for him.
No health issues btw

That’s free in every way except on paper. Can tell you’ve never had a mortgage or private rented or even considered either of those if you think less than 400 a month rent (in the south east) is in anyway a big deal 👌🏻

A social housing flat in the south east Well if his flat gets up to the temps that mine does he will have paid for it in pure sweat this summer as well as the £100

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:54

ClarkeandNewman · 25/08/2026 14:48

You gave the rent amount. You've proved that housing is not free by telling us it's £100 a week.

Ok it may as well be free at that point though. If you lived where I live you’d know what an extreme bargain that is. This man is in his fifties he spent most of his adulthood taking drugs and drinking he’s barely worked his whole life. Now he has his own little place for less than 100 a week which is paid by UC. Can also tell you’ve never private rented or had a mortgage or you’d know how easy you have it.
Hard working young families bust their balls every month to pay their private rent or mortgage just to see on facebook council tenants swapping their super cheap homes like Pokémon cards and demanding the council fix the hole their son punched in the wall.

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:57

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 14:53

A social housing flat in the south east Well if his flat gets up to the temps that mine does he will have paid for it in pure sweat this summer as well as the £100

You think private rented and owned homes didn’t get hot this summer too 😂😂
All while paying three to four times as much money as that.

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:01

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:57

You think private rented and owned homes didn’t get hot this summer too 😂😂
All while paying three to four times as much money as that.

Gosh yes because owned homes are forced to have black cladding window restrictors and a front door thats a fire door with no gaps so no ventilation And someone also turned up at yours with no notice and felled a tree that was providing shading because they couldnt be bothered to come back and trim branches once in a blue moon

Yep its the same 🙄

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:03

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:54

Ok it may as well be free at that point though. If you lived where I live you’d know what an extreme bargain that is. This man is in his fifties he spent most of his adulthood taking drugs and drinking he’s barely worked his whole life. Now he has his own little place for less than 100 a week which is paid by UC. Can also tell you’ve never private rented or had a mortgage or you’d know how easy you have it.
Hard working young families bust their balls every month to pay their private rent or mortgage just to see on facebook council tenants swapping their super cheap homes like Pokémon cards and demanding the council fix the hole their son punched in the wall.

Why would home owners be on a home swapper fb group

Midnightmoonface · 25/08/2026 15:04

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:01

Gosh yes because owned homes are forced to have black cladding window restrictors and a front door thats a fire door with no gaps so no ventilation And someone also turned up at yours with no notice and felled a tree that was providing shading because they couldnt be bothered to come back and trim branches once in a blue moon

Yep its the same 🙄

Oh no how dare the council fire proof your home between other flats 🤦‍♀️

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:04

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:03

Why would home owners be on a home swapper fb group

Comes up in my feed even though I’m not in any of the groups. I’ve had other people say it comes up in their feed too algorithm seems to push it

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:06

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:01

Gosh yes because owned homes are forced to have black cladding window restrictors and a front door thats a fire door with no gaps so no ventilation And someone also turned up at yours with no notice and felled a tree that was providing shading because they couldnt be bothered to come back and trim branches once in a blue moon

Yep its the same 🙄

Hate to break it to you but yeah people renting flats privately can have that too. While paying a lot more money. I have no idea why council tenants think they’re the only ones that get mould and other property issues.

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:06

Midnightmoonface · 25/08/2026 15:04

Oh no how dare the council fire proof your home between other flats 🤦‍♀️

Im not against fire proofing but turning a place into a sweat box is bad for health It was 41c in here.

Heat stroke isnt feeling just a little hot and sweaty It can kill

ClarkeandNewman · 25/08/2026 15:07

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 14:54

Ok it may as well be free at that point though. If you lived where I live you’d know what an extreme bargain that is. This man is in his fifties he spent most of his adulthood taking drugs and drinking he’s barely worked his whole life. Now he has his own little place for less than 100 a week which is paid by UC. Can also tell you’ve never private rented or had a mortgage or you’d know how easy you have it.
Hard working young families bust their balls every month to pay their private rent or mortgage just to see on facebook council tenants swapping their super cheap homes like Pokémon cards and demanding the council fix the hole their son punched in the wall.

