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Friends promised a BBQ and delivered an Iceland beige buffet!

364 replies

Bbqdisaster · Yesterday 19:32

As above really, myself, DH and 3 DC went to our friends’ house yesterday on the promise of some drinks in the garden and a BBQ.

They said they were having issues with their BBQ so would do an ‘indoor BBQ’. This consisted of beige food from Iceland!!

AIBU to find this a woeful alternative?

OP posts:
Franjipanl8r · Yesterday 23:06

“Iceland” is the name of a cheap frozen food shop in the UK.

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 23:07

mybeautifulemeraldparure · Yesterday 22:57

How is that worse than BBQ food - especially sausages?

It may not be - depends what you're cooking.

I'm veggie so I don't eat the stuff anyway.

Ayarreet · Yesterday 23:07

Truetoself · Yesterday 22:56

What exactly is beige food from Iceland?

Custard Creams, a packet of crisps and chicken nuggets. Oh, and a reindeer carpaccio.

ForRealHedgehog · Yesterday 23:11

Bbqdisaster · Yesterday 22:00

It’s because it’s a race to the bottom for many on this site, sadly.

No, because you’re a judgemental snob. Your comments about the high street said it all.

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 23:11

Ayarreet · Yesterday 23:07

Custard Creams, a packet of crisps and chicken nuggets. Oh, and a reindeer carpaccio.

You eat reindeer ??

You do realise that if you eat Rudolph, or any of his team mates, no-one will get any Xmas presents this year ? !

Needmorelego · Yesterday 23:12

FourCatMama · Yesterday 22:52

American here: what is beige Iceland food?

Iceland is a supermarket.
It's specialism is frozen food but they sell loads of non frozen food and household products too.
They are considered a "cheap" supermarket which some people think means "bad quality".

DurinsBane · Yesterday 23:13

Bbqdisaster · Yesterday 22:00

It’s because it’s a race to the bottom for many on this site, sadly.

It’s not really a race to the bottom. It is about enjoying your friends company and, though the food might not be to your taste or style, accepting it as a one off

mybeautifulemeraldparure · Yesterday 23:15

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 23:07

It may not be - depends what you're cooking.

I'm veggie so I don't eat the stuff anyway.

Same here, so I don't get the love for sausages and burgers from an outdoor grill like the OP.

Needmorelego · Yesterday 23:15

RoseRosse · Yesterday 22:59

Is that why mums go to Iceland? 😁

I think they've stopped using that slogan but yes...I am a mum and I shop there.
I can get almost everything I need for a typical weekly shop - food, household products and toiletries.
It's my closest supermarket but I get it home delivery and it's an excellent service.

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 23:15

Needmorelego · Yesterday 23:12

Iceland is a supermarket.
It's specialism is frozen food but they sell loads of non frozen food and household products too.
They are considered a "cheap" supermarket which some people think means "bad quality".

Maybe it's comparable to the Walmart (that we here so much about) ?

mybeautifulemeraldparure · Yesterday 23:16

DurinsBane · Yesterday 23:13

It’s not really a race to the bottom. It is about enjoying your friends company and, though the food might not be to your taste or style, accepting it as a one off

This ⬆️

ShetlandishMum · Yesterday 23:17

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 23:11

You eat reindeer ??

You do realise that if you eat Rudolph, or any of his team mates, no-one will get any Xmas presents this year ? !

Reindeer meat is said to be healthier than the more common types of meat. The meat has a much higher content of vitamins and minerals because of the reindeer's free life with lots of physical activity and their diet of lichen, heather, herbs and berries.
Serve with cranberries.

We get it every winter and Christmas because a friend keeps reindeers in Lapland/Finland. Apparently there is a plan to avoid eating Rudolph.

I think OP would have enjoyed being served reindeer. Or it might be too beige.

Needmorelego · Yesterday 23:17

Franjipanl8r · Yesterday 23:06

“Iceland” is the name of a cheap frozen food shop in the UK.

and non frozen food....

