Tldr I believe Adhd is real and can be distressing. However before medicating explore other options before going down that route but make sure a consistent routine has been given a fair trial. If its not worked meditation could help a lot.
I work with families whose children need support through children's services.
We work one to one with the children and they stay over for respite one or two nights a week.
The number of children who have a diagnosis of ADHD is unreal, there was about three cases when I started my job 12 years ago. Now out of 68 children on our books 62 have adhd many diagnosed by their parent but we have to record what they tell us.
I don't dispute ADHD as a condition and children should be given support in what everway works best for them. What I am seeing is parents pushing for an assessment more and more when I attend CIN meetings. On more occasions than I can count the teacher has said things like ' what are you on about? The behaviour you are talking about is normal child behaviour '
Some of the children I am thinking about are addicted to the xbox and their phone and are constantly watching YouTube videos. You cannot talk to them and they are in a trance. There are homes have huge screens which is on constantly and I have to ask to turn he volume down when I do home visits as I feel over stimulated with flashing images and loud noise especially if the children are using it for video games. I cant think straight and have a conversation with the parents.It must be stressful living in a state of noise and flashing images.
Along side this the children have never had a boundary set in their lives. The number of times ive been called a cunt because I have said 'no' to a child is unreal!
The parents complain about their children being 'hyper'
Our setting is completely different to what the children are used to. We have a small TV in the lounge rather than a huge screen. We eat together as a group, we go out in small groups. In good weather we go to the beach, the woods, bike through the forest, walk on the moors do park runs ( well i dont, other staff do) go on dog walks,go swimming etc. On wet days we bake, make things, do photography, play games and so on. Most of these the average parent can do.
We usually dont have the behaviours that parents describe at home.
This is not a blame game. We encourage parents to be more creative with their children. Those that take our advice and support have reported back much calmer children and enjoy spending time with them. Behaviour doesn't change overnight and families have to be consistent with their chosen method.
Of course not every child is going to respond well. Personally i think looking at the home life and trying different strategies should be the first port of call before Meditation.
Meditation may be the correct option for some children though to help ' turn off or down' the noise in their head and help their mental wellbeing. If this helps then truly it must be a good thing.
Clearly im not an expert. Im just posting my observations after many years of working with families.