Piece of shhhhhhhhheeeeeet *pg*

[Resetrefocusanddoit]

AIBU To think a 40 year old man who lets you down? Lies? Doesnt pay tax and ni? Has no future? Stonewalling regular? And leaves you 5 weeks post op major surgery? Is a piece of shit?

Is this Man, your partner?

It sounds like your partner left you - do I have that right?
I am really sorry for his sh...oddy behaviour. You're well rid.
That loser sounds like a piece of s...omething for sure, and whatever it is I wouldn't put it in my mouth.
Since he doesn't pay tax, I am sure that the vigilantes of Mumsnet will quickly advise you to contact HMRC, Crimestoppers and Interpol.
But instead of focusing on making him pay, focus on making you feel better.
You deserve the effort. He failed to earn it. ❤️

yes you are right.

Not anymore!

How long were you with this loser?

No. He sounds like a super bkoke.

2 years...🤯

......... why?????????????

presumably you've known about his failings as a moral person for a while? Why did you stay with such trash?

Promises to change blah blah blah he left me 4 weeks ago and im now sat here like cheers pal you did me a favour actually

Why??
And what's the point in ranting on here? You'd be better spending the time working on yourself and figuring out why you put up with him for so long and improving your life, rather than sagging him off on MN.

Who says im not working on myself? Between recovering from my op and caring for 2 disabled kids.... why cant I vent on here and ask for opinions? Who exactly am I hurting?

Lets swap this around.

What's the point of your post kicking the op when she's vulnerable? You'd be better spending the time working on yourself and figuring out why you just had to post on her thread.

@Resetrefocusanddoit yes he is, yes you don't need him, well done on realising that after 2 years those promises mean nothing without the action behind them. Onwards and upwards!

Thank you OP well said!

Slowly crawling out from under the mud slide of hell that the relationship fog has been!! X

No he sounds perfect, can you pass on his number?

I don't think slagging him off on here is working on herself, moving forward and getting on with life, but we obviously disagree.

Who are you to dictate what can be posted on here? The thread police?

Glad you're rid of him, OP. Hope you have a better life without.

Sometimes in life you just need to vomit those feelings out so you can make sense of them. It's what can happen in therapy sessions and a public forum, supposedly with supportive posters, can be a similar environment. She can’t move on just yet and telling her to stop posting isn't helpful. It's mean.