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AIBU to think some weekly shops contain far too many snacks?and this is not grocery shopping!?

460 replies

Upsetbetty · 17/08/2026 10:59

AIBU to think that the amount of processed snacks people buy in their grocery shopping is getting ridiculous? Watching people share their grocery shop on instagram etc and I can’t see what meals they can even make as it’s all snacks?? And then they say oh grocery shopping is so expensive!Do people really do this? I don’t buy any biscuits, fizzy drinks (18-20 pack slabs) or crisps as a part of me weekly family shop. I buy the meat, veg and pantry items. That is my weekly shopping. I buy one packet of oat bars for my DCs lunches. If my dc want a snack they have fruit, yogurt, homemade flapjacks etc.

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BleedinglyObvious · Yesterday 20:30

@Lilyhatesjaz , but the snacks now would have been meals then.
I don't think people see an apple as a snack, but they would a pile of 'pringles'.

Portion sizes were smaller in the 1970s.

BleedinglyObvious · Yesterday 20:33

Marroon · Yesterday 20:26

God forbid someone enjoys themselves.

What are you classing as no nutritional content?

Biscuits, potato-based snacks, sweets, cakes, noodles etc are 'empty calories'.

OonaStubbs · Yesterday 20:37

People should not be "enjoying themselves" by eating unhealthy snacks. We need to reprogram people's brains to remove the pleasure they get from junk food.

Marroon · Yesterday 20:38

BleedinglyObvious · Yesterday 20:33

Biscuits, potato-based snacks, sweets, cakes, noodles etc are 'empty calories'.

They might be empty calories for you, sweets and sugar is a dietary essential for me to treat dangerous hypos. And no you can’t just use fruit.

You sound incredibly naive.

Blued0t · Yesterday 20:48

I agree. My daughter moans that we’re an “ ingredients family” 🤔her words for having meals that are cooked from scratch which is bonkers. It’s eating real food!!!The Waitrose delivery guy joked today that my delivery was the healthiest he’d delivered all day. It had a sack of maltesers and a bottle of wine sticking out the top! I have a Riverford box and cook round that. A lot of veggie food which cuts down cost, huge jars of homemade granola, home made packed lunches etc.We have a tub of ice cream or chocolate at the weekend but just don’t buy or need crappy ultra processed high plastic packaging expensive snacks or foods the rest of the week. There is zero excuse not to cook from scratch with the internet. My husband has just fixed two toilets replacing flush mechanisms via YouTube. If he can do that anybody can follow a recipes.

QuizNight · Yesterday 20:55

I buy crisps and fizzy drinks every week and biscuits from time to time. I’ve been 9st - 9.5st at 5ft 7in for pretty much forever so I’m not going to stress over a packet of crisps and a glass of diet Dr Pepper. It’s far healthier to not have an exclusionary approach to any food. My weekly shop is around £75 for 2 adults.

QuizNight · Yesterday 20:57

BleedinglyObvious · Yesterday 20:33

Biscuits, potato-based snacks, sweets, cakes, noodles etc are 'empty calories'.

They taste nice though don’t they? Not everything needs to be about nutritional content.

Blued0t · Yesterday 21:01

QuizNight · Yesterday 20:55

I buy crisps and fizzy drinks every week and biscuits from time to time. I’ve been 9st - 9.5st at 5ft 7in for pretty much forever so I’m not going to stress over a packet of crisps and a glass of diet Dr Pepper. It’s far healthier to not have an exclusionary approach to any food. My weekly shop is around £75 for 2 adults.

Good health is not about weight. You can be a healthy weight and have dire cholesterol, blood sugar levels and high blood pressure. Ultra processed food has been linked to bowel cancer rises in younger generations.Eating real food doesn’t mean you exclude foods.

BleedinglyObvious · Yesterday 21:03

Marroon · Yesterday 20:38

They might be empty calories for you, sweets and sugar is a dietary essential for me to treat dangerous hypos. And no you can’t just use fruit.

You sound incredibly naive.

If you have a medical condition that means they are necessary for you then presumably you have been advised accordingly.

They are empty calories for most people.

I was once thanked by someone for 'saving his life' (his words) because I gave him my ginger beer when he looked like he was about to collapse. He looked in a bad way and the sugary drink hit the spot.

2026letsgo · Yesterday 21:19

Having chocolate because you are hypo or the odd Coke because you have a stomach upset or a take away is “once in a while”.

Thats not the same as buying soda drinks as part of a weekly shop, chocolate as a regular meal deal and MacDonalds every week because it’s quick. Which many people I know do all three every week.

Marroon · Yesterday 21:24

2026letsgo · Yesterday 21:19

Having chocolate because you are hypo or the odd Coke because you have a stomach upset or a take away is “once in a while”.

Thats not the same as buying soda drinks as part of a weekly shop, chocolate as a regular meal deal and MacDonalds every week because it’s quick. Which many people I know do all three every week.

The joke is on you because chocolate is terrible for hypos and no it’s not “once in a while” is absolutely like buying coke or juice as an every day weekly shop item 🙄

OonaStubbs · Yesterday 21:25

Marroon · Yesterday 20:38

They might be empty calories for you, sweets and sugar is a dietary essential for me to treat dangerous hypos. And no you can’t just use fruit.

