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Channel 4 ADHD documentary

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crackerjackbaby · 18/08/2026 21:20

Totally totally one sided. And very dangerous as a result of that. AIBU to think this?

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Batfear · 19/08/2026 14:50

HRTQueen · 19/08/2026 14:23

That is the NHS standpoint

That isn't necessarily what some consultants are raising concerns about

There is a concern that girls in particular are wanting medication to keep weight down so will request a higher dose, that medication management is poor and that many private assessments are not thorough enough

More assessments certainly need to be done and better management but it needs to be more thorough

Really do you have evidence for this? They can have unpleasant side effects hence some likely to take breaks.

Also appetite suppression can often be temporary and wear off after a few months and when medication wears off in the evening your appetite can come roaring back anyway which can cause overeating.ADHD meds can reduce impulsive or binge-eating behaviors tied to low dopamine, which helps some people manage their weight better which isn’t a bad thing.

ablastfromthepast · 19/08/2026 15:22

Cantloseyou · 19/08/2026 09:29

Also whilst we’re on it, masking. This buzzword making its way through every conversation. How do you ‘mask’ hyperactivity? Or inattention?
You’re either hyper or you’re not? You either paid attention or you didn’t?
My daughter is the inattentive type, this could be proven by her being three years behind in school. She tried really hard to look like she was listening. She wasn’t listening.
And still no one would test her cognition. I was begging for an Ed psych to test her cognition and they said ‘we don’t do that’ but we’ll send off the referral for an ADHD assessment. It’s like all other ND conditions have ceased to exist.
I hear people say ‘oh my child definitely has ADHD but they mask in school!’ Well how do they know that all kids aren’t doing that? I mask happiness at work all day long! We nearly all do.
Masking is a normal part of the human condition, it is a requirement to being a herd animal and to live in society.
I understand it for autism and I see it time and time again. I see many autistic people mask, in work, in the community, at home (ex DP). I struggle to see it with ADHD, because it is a symptom based condition, if you can supress the symptoms and largely achieve what you need to then you are no different to any other person.
I wouldn’t be like this if I didn’t have so many frustrating experiences with the ND parent community with parent’s who largely want an excuse to not parent their children, stop them going to school and who want the whole world to revolve around their child. It’s not their fault, the world is difficult, especially for mums. We have to work, parent, own houses, travel extensively, compete in the ‘who does the most extracurricular activities’ Olympics…. Late stage capitalism, we all want to find a way out of it!

Masking - as with pretty much all aspects of ADHD really - isn't unique to people who are neurodivergent - it's the extent to which it is happening and the impact that has on you.

Examples of what I'd consider masking include:

  • ability to look like I'm paying attention in meetings while a 1000 thoughts are pinballing round my brain and nothing is sinking in. Then blagging responses as needed
  • Pretending that I'm well on top of projects at work, but not being and then having to work late near the deadline to get it over the line.
  • People consider me stylish but if I don't have to leave the house I will go days without showering or brushing my hair
  • Can't keep the house clean or tidy but will work feverishly tidying if anyone is coming round. Live in fear of people popping round and the mess being discovered.

I'm sure to some extent many of these are relatable to people without ADHD but is the magnitude of it and compound effect (stress, shame etc) that are debilitating.

ablastfromthepast · 19/08/2026 15:31

marvelousmarmaladian · 19/08/2026 10:33

It is disconcerting that a lot of ADHD kids only take their medication on school days.

Yes and no. "People who need crutches only need them when they need to stand up, if only society allowed us to sit constantly it wouldn't be such an issue"

Yes I think schools could adapt better to meeting the needs of neurodivergent kids, very very much so.

But just "getting by as a human in modern society" can be taxing for people with ADHD people in a way that meds can help with.

In an ideal world we'd live in societies that we had less need for anti-depressants, anti-obesity drugs, treatments for cancers caused by environmental pollutants etc etc. But I don't think it's realistic to think we can "adapt our lifestyles" completely out of need for medication that is fixing problems that are in part a product of society.

AuADHD · 19/08/2026 15:35

Ds and I need our medication every day. He has almost as many issues at home as at school. I don’t go to school or have an office type role, so by the some people’s reasoning I shouldn’t need medication at all. My brain fails to function effectively every day. I do agree though that schools need to change the way they do things to be more ADHD friendly.

ablastfromthepast · 19/08/2026 15:44

ITMA2000 · 19/08/2026 09:39

It's a bandwagon. Even rich and successful people claim they have the condition now, so it is hard to believe it causes any real problems in life. That's not to say it doesn't exist; it is just that it is a fashionable disorder to have. (People aren't queuing up to say they have halitosis or have homicidal impulses, for example.)