Needmorelego · Yesterday 23:19

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 23:15

Maybe it's comparable to the Walmart (that we here so much about) ?

Iceland stores tend to be smaller (although they do have a larger version called The Food Warehouse).
Asda or Tesco are more like Walmart.
Walmart owned Asda at one point (but not anymore).

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 23:19

@ShetlandishMum "Apparently there is a plan to avoid eating Rudolph."

I'm pleased to hear it !

MeganM3 · Yesterday 23:23

I just think it’s nice to be invited round to other peoples houses these days. For whatever it is. Beige buffet, simple bbq, just drinks. I really don’t care. People have become so insular in my world in recent years. Rarely relaxed enough to host or just don’t have the space or don’t have the funds to put on a spread.
I’m happy to be invited round to have a cuppa and a biscuit with friends.

HowardsWahey · Yesterday 23:24

Bbqdisaster · Yesterday 20:06

Fortunately we had some emergency meals stocked from our local farm shop (think along the lines of Charlie Bigham meals you can get in some of the supermarkets).

This was when you well and truly jumped the shark.

HowardsWahey · Yesterday 23:25

Bbqdisaster · Yesterday 21:23

It’s a race to the bottom on here at times!

This expression doesn't mean what you think it means.

HowardsWahey · Yesterday 23:26

Priyanka12 · Yesterday 21:26

I just wouldn't eat that. I don't consider that food and would tell them that. They have done 0 effort. But again, I come from a country with foodie culture. I was very surprised that it's normal here to come to a party to Tesco UPPFs and everybody considers that normal and nobody minds! It was a real cultural shock. Most of my friends are Europeans from the continent and Asians - they always cook (almost) everything fresh.

That's a punch in the face waiting to happen.

Ayarreet · Yesterday 23:27

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 23:11

You eat reindeer ??

You do realise that if you eat Rudolph, or any of his team mates, no-one will get any Xmas presents this year ? !

They fly out of harm's way of course!

Holidaymodeon · Yesterday 23:29

Bbqdisaster · Yesterday 20:11

We were very much thankful when leaving yesterday and ensured they were aware we appreciated them hosting.

We did bring a load of drink, and one of DH’s posher bottle of wines was left behind unopened (I don’t drink the stuff, but I expect it cost a multiple of the food!). We also had a range crisps and snacks for the kids.

why is the price of the wine relevant and why is it compared to the perceived cost of the food?
you sound like an absolute snob.
i hope someone recognises you from this post and shows it to your hosts, you don’t deserve them as friends.

Ayarreet · Yesterday 23:29

HowardsWahey · Yesterday 23:26

That's a punch in the face waiting to happen.

Or at the very least a mush in the mush with Aldi lasagne.

Ayarreet · Yesterday 23:31

HowardsWahey · Yesterday 23:24

This was when you well and truly jumped the shark.

Aye, a stretch too far. No imagination, must do better. 1/10

likelysuspect · Yesterday 23:32

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 23:15

Maybe it's comparable to the Walmart (that we here so much about) ?

Its just a supermarket that specialised in frozen food. It was the first to go GMO free and they are a dementia friendly company and have signs up in their stores reminding people to be patient for others.

Im a cook who cooks with ingredients, I dont buy ready made food generally speaking but I like their ranges of veg, fruit which is ready chopped and frozen. I also like their ethos as a company.

People have a strange view about frozen food in this country despite it being fresher than fresh once frozen. it used to be advertised by Kerry Katona and therefore got a bit of a chav label and people love to be snobby and use 'iceland' as shorthand for crap food.

They're wrong.

Cherrytree86 · Yesterday 23:34

IStillHearTheWaves · Yesterday 22:03

I wouldn't say that's typical, it's just expected that people have the good manners to accept hospitality here without complaint.

@Priyanka12

yes, totally! In fact why not spit in the hosts face to really show your disdain at their audacity to serve you processed food? That should get the message across