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AIBU?

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MrsGambini · 21/08/2026 04:35

AIBU I have several bad and long standing health conditions. They sometimes are worse than my “normal” I’m in my 30s and currently wearing an adult nappy because my stomach is that bad. I hate this because I hate my DH having to see me this way (even though he says he doesn’t mind) it makes me feel dreadful and depressed that I have to be this way.
I used to always be glam- now I’m wearing incontinence underwear and virtually unable to do anything for myself. What do I do?
I’ve tried asking medical professionals for help- nothing is working. I’m so tired and just feel like throwing the towel in.
AIBU to want the professionals to step in and not rely on the good will of DH given he’s just that- my DH- he’s not medically trained. We’re both so exhausted

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BibbityBoppityTwo · 21/08/2026 04:37

What kind of help are you asking for? To have your medical issues properly addressed? If so then no, you are not being at all unreasonable. Do you not have a good GP who will refer you to specialists until you get a resolution to your issues?

Minilover79 · 21/08/2026 06:52

What have you been diagnosed with? You need extra support so you might have to keep bothering your gp.

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