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AIBU? Russia threaten UK

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mumlearningtorun · 17/08/2026 22:56

Am I being overdramatic about the new breaking news I’ve just seen about Russia threatening UK after use of drones. I’m super scared and have anxiety, can someone somewhat reassure me? Has these headlines happened before??

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SadiraOfTyr · 18/08/2026 16:19

isitoverno · 18/08/2026 16:07

So boat people are bad because they’re men of fighting age.

But Ukrainian refugees are bad because they’re women and children who cost the taxpayer more.

Maintaining links with home, showing a willingness to return home when the war is over, is bad.

Saving money and bringing your family here is also bad.

What are people meant to do?

That's easy. We abandon the second largest country in Europe to its fate, and then wonder why an emboldened Russia is now intent on annexing the rest of the ex-USSR and enslaving its people.

SadiraOfTyr · 18/08/2026 16:22

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 18/08/2026 15:58

Yes, the idea that Russia's struggling economy and severely deleted military is capable of taking on wars with multiple opponents simultaneously is optimistic, to say the least.

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If we gift them Ukraine, with its highly advanced manufacturing capabilities and huge mineral and agricultural sectors, as well as land borders with other ex-USSR states why wouldn't they? Plenty of slaves too.

Anarchy99 · 18/08/2026 17:58

isitoverno · 18/08/2026 16:07

So boat people are bad because they’re men of fighting age.

But Ukrainian refugees are bad because they’re women and children who cost the taxpayer more.

Maintaining links with home, showing a willingness to return home when the war is over, is bad.

Saving money and bringing your family here is also bad.

What are people meant to do?

I didn’t give an opinion about the boat people - I’m just pointing out the madness of going out of our way to roll out the red carpet for ‘refugees’ who can pop home for a bit (showing that they are neither poor nor scared) just because they are white women and children.

isitoverno · 18/08/2026 18:02

Anarchy99 · 18/08/2026 17:58

I didn’t give an opinion about the boat people - I’m just pointing out the madness of going out of our way to roll out the red carpet for ‘refugees’ who can pop home for a bit (showing that they are neither poor nor scared) just because they are white women and children.

Well it’s quite easy? Some areas are under a constant bombardment and unsafe, some aren’t but aren’t safe to live. Keeping connections at home is a brilliant way to show that these people are true refugees, and will go home when the war is over.

Wannabetraveller · 18/08/2026 18:22

Friendlygingercat · 18/08/2026 08:45

This is because we got involved with bloody Ukraine, I don't remember any referendum on this asking for public authorisation. Millions have been spent on supporting them and they are not grateful enough. We have done enough for them and should leave them to it. You look after your own people first.

What a lovely sentiment let’s hope other countries don’t share it if the UK were ever to be attacked

Smeuse · 18/08/2026 18:22

Not all Ukrainians living in the UK are refugees, neither are they all poor 🙄

I imagine they are quite scared though, if not for themselves then for family, friends still living there.

Lugol · 18/08/2026 18:25

Smeuse · 18/08/2026 15:24

I guess without the news you would have been informed about Covid once people around you started dying?

MN and YouTube count as social media.

Nobody around me died though. People weren't dropping dead in the street here like they were in China on the news.

I thought they were. I try and limit my time on both these days or I get nothing done.

Smeuse · 18/08/2026 18:35

Lugol · 18/08/2026 18:25

Nobody around me died though. People weren't dropping dead in the street here like they were in China on the news.

I thought they were. I try and limit my time on both these days or I get nothing done.

You asked what would have happened without news, I assumed you meant any news.

You don't need news 24/7 to know what is happening in the world but I imagine you will read at least some.

SerendipityJane · 18/08/2026 18:45

I'd be surprised if anyone over 50 really cares ?

We've been here, done this, and got the T-Shirt.

Remember when Putin said the UK was "for it" if we helped Ukraine in 2022. And 2023. And 2024. And 2025.

Some may see a pattern here.

