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AIBU to think heatwave barbecue reactions are starting to feel a bit Covid?

309 replies

PatioDwellers · Today 08:53

To think the bbq/fires in the heatwave responses have the air of Covid about them …

’my neighbour is having a bbq what should I do’, Ring 101, call the fire brigade, take photos, people will die!

tinfoil bbqs in the countryside, tossers and rightly banned.

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HJC88 · Today 13:10

Wow, just cook the food using your indoor cooker, grill, oven, air fryer and serve it outside. Get some barbecue seasoning, char it a bit if you like it black on the outside and raw on the inside and move on.

Asking us not to have barbecues or use fire pits, Chinese lanterns and fireworks is just common sense and anyone not recognising this fact actually needed that warning because they're clearly very very stupid.

PuppyKeep · Today 13:11

Hope they also warn about throwing cigarette ends - has anything been said about that?

MyMiniMetro · Today 13:11

If you don’t like your garden fence or patio furniture, sure leave the neighbours to their barbecue.

I never fail to be astounded by the scale of public stupidity.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · Today 13:11

WindsorGreatPark · Today 09:08

Agree.

Its the hoiking of judgey pants, holier than though attitude. People are seeing themselves as bastions of moral perfection and looking for opportunities to report others for their failure to comply.

Is it ‘moral perfection’ or ‘not wanting people to lose their houses and possibly their lives due to an unnecessary fire’, @WindsorGreatPark?

Seriously - people are being asked to avoid an unnecessary leisure activity, to reduce the risk of wildfires - why is that a bad thing? Is anyone dying from the lack of BBQed food?

Ask the people in Stourbridge, who have lost their homes, whether they think this advice is bad, or that people who are supporting it are ‘holier than thou’. I bet they’d prefer that no-one else goes through what they are going through. Ask the fire fighters, estate workers and farmers who are putting themselves at risk fighting these fires if they think it is a bad idea to avoid naked flames when the country is tinderbox dry.

IdaGlossop · Today 13:12

Well. Let me think.

Are we being asked to stay at home to save lives? No
Are our children's schools being closed? No
Are we having to wear masks? No (but I've put one one to help me tune into that Covid vibe)
Are we talking to our friends at a distance of several metres? No
Are we watching daily briefings on infection rates from the Chief Medical Officer? No
Are we standing by our gateposts clapping for carers? No

I am struggling to see any similarities so far but will dedicate the rest of my day to trying to find at least one.

dontmalbeconme · Today 13:16

HJC88 · Today 13:10

Wow, just cook the food using your indoor cooker, grill, oven, air fryer and serve it outside. Get some barbecue seasoning, char it a bit if you like it black on the outside and raw on the inside and move on.

Asking us not to have barbecues or use fire pits, Chinese lanterns and fireworks is just common sense and anyone not recognising this fact actually needed that warning because they're clearly very very stupid.

No, I'll safely and responsibly use my gas barbeque on my concrete patio. Why would I not? It doesn't have the same risk profile as the banned disposable BBQs on dry grass.

Chaibiscuits · Today 13:18

If we were a bit brighter and more considerate we would not have to be told to not have BBQs, fireworks, campfires etc by the government. We would just know not to do it. But we don’t so we have to be told and then some people complain they don’t like being told what to do 🙄

Minimarmite1 · Today 13:21

Here in Australia we have total fire ban days every summer. We can usually use gas bbqs providing they are fit for purpose and we meet certain conditions (eg close access to water) but no charcoal or wood. I don’t think you can even buy disposable bbqs. Welding etc is not allowed on those days either.

NotAtMyAge · Today 13:24

PatioDwellers · Today 08:53

To think the bbq/fires in the heatwave responses have the air of Covid about them …

’my neighbour is having a bbq what should I do’, Ring 101, call the fire brigade, take photos, people will die!

tinfoil bbqs in the countryside, tossers and rightly banned.

Given that out here in the rural Welsh countryside we had to keep our doors and windows shut for two days this week because of smoke from wildfires between 25 and 80 miles away from us, I think anyone who creates a naked flame outside unnecessarily until it rains properly is deeply irresponsible. And no, a barbecue doesn't count as necessary.

WimbyAce · Today 13:24

PuppyKeep · Today 13:11

Hope they also warn about throwing cigarette ends - has anything been said about that?

Agreed, someone set fire to the bin at msons the other week doing this.

BlueMum16 · Today 13:25

TemperanceWest · Today 11:23

Yes, I should have specified no-one needs a disposable bbq. My error. I thought it would be obvious what I was talking about as that was what was specified on the alert.

