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Who is actually “for” Meta glasses (“pervert glasses”)?

118 replies

AccidentallyOnTrend · 15/08/2026 14:57

I’m not sure if AIBU is the right place for this question, but I am really, desperately curious to know if there is any one out there who thinks that these are a good idea? Or indeed, not a privacy concern for other unconsenting people?

So on that basis:

YABU - what is your actual problem? There’s nothing wrong with them and I have a pair/would buy them
YANBU - legitimate question – I find them creepy AF

OP posts:
concertinacornflake · 15/08/2026 18:03

Victorius19 · 15/08/2026 17:55

I think the bit I'm uncomfortable with is that you can't consent to whether or not you're being filmed in someone's background. We've got CCTV at work and have had to put visible signs up warning people that they are being filmed, yet these glasses allow people to film anywhere, anytime and any way they want to.

Yes this is exactly the issue - the aim is to normalise constant filming without consent.

The footage is all sent to Meta who then own it.

Digerydont · 15/08/2026 18:24

We are being filmed all the time. CCTV is everywhere.

Scaredeycat · 15/08/2026 18:26

@ISpyNoPlumPie you have to activate the recording function, it’s easy to use the glasses without recording being on.

Digerydont · 15/08/2026 18:27

timtamsarebetterthanpenguins · 15/08/2026 16:34

They're amazing for dog walkers - so we can film hands-free and safely when we have issues with the public, and also just for social media in general. I don't own a pair but I know a lot who do and they absolutely love them.

They would be amazing for joggers too. I was bitten by a dog whilst jogging earlier this year. I have had dogs jump on me. Just being barked at by an off lead large dog is scary.

concertinacornflake · 15/08/2026 18:29

Digerydont · 15/08/2026 18:24

We are being filmed all the time. CCTV is everywhere.

CCTV is regulated.

What is happening to young women with Meta glasses-wearers is not happening with CCTV.

AGreatUsername · 15/08/2026 18:30

DH and I both have a pair. They’ve come in really handy for taking pictures while out biking/skating with no phone, we both use them to watch things or listen to audiobooks while doing other tasks. I can see how they could be misused but then again you can also buy tiny remote control cameras people wouldn’t notice so what is the difference.

Screamingabdabz · 15/08/2026 18:35

mrsbinghamsapron · 15/08/2026 15:12

I fucking HATE them. My DSS has some and I don't like him wearing them in our house, makes me feel like he's filming our family and showing it to his mum (fairly certain he isn't but it still feels like an invasion of privacy)

Can you ‘accidentally’ step on them one day? Oops!

DefinitelyNotAFanOfSummer · 15/08/2026 18:36

randomchap · 15/08/2026 15:30

Specs offenders

Bravo!

PineappleSunrise · 15/08/2026 18:40

Sometimesitsmyownfault · 15/08/2026 15:41

I’m buying a pair for skiing, fantastic for filming some runs. There are lots of legitimate reasons for owning them.
Are we advocating that no one can have nice things because some people misuse them?
No electric bikes as some are used by hooligans?
No sports cars as some people will speed in them?
No alcohol - because alchoholics?
Why do we reduce everything down to what the lowest common denominator will do, therefore - ban everything?

I mean, why do we make guns and zombie knives illegal? They’ll be handy for skiing too. Just imagine how fast you’ll move to the front of the lift queue!

I see no reason why a fine person such as yourself should go without just because of a few crims.

Simonjt · 15/08/2026 18:41

A visually impaired friend has a pair, she can now do so much more independently like shopping etc, it also means if there is an issue on public transport etc its easier than trying to use her phone, especially in a normal environment to find a member of staff, or just additional travel information. It also helps her at work as she finds it works better than her screen reader to identify what she needs etc.

New journeys are much easier as her glassee can see when its genuinely time to turn left, rather than her phone telling her to turn now when in reality it can be a good 10-20m too early.

CeramicRoses · 15/08/2026 18:46

These are an extraordinary breakthrough for blind people. I didn’t even know about the filming option, only that my father who has recently lost his sight, just got some and it could potentially open up whole new avenues for independence. I’d suggest removing the filming option before throwing out the baby with the bath water. My father is simply excited about the possibility of being able to read letters and labels in his cupboards without assistance.

edited for typos.

TheCheeryPoet · 15/08/2026 18:48

I’ve had a pair for over a year now and I love them (and am definitely not a pervert!) they are prescription and transition lenses and I mostly use them to listen to music on when out for a walk / run. I also love making hands free calls. I do take photos / videos which I would do normally on a phone anyway (like everyone else) and you can’t cover up the lens to stop people seeing the light as the glasses won’t let you film / take photos.

DanaScullysLegoHair · 15/08/2026 18:49

I'm interested in them to help with my hearing impairment.

flowersplease · 15/08/2026 18:53

timtamsarebetterthanpenguins · 15/08/2026 16:34

They're amazing for dog walkers - so we can film hands-free and safely when we have issues with the public, and also just for social media in general. I don't own a pair but I know a lot who do and they absolutely love them.

Sorry this is off topic but I’m too curious. I’m not a dog walker admittedly but I have three dogs in my household, and walk and additional two, every day so I often get mistaken for one. The dogs range from tiny and cute to big and ‘scary’ (and I must look ridiculous) but every interaction with the public is always pleasant. I don’t live in a naice area or anything. Occasionally an off lead dog will run up to greet us but as none of mine are reactive and Cujo isn’t roaming about it’s always fine.