You sound incredibly naive.

I wouldn't ban sugar.

Calliopespa · Yesterday 21:27

BleedinglyObvious · Yesterday 21:03

If you have a medical condition that means they are necessary for you then presumably you have been advised accordingly.

They are empty calories for most people.

I was once thanked by someone for 'saving his life' (his words) because I gave him my ginger beer when he looked like he was about to collapse. He looked in a bad way and the sugary drink hit the spot.

Tut tut @BleedinglyObvious! What were you doing with a ginger beer!😱

I wonder if shredded wheat would have have the same restorative effect!

OonaStubbs · Yesterday 21:34

Diabetics could just carry a packet of sugar cubes in their pocket.

BleedinglyObvious · Yesterday 21:40

@Calliopespa , I had it with me in case it was needed.

@Marroon , I wouldn't ban sugar either or impose a special tax on it.
I don't think sugar or salt are 'bad'.

QuizNight · Yesterday 22:05

Blued0t · Yesterday 21:01

Good health is not about weight. You can be a healthy weight and have dire cholesterol, blood sugar levels and high blood pressure. Ultra processed food has been linked to bowel cancer rises in younger generations.Eating real food doesn’t mean you exclude foods.

All of those levels are perfect too. Eating crisps doesn’t mean the rest of my diet isn’t ’real food’.

SquirrelGG · Today 02:03

changeme4this · 19/08/2026 00:51

Don’t they do that in the UK? It’s been 10 years since I last shopped there.

You can buy loose fruit and vege where I live. Break the bananas into a smaller size if need be.

Edited

Yes you can do that here also. Do UK supermarkets sell everything in packs? Ridiculous.

Redty10 · Today 08:10

QuizNight · Yesterday 22:05

All of those levels are perfect too. Eating crisps doesn’t mean the rest of my diet isn’t ’real food’.

But this post isn’t just about you! Good for you if you restrict the amount of UPF but many families don’t and we are now seeing vastly overweight and unhealthy children. Type 2 diabetes which when I started working in General Practice in the early 90s was seen as a disease of the elderly but is now not uncommon in teenagers! We are also seeing a nation living with poor health from a much younger age so people may well live into their 80s but for many it is with chronic ill health for decades vastly reducing their quality of life and costing the NHS a small fortune in the process

CandiedPrincess · Today 09:42

QuizNight · Yesterday 20:57

They taste nice though don’t they? Not everything needs to be about nutritional content.

Exactly!

Yes, yes, bad for our health but newsflash - nobody gets out of this alive. On my death bed I’m pretty sure I won’t be thinking “man, I wish I ate less crisps”.

BleedinglyObvious · Today 10:24

@CandiedPrincess , I doubt that those who die of old age having never had a day's illness in their lives are thinking on their deathbed 'man, I wish I'd eaten more crisps'.

Those suffering from illness caused or exacerbated by eating too many UPFs are probably cursing their poor diets.
Such illnesses include asthma, anxiety and depression, cancers, cardiovascular disorders and heart disease.

Redty10 · Today 10:48

CandiedPrincess · Today 09:42

Exactly!

Yes, yes, bad for our health but newsflash - nobody gets out of this alive. On my death bed I’m pretty sure I won’t be thinking “man, I wish I ate less crisps”.

No but you may be thinking how much more you could have done in your later years if you hadn’t had chronic health issues. Healthy years are what count

Jerrybalanitis · Today 10:56

It gives me pleasure to report i am sitting in the car park in the ME, engine running eating a sandwich of cheese and onion walkers and marksmanship sowncer thick cut white sliced, drinking a coffee and puffing on my ecigaterette. I feel joyful that I am not in the lentil weaving clique. I could not be more un mumsnet if I tried 😅

BleedinglyObvious · Today 11:11

Jerrybalanitis · Today 10:56

It gives me pleasure to report i am sitting in the car park in the ME, engine running eating a sandwich of cheese and onion walkers and marksmanship sowncer thick cut white sliced, drinking a coffee and puffing on my ecigaterette. I feel joyful that I am not in the lentil weaving clique. I could not be more un mumsnet if I tried 😅

And you're proud of that?

Blued0t · Today 12:10

Jerrybalanitis · Today 10:56

It gives me pleasure to report i am sitting in the car park in the ME, engine running eating a sandwich of cheese and onion walkers and marksmanship sowncer thick cut white sliced, drinking a coffee and puffing on my ecigaterette. I feel joyful that I am not in the lentil weaving clique. I could not be more un mumsnet if I tried 😅

Wow who knew eating real food and being aware of alarm from medical professionals re ultra processed food was a MN thing.

Crack on. Your health, your choice. I do hope though that taxes on UP foods go up hugely to cover the impact on the NHS.

Redty10 · Today 13:47

Jerrybalanitis · Today 10:56

It gives me pleasure to report i am sitting in the car park in the ME, engine running eating a sandwich of cheese and onion walkers and marksmanship sowncer thick cut white sliced, drinking a coffee and puffing on my ecigaterette. I feel joyful that I am not in the lentil weaving clique. I could not be more un mumsnet if I tried 😅

Reminds me of the 60s and 70s when smokers tried to defend cigarettes!