Having said that personally I wouldn't use a charcoal bbq of any kind right now. But everyone needs to make their own judgement. There are wildfires raging where I am and I can smell the smoke in my house right now. That has made me wary of doing anything that might cause problems, however small the chance.

Edited

I agree it's personal choice.

HJC88 · Today 13:25

dontmalbeconme · Today 13:16

No, I'll safely and responsibly use my gas barbeque on my concrete patio. Why would I not? It doesn't have the same risk profile as the banned disposable BBQs on dry grass.

I rest my case.

nomoreforks · Today 13:26

We have a gas outdoor BBQ. There is zero fire risk as it is on tiles. The alert did not ban gas BBQs. If it did I would not use. As it did not ban outdoor gas BBQ then will continue to use unless rules change.

PeachMelbaYoghurt · Today 13:27

Ablondiebutagoody · Today 09:01

I hear you. People love an excuse to act morally superior and tell others how to behave.

Yep, agree.

I definitely get the point you are making @PatioDwellers !!

Rpop · Today 13:27

WindsorGreatPark · Today 13:02

It has also emboldened all the idiots who are itching to denounce their neighbours to the state for any sort of perceived transgression

Yes….both extremes. True.

dont light a bloody bbq.
don’t look out for opportunities to report on everyone.

Rpop · Today 13:31

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 13:09

We’re not divided at all. What a weird thing to say. How do you know there weren’t these exact conversations on the Spanish and French versions of mumsnet?

Perhaps I’m misreading mumsnet - lots of divided opinions surely?

it doesn’t matter what the other mumsnets were saying. You made the point that we were judging ourselves differently to how we were viewing our European counterparts. Their discussions on their own mumsnets are irrelevant.

dontmalbeconme · Today 13:35

HJC88 · Today 13:25

I rest my case.

What is "your case?"

An inability to read and interpret information?
An inability to risk assess?

I will continue to safely use my responsibly sited gas barbecue, beause it does not pose a high fire risk.

I will obviously not carry out any activities that do have an associated high fire risk, e.g disposible BBQs.

Just because they are both BBQs, it doesn't mean they have the same risk profile.

MrsVBS · Today 13:35

It’s nothing like Covid it’s about using your brain to see it’s bone dry in most places, grass is like straw and all it takes is one spark to cause huge issues for an already very stretched fire service. Most people are sensible but there will always be one idiot who takes a disposable bbq to a picnic site and just discards it.

MiGrayn · Today 13:38

OP I agree that the tone of preaching and sanctimony is strong.

MiGrayn · Today 13:40

covilha · Today 10:15

can believe someone even asked this.
HOMES ARE BURNING.

DO NOT have that BBQ Op
And while I am no switch I would report you for lighting a BBQ if you were my neighbour. The safety of yourself and your family and preservation of everything you worked for may mean nothing to you but I won’t let you compromise mine.
And if that doesn’t deter you, how do you think social services will respond when they receive the referral from emergency services the next day?

Oh dear

Rpop · Today 13:41

Toomanycatsandkids · Today 13:10

It’s strange that 2 people can can have an entirely different view and believe they are both right.

I’m cracking on 50, married, run my own business, 3 children ( who I’ve managed to not kill) own my own home, have 2 cats who won’t run away. I feel I can risk access my own danger of a posh BBQ on my lovely concrete patio - and I can do all this with out calling people who disagree names.

And I do wonder whether if those people who do get highly strung over government ‘advice’ have a correlation with those that like to call names and throw insults about.

Usually, intend to go for fairly middling views. I don’t tend to see one extreme as right over the other.
But equally when it’s a bit of a worrying situation and people are losing so much, I think it’s right to play safe.

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 13:44

HJC88 · Today 13:25

I rest my case.

You haven’t made any case

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 13:46

Rpop · Today 13:31

Perhaps I’m misreading mumsnet - lots of divided opinions surely?

it doesn’t matter what the other mumsnets were saying. You made the point that we were judging ourselves differently to how we were viewing our European counterparts. Their discussions on their own mumsnets are irrelevant.

Because you’ve made the decision that British people are divided about wildfires and Spanish French and Greek people weren’t, without having a clue what kind of discussions were happening in those countries?

MiGrayn · Today 13:57

IdaGlossop · Today 13:12

Well. Let me think.

Are we being asked to stay at home to save lives? No
Are our children's schools being closed? No
Are we having to wear masks? No (but I've put one one to help me tune into that Covid vibe)
Are we talking to our friends at a distance of several metres? No
Are we watching daily briefings on infection rates from the Chief Medical Officer? No
Are we standing by our gateposts clapping for carers? No

I am struggling to see any similarities so far but will dedicate the rest of my day to trying to find at least one.

You really haven’t understood the OP have you?

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