How many issues are you having with the public to have to consider filming it?!

Weeellokthen · 15/08/2026 18:54

I went to the opticians 2 weeks ago to choose my new glasses. The assistant (f) was showing/gushing about her black, thick rimmed, meta ones and was trying to convince me. I said why would I want them, she said "you can film with them" 😮
Why? Jist why???

Opus3 · 15/08/2026 18:56

ElenOfTheWays · 15/08/2026 15:51

As if a pervert couldn't easily find a way around that.
We ALL know the lengths to which creepy men will go to to be creepy.
There's probably already a hack available or they can just stick electrical tape over the light.
Don't be so naive

They already did. Covering the light. Removing it etc.

Meta had to install an update so the glasses can't record with the light removed. Dunno if they can do that with it just being covered.

ThePeppyOpalScroller · 15/08/2026 18:58

Femalemachinest · 15/08/2026 17:06

People in this thread alone have stated multiple uses none of which have been to take inappropriate videos....

People can also take videos on their phone without you knowing.

Not really. The phone has to be somewhere it can see you, therefore you will be able to see the phone. Are you really that gullable?

ThePeppyOpalScroller · 15/08/2026 18:59

NannyR · 15/08/2026 16:18

I recently saw a facebook reel of a young girl who was completely blind going shopping in a toyshop with these glasses. The glasses were able to tell her all about the toys she was looking at, what the dolls were wearing, what their names were etc. I thought they were a brilliant invention, to allow people independence and not have to rely on another person.

They dont need video recording capability for that.

notagainyoufool · 16/08/2026 04:04

concertinacornflake · 15/08/2026 16:28

Pretty grim for all the people they are filming without consent.

I understand the privacy concerns around Meta glasses, but calling someone “pretty grim” for using them is completely uncalled for. They have plenty of uses beyond filming. My DD’s have been able to use them for translation, directions, information about where you they are, accessibility and so on. And if you’ve travelled around Asia, you’ll know people are constantly taking photos and videos in public. Perhaps get out and see a bit more of the world before having such a narrow, stubborn view.

Femalemachinest · 16/08/2026 10:51

ThePeppyOpalScroller · 15/08/2026 18:58

Not really. The phone has to be somewhere it can see you, therefore you will be able to see the phone. Are you really that gullable?

So if someone is holding there phone how do you know what theyre doing on it? I am typing right now and could quite easily have my camera open pretending to write something. I know someone who has a privacy case, cant see what theyre doing stood next to them.... are you really that gullible?

TiredShadows · 16/08/2026 12:08

Like a lot of technology, these types of glasses have their benefits and their concerns. Neither law or culture has really caught up on either.

I have concerns around all the data being in the hands of US companies which brings them under different US laws, and out of control of our own.

I also have concerns it would bring hostility towards anyone wearing glasses that are remotely like the meta glasses, and that it will cause those using them for disability-related accessibility needs more anguish than it already is. I can the potential of a demand of these types of glasses without the recording function if the accessibility features can work without that.

There are also issues that there are public places that do not allow filming, and there have been issues with these glasses, with people claiming to forget - some who are likely honest, some who aren't, but the staff having to deal with it are often not getting any support.

I've received emails at work around keeping an eye out for these glasses and how we have to ensure they aren't recording with no other support for customer-facing staff. We have signs about no filming or audio recordings at all in the building, it's procedure for all phones to be off and away in certain parts, but staff have so much else to do, checking every person's glasses is not going to work, just like not all phones can be checked already - staff just keep an eye out for certain behaviours that could be a sign of people recording. That's going to be harder with these glasses.

Thankfully I've not yet had to deal with it, but I know on nearby sites there have been multiple issues including with glasses found to be recording without any perceivable light. One case I know was significant enough that police were involved, the recording reviewed, and it turned out they had been filming everywhere in the building including in the toilets and in court hearings, as well as in nearby shops (it was noted that other people's card numbers had been visible when the glasses are supposedly meant to blur that type of thing on recordings, I've no idea). This is what sparked emails across the region.

ClaredeBear · 16/08/2026 12:16

Close family member is blind. I’m all for them.

PicaK · 16/08/2026 12:23

My friend who is partially sighted has them.
They read the menu to her
They tell her what display signs say - particularly useful at train stations or airports.
They take amazing photos.
They've enhanced her life

UniquePinkSwan · 16/08/2026 12:33

worcesterpear · 15/08/2026 16:04

I think they're mostly aimed at men, noticed they had them in Vision Express, a special display in the men's section but couldn't see any in the women's. Put me off Vision Express a bit.

No they aren’t

TheFormerMrsTruelove · 16/08/2026 12:42

Bunnyofhope · 15/08/2026 17:12

Why is it grim? It's just life. We don't have a right to privacy in a public place.

It’s terrifying that you and so many others are of this mindset. It might be legal, but it’s morally reprehensible that stepping outside your front door is seen as consent to have your image broadcast to anyone in the world, for any purpose, forever, by any twat who is too useless to get a proper job and not talented enough to make a name for themselves in any other way. How is that not grim as fuck? It’s bad enough that the entire world seems to have ring doorbells so you can’t turn your kitchen light on at 3am without the neighbours opposite having a record of it, but that you can’t give a seemingly random man directions without worrying that he’s going to do something horrible with your image is just unacceptable.

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