So he is charged rent. Great, that's what we were trying to establish. It took a while but we got there in the end.

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:08

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:06

Hate to break it to you but yeah people renting flats privately can have that too. While paying a lot more money. I have no idea why council tenants think they’re the only ones that get mould and other property issues.

We dont think we are the only ones Labour thought private renters were the only ones though. The petition during the 2015 election about these matters only included private renters

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:09

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:06

Im not against fire proofing but turning a place into a sweat box is bad for health It was 41c in here.

Heat stroke isnt feeling just a little hot and sweaty It can kill

This isn’t a unique thing to council homes. My mother and the man I mentioned earlier don’t have this and they rent socially in fact their homes were cooler than mine this summer. Mainly due to the way they faced the sun.
And there are private renters and owners who have what you mentioned in their block of flats.

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:11

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:06

Hate to break it to you but yeah people renting flats privately can have that too. While paying a lot more money. I have no idea why council tenants think they’re the only ones that get mould and other property issues.

You mentioned OWNED homes which is what i was responding to

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:14

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:08

We dont think we are the only ones Labour thought private renters were the only ones though. The petition during the 2015 election about these matters only included private renters

As they should, private renters typically have less disposable income than council dwellers because their rents higher. That means less money for sorting things out themselves little things like buying tumble dryers instead of hanging clothes everywhere which causes damp. Etc

I only ever see council people bitching they have it harder than everyone else and acting like all owners and private renters are rich. Instead of appreciating their cheap rent if it’s that bad come live privately without having us subsidise your rent

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:14

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:11

You mentioned OWNED homes which is what i was responding to

Yeah I mentioned owners and private renters not just owners

JHound · 25/08/2026 15:16

oldwhyno · 24/08/2026 17:09

Devils advocate, but two people make better use of a one bedroom flat than a single person.

But single people need to live somewhere and are better suited to one beds than families of 2+ people.

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:16

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:14

As they should, private renters typically have less disposable income than council dwellers because their rents higher. That means less money for sorting things out themselves little things like buying tumble dryers instead of hanging clothes everywhere which causes damp. Etc

I only ever see council people bitching they have it harder than everyone else and acting like all owners and private renters are rich. Instead of appreciating their cheap rent if it’s that bad come live privately without having us subsidise your rent

And THERE it is

ClarkeandNewman · 25/08/2026 15:16

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:14

As they should, private renters typically have less disposable income than council dwellers because their rents higher. That means less money for sorting things out themselves little things like buying tumble dryers instead of hanging clothes everywhere which causes damp. Etc

I only ever see council people bitching they have it harder than everyone else and acting like all owners and private renters are rich. Instead of appreciating their cheap rent if it’s that bad come live privately without having us subsidise your rent

Social rents aren't subsidised.

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:19

JenniferBooth · 25/08/2026 15:16

And THERE it is

There what is? Are you going to private rented then? Seeing as you have it so bad and are so hot and sweaty and convinced non council homes didn’t get hot this summer? Should be worth the 3-4x rent increase right

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:20

ClarkeandNewman · 25/08/2026 15:16

Social rents aren't subsidised.

A man who dosent work living in a place he got after laying down no deposit and only paying less than a 100 a week in the south east.
Someone’s subsidising it 😂

Dontcallmescarface · 25/08/2026 15:24

Ah I see this thread has gone the same way as every other thread regarding social housing. Honestly, aren't you all bored of spouting the same old arguments Every.Fucking.Time?

ClarkeandNewman · 25/08/2026 15:25

Samanthapiggles · 25/08/2026 15:20

A man who dosent work living in a place he got after laying down no deposit and only paying less than a 100 a week in the south east.
Someone’s subsidising it 😂

Nope. Social housing isn't subsidised.

ClarkeandNewman · 25/08/2026 15:26

Dontcallmescarface · 25/08/2026 15:24

Ah I see this thread has gone the same way as every other thread regarding social housing. Honestly, aren't you all bored of spouting the same old arguments Every.Fucking.Time?

Never! Not when someone is wrong on the internet!

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