Fuck Putin. Fuck Russia. And for good measure, fuck Trump and fuck the US.

Tomikka · 18/08/2026 18:54

(Other than supporting a soverign nation against aggression being the right thing to do)
The underlying reason for supporting Ukraine is that in 1994 they disarmed their nuclear arsenal under guarantee by three nations - Russia, the US and the UK

Not to mention murders on our streets for decades of both Russian/soviet and British citizens, novichock and polonium trails across London and Salisbury
A few arsons and parcel bombs for good measure

Lugol · 18/08/2026 18:58

Smeuse · 18/08/2026 18:35

You asked what would have happened without news, I assumed you meant any news.

You don't need news 24/7 to know what is happening in the world but I imagine you will read at least some.

Yes it's amazing how it filters through. I do see the headlines in Lidl when I go in to shop but they are usually trying to inflame hatred or fear in one way or another and it's usually stuff that never happens.

Also I noticed once I stopped searching news online my youtube algorithm really pushed news stories at me.

localnotail · 18/08/2026 19:02

Russia threatens everyone but surely you should be reassured they failed to win much in Ukraine, even with all their oil money and tens of thousands of people thrown in? Ukraine, a country everyone in the West said would be defeated in a few months after the invasion?

Russia is brutal, nasty and doesn't give a shit about its own people. They are, I guess, scary as they have nuclear capacity. But they are also disorganized, backwards, corrupt and inept.

Laurmolonlabe · 18/08/2026 19:10

ticktickticktickBOOM · 17/08/2026 23:02

Well perhaps if we stopped arming the world we wouldn't be a target.

The French, Italians , Swiss, Belgians and Germans are all arms manufacturers .

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · 18/08/2026 19:10

moonraker0 · 18/08/2026 08:31

Exactly. What do people expect Russia to do when they know it’s being attacked with British weapons. We interfere in every war and get fed the propaganda it’s for the greater good.

Does that mean we can legitimately invade Iran, North Korea and China? If we wanted to…

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · 18/08/2026 19:18

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 18/08/2026 10:00

No, because even Putin is not stupid enough to directly attack a Nuclear capable major member of NATO.

When that comes, it will be an incursion into Latvia or Estonia, occupying a village or something, and then a "right NATO, what are you going to do about this?" stand-off. And NATO will do nothing because they aren't going to risk a conflagration over some tinpot village in a tinpot NATO member.

This is why it's vitally important to batter Russia right now, and make it almost impossible for Putin to even contemplate doing something as minor as a cross-border incursion into Estonia. Stop it before it happens, because if you wait until after it has happened then it's already too late to do anything meaningful about it. Article 5 looks great on paper, but nobody is about to get into a hot war with Russia over a few square km in Estonia or Latvia.

Actually Poland would be in there straight away, followed by Finland, because they are next in the firing line. Poland is arming and Donald Tusk was recently talking about becoming the largest army in Europe.

Germany might then prevaricate and Britain will sit on its hands if it might upset Trump, and anyway it costs money and anyway anyway our politicians have run the armed forces down, but the Swedes and Danes will back the Finns out of sense and a basic sense of decency and eventually Britain will be shamed into helping Poland. France might have to kick a few British butts first but we’d get there. We’re now - I hope - the country you can at least rely on to do the right thing when we have no other choice.

Bloody hell Im ashamed of Britain at times.

Couldyounot · 18/08/2026 19:21

They're chatting shit, as usual. Pay them no mind

SadiraOfTyr · 18/08/2026 19:48

localnotail · 18/08/2026 19:02

Russia threatens everyone but surely you should be reassured they failed to win much in Ukraine, even with all their oil money and tens of thousands of people thrown in? Ukraine, a country everyone in the West said would be defeated in a few months after the invasion?

Russia is brutal, nasty and doesn't give a shit about its own people. They are, I guess, scary as they have nuclear capacity. But they are also disorganized, backwards, corrupt and inept.

