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Nearly50butdontfeelit · 16/08/2026 14:36

We are a group of 3 couples
Myself and couple A have been on holiday together , couple B were invited but declined. Since the holiday, couple B have been inviting A out to socialise and not me/ DH. I broached this but it was dismissed by B as nothing, despite saying how upset I was. A agreed with me but stayed neutral, she agreed it was unfair treatment just aimed at me.
Last week, I offered the olive branch despite not being to blame for any of it. We all attended an event together and thought things were on track again.
I have just seen on SM that A,B and DHs, spent a day together yesterday lunch etc, once again leaving me uninvited. I posted a message saying how hurt it was to be back to square 1. They both said I was over reacting. A has done a complete u turn and said she doesnt get why im so upset , when she could see it previously and was tearing her hair out at being in the middle. AIBU? Im stepping away from 'the friendship as its all a little immature.
Am I immature for feeling hurt? It just hurt that im only invited to select events, who gets to choose when im suitable to invite? I need outside perspective on this, maybe Im just over sensitive?

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ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 16/08/2026 14:38

are you invited to things by couple b?

Nearly50butdontfeelit · 16/08/2026 14:41

Only if couple A are invited too.
Before we and B went on holiday, the 6 if us just came as a pack. Since the holiday B only invites A to things. Sometimes I get invited too. I didnt organise the holidays, A did. B was invited and encouraged to come but declined

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