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Friends promised a BBQ and delivered an Iceland beige buffet!

364 replies

Bbqdisaster · Yesterday 19:32

As above really, myself, DH and 3 DC went to our friends’ house yesterday on the promise of some drinks in the garden and a BBQ.

They said they were having issues with their BBQ so would do an ‘indoor BBQ’. This consisted of beige food from Iceland!!

AIBU to find this a woeful alternative?

OP posts:
Pineapplewaves · Yesterday 20:22

My kids would have been over the moon, they’d much prefer a beige buffet over BBQ! Did they still provide drinks? That would be the important part for me!

ShetlandishMum · Yesterday 20:23

Bbqdisaster · Yesterday 20:22

I highly doubt it. One, possibly both of them are in jobs paying six figures.

Just decline next time. Case closed.

Needmorelego · Yesterday 20:24

Bbqdisaster · Yesterday 20:22

I highly doubt it. One, possibly both of them are in jobs paying six figures.

Maybe Iceland is their nearest supermarket.
Mine is.
Next nearest is a Aldi and a Lidl.
Oh the horror 😂
There is a Sainsbury's but it's small and rubbish.
(I live in a fairly trendy part of South East London 😂😂)

Springsummertime · Yesterday 20:25

You sound rude and ungrateful!

MissMappsGardenProduce · Yesterday 20:25

CurlewKate · Yesterday 19:50

You just sound ridiculously snobbish to me.

This!

I bet you all had nice tinkly little superior laughs as you motored home in your tinkly little car.

Beige food is better than beige manners-polish your up and stay at home until you have done so because you're not really fit company.

Elaine118 · Yesterday 20:25

Tryingtokeepgoing · Yesterday 19:54

Given that the Lord Mayor of the UK has banned BBQs what choice did they have ;)

Who is the Lord Mayor of the UK!? 😆

Our city alone has two mayors, neither of them have been given authority over very much, certainly not anything on that scale.

Disposable BBQs are currently "discouraged" in an attempt to lower wild fire risk. They aren't meant to be on sale and people have been strongly advised not to use them.
Nothing about a back garden BBQ has been banned.

OP I'd have been a bit sad at beige food too, (I'd have been just as sad at a ready meal though.) Either way I would just enjoy the company and a drink with friends. Some people would love it. They maybe thought you would.

lavendersweetly · Yesterday 20:26

ElsiePiddockSkipsinherSleep · Yesterday 20:15

I don’t care about food, it’s about the company. I get it that most people would care about the food though. The idea of serving cheap buffet food is anathema to my husband who has a bit of a reputation as a host extraordinaire.

We have friends that invite us for dinner and serve food that’s barely edible. It’s become a bit of a private joke and my colleagues get excited if I tell them we’re seeing these friends at their house because they love to hear what food we were served. 😬

So you also take the piss out your friends that invite you to their home? Wow.
What a horrible bunch of people.

Lexingtonavenueandme · Yesterday 20:26

Bbqdisaster · Yesterday 20:06

Fortunately we had some emergency meals stocked from our local farm shop (think along the lines of Charlie Bigham meals you can get in some of the supermarkets).

And lashings of ginger beer?

pearlsclutchedhard · Yesterday 20:27

Never inviting you to my house

summersunnydays · Yesterday 20:28

God, I love a buffet , the beiger the better 😂

Stormyrose · Yesterday 20:28

Wow I can’t believe you would have declined if you knew about rhe food. You are clearly the sort of person going for the food and not rhe social occasion, likely also don’t eat out often as you feel you can do it better yourself and resent the cost, as it’s all about the grub.

Redburnett · Yesterday 20:29

Depends how hungry you were. Given my boring diet for health reasons (low fat and high fibre) I would probably have relished the chance to eat a load of beige food.

Bbqdisaster · Yesterday 20:29

Stormyrose · Yesterday 20:28

Wow I can’t believe you would have declined if you knew about rhe food. You are clearly the sort of person going for the food and not rhe social occasion, likely also don’t eat out often as you feel you can do it better yourself and resent the cost, as it’s all about the grub.

What a strange take…

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IStillHearTheWaves · Yesterday 20:30

It might not be to your taste, but it was one evening, surely you can deal with that? Even if you were disappointed, were you really that upset that you'd take to MN to spout off about it in the hopes everyone would flag off your 'friends'.

You sound ungracious.

IStillHearTheWaves · Yesterday 20:30

It might not be to your taste, but it was one evening, surely you can deal with that? Even if you were disappointed, were you really that upset that you'd take to MN to spout off about it in the hopes everyone would flag off your 'friends'.

You sound ungracious.

MasterBeth · Yesterday 20:30

Humanswarm · Yesterday 20:18

Perhaps they served 'beige food'because they didn't like you. And they hoped you would decline. That honestly wouldn't surprise me. Actually..I think thats definitely it!

Well, that doesn't make sense, does it, because they invited them to a BBQ.

TicklishReader · Yesterday 20:30

Dumbledora8 · Yesterday 20:06

And you probably aren't up your own arse

Thankfully not!

CharityShopMensGlasses · Yesterday 20:32

Well they probably arent going to be your friends any more if they see this are they.

DarkchocolateAndtea · Yesterday 20:33

MasterBeth · Yesterday 20:30

Well, that doesn't make sense, does it, because they invited them to a BBQ.

Yes, but op only attended for the bbq food.

Bunnycat101 · Yesterday 20:35

Basically don’t be a bitch is a good rule to apply to life. I’d say being invited to a friend’s house then moaning about the catering on a public forum is entering the territory of being a bit of a cow.

DarkchocolateAndtea · Yesterday 20:36

Redburnett · Yesterday 20:29

Depends how hungry you were. Given my boring diet for health reasons (low fat and high fibre) I would probably have relished the chance to eat a load of beige food.

Party food is always better with a drink. I don't want vol au vents, just pass me the onion rings goddammit!

StressedOutPeanut · Yesterday 20:36

Oh gosh, you sound like a right cow.

likelysuspect · Yesterday 20:36

Go NC and call 101

strawberry780 · Yesterday 20:37

Get your head out of your own arse.

Olderbutt · Yesterday 20:37

concertinacornflake · Yesterday 19:35

I think it's discourteous to moan really.
It may not be your choice of food but they hosted.

Absolutely this

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