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To find pavement chalking by neighbour unreasonable?

309 replies

Hanji83 · Yesterday 20:29

We are in a row of houses which have a footpath running in front of the road with a grassed area either side. One of the neighbours has two kids, who for the past week have been drawing on the pavement using chalk. It looks an utter mess. Would it be wrong of me to say something to the parents?

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Vulturesoverhead · Yesterday 20:35

Makes me think fondly of the time I got pissed with a friend before her DH did a big bike ride. We PAINTED the road in the style and custom of Le Tour. WTF were we thinking. That, is an issue OP, chalk? No.

superchick · Yesterday 20:36

So what if it looks a mess? It does not affect you at all. Do you not have anything else to worry about?

LilyBunch25 · Yesterday 20:36

It will rain at some point and it will go! Genuinely, is this such an issue for you? Makes a nice change to hear that kids are outside playing in this way imo.

YouHaveAnArse · Yesterday 20:36

Grow up.

Seaglasscat · Yesterday 20:36

I think some people really don’t have enough problems if they get wound up about stuff like this.

FFS as soon as it rains it will magically disappear. Come and live round me where little scrotes like to graffiti on people’s walls and the side of houses.

TheJoyousHiker · Yesterday 20:37

Complaining about children having fun chalking on the pavement. You sound a real fun sponge.

First shower of rain and it will be gone.

UrOutdoors · Yesterday 20:37

Didn’t you do this when you were a kid? It’s a charming, harmless activity!

Timeforachange26 · Yesterday 20:37

Hanji83 · Yesterday 20:32

Ok, clearly there’s a strong disagreement. No it’s not a reverse. It does look a mess. But clearly I’m being harsh so I won’t approach my neighbour or argue with everyone on here.

Why is it actually bothering you? Does it hurt you? It's your property damaged.

Soon be rained away

Eyelashesoffire · Yesterday 20:38

Is this a reverse??! If not, you miserable git! It's a classic part of childhood drawing on the pavement with chalk. Will you only be happy once you've squeezed every last ounce of joy out of their lives????

My old neighbour used to complain about this but she had dementia so I indulged her nonsense and made the kids not do it outside her house and got them to wash it away after a day or two. She had very little meaning in her life apart from looking out of the window so I didn't want to upset her unnecessarily.

SoLongMae · Yesterday 20:38

Jesus.

I love our pavement chalk - the kids round here have been doing it for weeks and I think the little rainbows, hearts and flowers add a lovely feeI to the neighbourhood. It'll be too cold and wet for it soon enough, chill out and wait a few weeks - but in the meantime, let the kids have a bit of harmless fun.

AndyKitten · Yesterday 20:38

Really?

A bit of chalk is only going to hide the uneven stones, the stinky stains, the general rubbish and the dog and ox shit on the pavements round here.

Bring it on!

Skatefordinner · Yesterday 20:38

Do you have DCs OP?

Mt563 · Yesterday 20:38

And we wonder why kids don't play out.

LilyBunch25 · Yesterday 20:38

Hanji83 · Yesterday 20:32

Ok, clearly there’s a strong disagreement. No it’s not a reverse. It does look a mess. But clearly I’m being harsh so I won’t approach my neighbour or argue with everyone on here.

With all due respect what did you really expect the reaction to be? So many of us deal with real neighbour nuisance issues, asb, vandalism. Some coloured chalking on the pavement....you will get slammed for complaining about that, I'm afraid.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · Yesterday 20:39

I like chalk drawings. I’d probably be out there joining in.

Cluelessfirstimer · Yesterday 20:39

My DS took some chalk out into the garden earlier. What a state. What vandalism. Next it will be young offenders

To find pavement chalking by neighbour unreasonable?
Nousernameideaaga · Yesterday 20:41

Chalk pavements was my most successful way of getting my dd (8 at the time) to do maths during lockdown
It’s a mandatory part of childhood surely

Kizmet1 · Yesterday 20:41

I love the replies on this thread ❤️
Rain is coming, the chalk art (or mess if you like) will be washed away. Let it go, OP. There are so many other things to spend your energy on.

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · Yesterday 20:42

Cluelessfirstimer · Yesterday 20:39

My DS took some chalk out into the garden earlier. What a state. What vandalism. Next it will be young offenders

I am shaking and crying at that!! Trauma!!

LilyBunch25 · Yesterday 20:42

Nousernameideaaga · Yesterday 20:41

Chalk pavements was my most successful way of getting my dd (8 at the time) to do maths during lockdown
It’s a mandatory part of childhood surely

Neat idea! My daughter, years ago now, got through many a box of chunky coloured chalk 🌈🌈

Bananacrepewithnuts · Yesterday 20:43

It's chalk not paint.
Please leave it.

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Marroon · Yesterday 20:44

This is actually insane.

Nousernameideaaga · Yesterday 20:44

LilyBunch25 · Yesterday 20:42

Neat idea! My daughter, years ago now, got through many a box of chunky coloured chalk 🌈🌈

Same here for all my kids. Miss those simple innocent days ☺️

LilyBunch25 · Yesterday 20:44

Marroon · Yesterday 20:44

This is actually insane.

It pretty much is.....

BudgetBuster · Yesterday 20:44

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · Yesterday 20:39

I like chalk drawings. I’d probably be out there joining in.

My 2 year old has been absolutely loving chalk drawing (absolute nonsense scribbles) with some other kids in the estate. He's been delighted to be able to play with them this summer (instead of being told stay off the green for fear of getting smacked with the football or trying to keep up woth them on their bikes etc). Its been so lovely to see! Even older siblings out playing with younger siblings who'd normally be fighting the rest of the year.

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