No one in the West said Ukraine would be defeated a few months after invasion. Literally no serious commentator on geopolitics or military matters thought this. Only the Russians said that - a few days, then a few weeks, then a few months, now we are up to a few years…

SadiraOfTyr · 18/08/2026 19:54

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · 18/08/2026 19:18

Actually Poland would be in there straight away, followed by Finland, because they are next in the firing line. Poland is arming and Donald Tusk was recently talking about becoming the largest army in Europe.

Germany might then prevaricate and Britain will sit on its hands if it might upset Trump, and anyway it costs money and anyway anyway our politicians have run the armed forces down, but the Swedes and Danes will back the Finns out of sense and a basic sense of decency and eventually Britain will be shamed into helping Poland. France might have to kick a few British butts first but we’d get there. We’re now - I hope - the country you can at least rely on to do the right thing when we have no other choice.

Bloody hell Im ashamed of Britain at times.

Yep. The Poles and the Finns are the next line of defence. While we worry whether the money spent on defending the realm might be better spent on NEETs.

I think there are still a lot of people in the UK who, like in the 1930s, live on fantasy island when it comes to geopolitics. Is it younger people? I can’t imagine anyone who was an adult during the Cold War, and especially the 80s, thinks like this.

missmollygreen · 18/08/2026 20:00

Friendlygingercat · 18/08/2026 08:45

This is because we got involved with bloody Ukraine, I don't remember any referendum on this asking for public authorisation. Millions have been spent on supporting them and they are not grateful enough. We have done enough for them and should leave them to it. You look after your own people first.

And if we had that mentality at the beginning of WW2?

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 18/08/2026 20:56

Anarchy99 · 18/08/2026 15:29

Totally agree with all this!

Most of the population who don’t understand or wish to engage with politics at least can’t be arsed to turn out to vote.

But put it in the hands of the people directly and the mind boggles.

I used to think we should have many more referenda, like Switzerland. Then the Brexit referendum proved to be a triumph of emotion over logic and I realised that whatever Michael Gove says, this country does need experts.

Dymaxion · 18/08/2026 21:15

I used to think we should have many more referenda

They are also targeted by countries like Russia who merrily spread disinformation to cause unrest.

isitoverno · 18/08/2026 22:35

I do hope this leads to a vote of no confidence in Burnham. He has no mandate to drag us into a war.

Smeuse · 18/08/2026 22:37

isitoverno · 18/08/2026 22:35

I do hope this leads to a vote of no confidence in Burnham. He has no mandate to drag us into a war.

What war is he dragging us into?

juldan · 18/08/2026 23:15

moonraker0 · 18/08/2026 14:07

So have they not had billions upon billions or is that a lie? Such a lazy response to call everything you don’t agree with Russian propaganda, instead explain why you think we should keep giving money when our country has people receiving medical care in hospital corridors (if they are lucky), a huge housing shortage and a cost of living crisis to name a few problems. Instead we keep creating more problems by involving ourselves with everyone else’s business before we have our own house in order.

@moonraker0
Because Europe needs independent Ukraine for safety. Putin is a lunatic with ambition of having imperial Russia. Something like USSR 2.0. When he took over Crimea, the West did nothing apart from issuing some sanctions. So he thought the rest of Ukraine was a fair game. If he is let to have Ukraine, he is not going to stop there.

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 18/08/2026 23:20

SadiraOfTyr · 18/08/2026 19:48

No one in the West said Ukraine would be defeated a few months after invasion. Literally no serious commentator on geopolitics or military matters thought this. Only the Russians said that - a few days, then a few weeks, then a few months, now we are up to a few years…

At the start of the Russian invasion, as a massive line of tanks advanced on Kyiv, I remember our TV newsreaders talking as though there would be a coup within a matter of days. I know that Zelensky has good security, but I remember fearing the worst for him as he refused an offer to evacuate him from the country. Say what you will about him, but he has more bravery in his little finger than Putin has in his whole body.

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