Probably a number of reasons for this:

  1. greater awareness = increased later life diagnosis so there are simply more people diagnosed amongst all groups, including the "rich and successful" who have always had it just never realised until now.
  2. reduced stigma = people prepared to talk about it. I think arguably we've previously seen similar with depression, or eating disorders etc. People have always had them they just may not have spoken up
  3. certain careers like acting, comedy, creative arts suit people with ADHD so it's hardly surprising to find famous people with ADHD
  4. similarly it can be linked with entrepreneurship and risk taking so some successful business people have ADHD (you don't see all those whose attempts at starting new businesses flounder - scatter a thousand seeds and you only notice the few that bloom).
  5. if you get to the point of being rich and successful they've probably both mastered masking and got the resources needed to provide scaffolding (dammit if I had a PA, personal chef and housekeeper I would be absolutely thriving!)
SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItReal · 19/08/2026 15:47

Itsjustmethatsall · 19/08/2026 14:25

So, you're going to quote the research into the long term effects of stimulants on child and adult health are you? Where did you get this information from? Or is it just your uninformed opinion?
You have no idea. The effects of stimulants are short lasting, as it leaves the body quickly. Stimulants have been around for years, and the effects have been tracked for all that time. Stimulants enable children and adults to achieve what they can't do without them. Stop the thousands of thoughts crowding into their heads that make it impossible to stay on task, concentrate etc, which, over time completely ruins lives, and quite often said children/adults end up on the scrap heap. Studies show a surprising correlation between, for example, prisoners and ADHD. Just think, if the correct diagnosis and treatment were given at an early age, these people could have followed a completely different course in life.
My own daughter went from threatened expulsion from school, to becoming a lawyer, with the right treatment for her. Ritalin made an astonishing difference to her, although ultimately we chose a a natural non medication treatment.
Until you've lived, and extensively researched it, you have no idea

I disagree strongly with young children taking these types of medications, same as sleeping ones. Utterly unnecessary! I hope it is eventually banned.

ablastfromthepast · 19/08/2026 15:48

Piglet89 · 19/08/2026 11:42

Also, MP the presenter concluded “you can’t diagnose people with ADHD from a brain scan - an MRI shows now discernible difference between an ADHD brain and a NT brain.

So what? That means absolutely nothing. MRIs can detect only so much. I’m sure there will be differences MRIs are not nuanced or powerful enough to detect. For instance, it’s a fact that MRI scans cannot detect dopamine or how it moves in the brain.

Saying it as though it’s this evidential silver bullet - so unintelligent. Must think the viewing public is thick as well.

Edited

There's some great expert reaction to the programme along these lines to be found here:

expert reaction to the TV show ‘The Great ADHD Myth? | Science Media Centre

expert reaction to the TV show ‘The Great ADHD Myth? | Science Media Centre

https://www.sciencemediacentre.org/expert-reaction-to-the-tv-show-the-great-adhd-myth/

Batfear · 19/08/2026 15:50

SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItReal · 19/08/2026 15:47

I disagree strongly with young children taking these types of medications, same as sleeping ones. Utterly unnecessary! I hope it is eventually banned.

Edited

It is very much necessary for some and can be life changing.

moonraker0 · 19/08/2026 16:51

SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItReal · 19/08/2026 15:47

I disagree strongly with young children taking these types of medications, same as sleeping ones. Utterly unnecessary! I hope it is eventually banned.

Edited

If I didn’t take medication I would’ve lost my job by now. You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about, medication is life changing for so many people who have ADHD no matter what the age.

Piglet89 · 19/08/2026 16:53

@ablastfromthepastthis is really interesting: thank you for sharing.

Piglet89 · 19/08/2026 16:54

@SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItRealanother one with no experience of raising a child diagnosed with the condition. The blind ignorance on this thread is just embarrassing.

Piglet89 · 19/08/2026 16:56

I am also upset this has been broadcast just before I go to visit my parents: if they’ve seen it, it’ll be more grist to their ADHD-denial mill.

BellaCriesAndThatsAlright · 19/08/2026 16:57

SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItReal · 19/08/2026 15:47

I disagree strongly with young children taking these types of medications, same as sleeping ones. Utterly unnecessary! I hope it is eventually banned.

Edited

Why? What evidence do you have to support them being banned? Or is it just a "feeling"?

SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItReal · 19/08/2026 17:01

BellaCriesAndThatsAlright · 19/08/2026 16:57

Why? What evidence do you have to support them being banned? Or is it just a "feeling"?

I’m very anti-medications for mental health issues, as there are so many other longer term things you can change which are more beneficial.

BellaCriesAndThatsAlright · 19/08/2026 17:01

Piglet89 · 19/08/2026 16:54

@SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItRealanother one with no experience of raising a child diagnosed with the condition. The blind ignorance on this thread is just embarrassing.

Going by the name of the ignorant poster, it's probably just rage bait and best ignored. Embarrassingly stupid if not.

BellaCriesAndThatsAlright · 19/08/2026 17:02

SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItReal · 19/08/2026 17:01

I’m very anti-medications for mental health issues, as there are so many other longer term things you can change which are more beneficial.

Ok, explain it to me. How can I manage my ADHD without medication?

SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItReal · 19/08/2026 17:02

Piglet89 · 19/08/2026 16:54

@SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItRealanother one with no experience of raising a child diagnosed with the condition. The blind ignorance on this thread is just embarrassing.

Children have always varied in temperament. Modern life and modern environments are very unhealthy, and it’s unsurprising some children respond honestly to that. They aren’t the issue, but modern environments and expectations often are. Poor kids!

BellaCriesAndThatsAlright · 19/08/2026 17:04

SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItReal · 19/08/2026 17:02

Children have always varied in temperament. Modern life and modern environments are very unhealthy, and it’s unsurprising some children respond honestly to that. They aren’t the issue, but modern environments and expectations often are. Poor kids!

I grew up in the 80s. No screens, lots of outside play, healthy diet. I still have ADHD. How do you explain that?

SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItReal · 19/08/2026 17:04

BellaCriesAndThatsAlright · 19/08/2026 16:57

Why? What evidence do you have to support them being banned? Or is it just a "feeling"?

People want an easy fix, they mask unhealthy habits. Overhaul your entire lifestyle and environment instead.

BellaCriesAndThatsAlright · 19/08/2026 17:06

SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItReal · 19/08/2026 17:04

People want an easy fix, they mask unhealthy habits. Overhaul your entire lifestyle and environment instead.

That's not evidence.

SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItReal · 19/08/2026 17:09

BellaCriesAndThatsAlright · 19/08/2026 17:02

Ok, explain it to me. How can I manage my ADHD without medication?

Look at your entire lifestyle and habits. Make constructive changes. Push back.

ablastfromthepast · 19/08/2026 17:11

SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItReal · 19/08/2026 17:04

People want an easy fix, they mask unhealthy habits. Overhaul your entire lifestyle and environment instead.

I have a very healthy diet, do loads of exercise, have switched to a much more suitable job and reduced my hours. All these have helped get me out of the mindset of “fantasising about throwing myself in front of a bus” but it’s no cure. Short of abandoning my family and going to live alone in a yurt I’m not sure what other lifestyle changes I can make?

BellaCriesAndThatsAlright · 19/08/2026 17:12

SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItReal · 19/08/2026 17:09

Look at your entire lifestyle and habits. Make constructive changes. Push back.

I have spent my whole life doing that. Changing my diet, exercising, making lists, trying organisation systems. Nothing works. As a result of that I have long suffered with depression, anxiety and OCD. Crushingly low self esteem.

Since going on medication my life has changed. I now thrive at work and am much happier. What a shame that I didn't do this sooner and save myself the years of pain and struggles.

Why do you think you know better?

Mistressofnone · 19/08/2026 17:22

There is zero point trying to explain the facts to ADHD-deniers. It gets their backs up for some reason.

”Everyone has something”
”All kids are like that”
”Everyone zones out when they’re bored”
”Why would you care about a diagnosis when you’re this far in life”
”It didn’t exist when I was young”

And my favourite: “dangerous psychotics”

If you downed enough Calpol it would be dangerous!

BellaCriesAndThatsAlright · 19/08/2026 17:23

Mistressofnone · 19/08/2026 17:22

There is zero point trying to explain the facts to ADHD-deniers. It gets their backs up for some reason.

”Everyone has something”
”All kids are like that”
”Everyone zones out when they’re bored”
”Why would you care about a diagnosis when you’re this far in life”
”It didn’t exist when I was young”

And my favourite: “dangerous psychotics”

If you downed enough Calpol it would be dangerous!

Yeah, you are right. The ignorance of people is disappointing.

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